QUOTE(baby21 @ Mar 20 2007, 09:18 PM)
I go quicker than my boy...
I have to work for it, so normally it's not an issue.
We'll slow it down or switch positions or stop for a few seconds if he's really close and we want to keep going.
Same for me too. I don't want to say I'm an 'easy O' but once you figure me out it's not hard... My boyfriend can get one.. two.. three out of me in under a minute if he wants, just with his hands. Then again even once we're having sex if I'm on top I'm the one who has to try to hold myself back so I don't cum after ten seconds (although... he always reminds me that I can have as many as I like so I don't have to worry about it... heh.) Of course it isn't always fun to give someone what they want right away. I actually don't care whether my boyfriend comes fast or not. Then again fast is relative to us... quickies are still like 10-15 minutes, warrenting me at least two orgasms. <3
I think the best way to go is start with some foreplay (...i consider oral foreplay) and then each time the guy is on the verge of orgasm slow it down a bit - lick his cock clean (and if you're a well endowed girl, don't underestimate the greatness of titty-fucking). Give him a minute to cool down but make sure you don't stop completely! You don't want him to go soft... you just want to draw out the climax.
Then again if you have a girl who really enjoys being on top, like I do, it's just a matter of switching up the rhymth. Riding away like a crazy person will make anyone cum quickly. Learn how to move yer hips properly and switch it up!
Then again I know a lot of girls aren't up for much work. I don't really know what to say to them, so... they have to find their own way.