QUOTE(Lynette @ Aug 19 2008, 07:47 PM)
OK... I'm curious again due to a conversation I had over the weekend with a bunch of friends... How long does it usually take before you know for sure that your wife, girlfriend, lover is fully aroused and on her way to great sex? Most all the guys in the group told me that they felt it usually took a little foreplay and time to really warm up their partner. I've heard that, but I've always felt that I must have the sex driv of a man because I usually cum two or three times before the guy really gets going. I can pretty much time my biggest orgasm to hit me at the same time I think he's ready to squirt. I've always felt my sexual appitite was a plus, and I've always enjoyed sex. But, by the response of some of the gals in the group, I kind of felt like some kind of freak. Only one of the girls walked up to me later and told me that she thought I was extremely lucky to be able to "turn on so fast". Do any of you guys have a female partner like me. Or, are any of you women able to get turned on immediately and cum over and over again? I think it's just that I tune into every sight and am very aware of everything a guy's doing to me. Well you should feel lucky. But don't think you are a freak. An old line from Al Franken's character Stewart Smally was " Compare and Despair"
And it holds true to a sexual appetite.
There is no such thing as a "normal" sexual appetite because sexual appetites vary person to person. So YOUR sexual appetite is normal for you
That is the best thing I love about you girls. That each of you are different. Different likes, different dislikes and most importantly each of you has a different thing or set of things that makes you cum the hardest. And it is up to us guys to find that out
It is our main mission
Now you have a group of " sex gods " that think just because they can put their cock in a hole and move it in and out, they have mastered the art of sex. And to be honest there are a group of girls out there in which that very simplistic act is all they need to get off the hardest. But every woman is different when it comes to getting off. A "sex god's" caveman in and out approach isn't going to work on every women he meets.
Ever wonder why you see a severe mismatch in a couple like a ugly dude with a hot girl or vice versa, fat dude thin girl, etc etc. It is because they are sexual matches. they have made each other cum so hard that there was no other person that ever made them cum like that before. And you don't want to lose someone that can make you feel like that.
The way I knew my last ex girlfriend was ready was that she became extremely wet and it didn't take her long either. Its a plus that I know what a clitoris is for
She had a high lidido which suited me just fine. But the bullshit to orgasm ratio became too lopsided that is why she is an ex. But that is a whole different topic
So don't feel "different" Lynette just because you get wet quicker than other women do.
You get wet just perfect for you