Gardening, animals, cooking, making love, not necessarily in that order. Recently we opened up to a small group of very trusted friends for occasional get togethers that include sex without boundaries, within reason anyway. It's been fun and exciting. We've gotten together three times as a group and I've seen a couple of them separately for sex various times in between. So far it's been great and hasn't had any negative effects on our marriage as we all know each other quite well and respect each other.