QUOTE(Carole @ Aug 25 2006, 11:32 AM)
I'm new here ?? Compare member #'s and join-dates. I'm active when I choose to be.
Indeed this site is *primarily* about women but I've seen more than a few swinging dicks posted here, in fact there's an entire forum topic dedicated to it, but it's ok, I understand your reluctance.
It must be nice to have all your photos come out perfect, I'm not quite that superficial. Time goes on & bodies change, I can accept what's on the outside I just think it's a shame some folks are so ugly on the *inside*. Believe it or not I too see photos here and elsewhere that do not impress me & you know what I do when I come across one ?? I move on until I see another one I *do* like, but just because I'm not aattracted to them doesn't mean I feel the need to berate & belittle them. I'm secure enough with my body and my sexuality to not feel threatened by that kind of ugliness, I just think it's sad.
Indeed this site is *primarily* about women but I've seen more than a few swinging dicks posted here, in fact there's an entire forum topic dedicated to it, but it's ok, I understand your reluctance.
It must be nice to have all your photos come out perfect, I'm not quite that superficial. Time goes on & bodies change, I can accept what's on the outside I just think it's a shame some folks are so ugly on the *inside*. Believe it or not I too see photos here and elsewhere that do not impress me & you know what I do when I come across one ?? I move on until I see another one I *do* like, but just because I'm not aattracted to them doesn't mean I feel the need to berate & belittle them. I'm secure enough with my body and my sexuality to not feel threatened by that kind of ugliness, I just think it's sad.
you may have signed up earlier, but your first post since the board was redone i don't know how many years ago was *gasp* yesterday... but that's really neither here nor there.
i have never claimed that pictures of me are perfect... all i said was that i take care of myself because i actually give a damn about how i look. and with regards to the women on this site, not all of their pictures are perfect either... some are better than others and they know that (that goes for comparing woman to woman and picture to picture of the same person). hence the reason that you can rate how good of a picture you think it is...
...but you see, here is the crux of the argument. in case you hadn't noticed, you joined a RATINGS SITE. by doing so, you open yourself up to be rated, i.e. judged, by other people... if you want the good ratings and corresponding comments, then the converse must also be true... you should also be willing to accept the low ratings and negative ones. if you don't think that's fair, then don't join...
i'm not here to give people a boost in self-esteem... if you are comfortable in your body and sexuality, that's fine by me... but you shouldn't expect me to share your opinion
