QUOTE(closeup @ Aug 8 2006, 10:45 PM)
Plus, I don't NEED to trash anyone or anything.
One of the few things you've posted recently that I completely agree with. There's never a need for it.
One of the few things you've posted recently that I completely agree with. There's never a need for it.
This had me rolling, Sort of like when you said I needed to put on the dunce cap and sit in the corner when YOU COULD NOT FIGURE OUT HOW TO LOG IN. And said your favorite avatar was gone for good. Yet being the nice generous person I am I found it and posted it for you.
In Lynette's defense, when a woman questions something about another woman it does not mean she is jealous or insecure. I have seen you Closeup make this comment more than once and I would hope most of us woman here would laugh cause we know better. I am an honest upfront person, if you ask me how your hair looks I am gonna tell you the truth IMO. I will not be nice for the sake of being nice when you ask. That doesn't make me jealous or insecure. I have full admiration for a beautiful woman and will tell her if I think she is pretty or sexy or hot. I can give a woman props. I have high standards for what I find in a hot sexy woman. So no I ain't jealous of a beautiful woman, but if a woman opens herself up for scrutiny or wants opinions me giving her that opinion isn't jealousy.
You made comment to one of my posts once calling me jealous when someone asked for an opinion. It seems a lot of men automatically assume another woman must be being catty or jealous if she isn't throwing another woman compliments. This isn't true. Are some woman catty and jealous and insecure, SURE but I think on a site like this when most the active woman here show there admiration for the other ladies that it is a small percent of woman that are jealous. And if they are they will activly admit it. Like I have told Hott and Wigglez I am totally jealous of there bodies. But not jealous in a mean or nasty way.
Posting the girls picture **although I would love to know who's it was, Hint Hint Bondi or Lynette if you can PM me to tell me** wasn't right and I would think looking back Lynette can probably see that although she has a valid question, posting someones pic in here to call them fat and old didn't need to happen cause it is mean and hurtful to any person.
But aside from that it does make you wonder, maybe most girls have higher standards when they vote than a lot of men. Not all men obviously I know Bondi has some pretty high standards, but when you take that it is gonna make us question more how some pics get high votes and others score so low. Questioning that isn't a sign of anything more than curiosity.
I fully realize my body doesn't meet my own standards of what I like to see. I don't expect to get high scores. Decent ones sure cause although I do not have the body of a fitness model, and am not stick thin, I am also not "big and round" and I do think although they are a little bigger than I would like i have nice tits.
We should be able to leave honest feedback on the pics if anything it could help but we do not need to allow nasty rude comments to be made to the pics and if someone isn't capable of of distinguishing between constructive criticism and nastiness than I question if they are old enough to be here.
For any of the people here who think it is wrong not to be allowed to leave nasty or rude comments, I have to ask you, WHY?? Are you not capable of leaving a comment with a bit of advice or honesty without it being mean and nasty.
Is it really that hard to say this picture would be a lot better if you did this, or tried this as opposed to saying, your a nasty ass cunt.