Ladies, if your could give men one or two pieces of advice when it comes to the bedroom, what would they be?

feel free to discuss things from "taking it slow", to techniques, to spots to hit, etc... we could be talking about foreplay or oral, or sex... and it could be things to make sure you definitely do, or make sure to definitely avoid...

i know these threads fall apart rather quickly (i'm guilty of it myself a lot, lol), but let's see if we can keep a semi-serious discussion going...

well J it sounds like you need some new techniques now your g/f has come to stay!

J has techniques? wow....i guess theres a first time for everything!

ooh, naraz... this is NOT an area where i think you want to rumble

as dirty as it feels I agree with jrock haha. Narazbad is your technique...
GET COCK INTO PUSSY? haha

Nice thread.... hope to see some feedback

just go with the flow is what i always say!

Don't rush the foreplay, it's just as important!!

Fore........p l a y??????


haha just fucking with ya

We ladies don't like the "wham bam thank you man"!!!
Well, not all the time

I see.... *furiously writes down these tips* haha

If the mood is right! Then I'm sure you'll enjoy what ever position you both take on

If that don't work - get a copy of the Karma Sutra and experiment!!! Hehehehe

Will you help me practice sussed?

Yeah, like you need practice wise guy!!!!

sussed,practice makes perfect,so please help me

this thread is great, hope to see more advice!

my sexual knowledge is limited to: insert somewhere close and preferably moist; thrust; repeat

1) guys remember girls dont do pissy dicks!! thats for starters!! hygiene is very important

2) A woman wants to feel sexy/attractive/wanted so we like to be treated like that not just sex machines

3) little surprises are always nice not overly great gestures just ones that let us know you want us for more than just sex!

4) us women like oral sex too so dont expect just us to do the business!

5) and also yes us ladies like to cuddle up to you after sex and it is deemed rude to rollover and fart afterwards

6) Us ladies do like to do several positions in one session so don't be afraid to ask

7) Don't be afraid to ask if you can use our sex toys on us...it's nice to get the man involved

These are a few tips really that always help

once again, juicy shows us why she's awesome... thanks hun

as far as #3 goes... what kinds of little surprises are you talking about/do you really like?

just things that make a girl feel special little things like goin to the shop and just buyin ya girl something that you usually wouldnt...my hubby goes to the shop and occasionally brings me a lotto scratchcard which doesnt cost much but it always makes me feel warm inside for him just thinking of me when I wasnt there......ok now she waits for the piss takin

no "piss takin" here juicy... but you can have something else if you want

also....flowers work if your girl is pist and feels like the world is against her those are the things that I like and mean more than most things

lol...whos to say i have a technique? remember..one time boy over here... i hardly had time to figure out what the fuck i was doing! rofl

and by that time it was over

aww, naraz, you didn't mention your one time was with gnapp... i hope he was gentle at least...

fuck no, i didn't even have the common courtesy to give him a reach around.

damnit J, you had to bring that up didnt you! i had blocked that trauma out of my mind!! *bawls*

alright, so i was reading the "girls who squirt" thread and thought that it seemed like the ultimate thing to be able to get a girl to do...

so, since it seems to fit well w/this thread, from those women that are able to do it, how do you need to be stimulated for it to happen? does it only happen during oral/fingering, or also through sex? does the build-up to it feel different than for a normal orgasm so she'll know what to feel for?

well i'm a dude, but I can give some advice on how to get your girl to squirt, or how to do it if you are a female.

last night, my lady opened the floodgates, so to speak. so try this method if you're looking to make your lady cum really hard.
prop her butt up with some pillows or get her to arch her hips in the air, so that when you're fucking her you're nailing her g-spot each thrust(if you don't know what a g-spot is or where to find it, google it). At the same time rub her clit, or she can do it or use a vibrator or whatever. Do this long and hard enuff and she bound to squirt like a geyser. But every person's different so experiment lol.

apparently it's in the middle of north dakota... who knew? i guess that's why it's so hard to find

well that explains SOME of your problems

I gotta agree with the gnappster... I can make myself squirt by shoving one of these babies in me[attachmentid=3544] while using a vibrator to rub my clit! Works like a charm!

uhh what IS that?

They call them "eggs", some come with a tail like that and some are just smooooth!

what's the black part? battery pack? does the thing vibrate, inflate, or what? and how big is it?

OK..OK..OK.... The black part holds the batteries... there is a cord (wouldn't want to lose it! lol ). The thing vibrates and the little tail is great!

hmm, sounds like it could be fun...


now, for everyone that doesn't have one of those... if you're relying on, say, your good ole' fingers to stimulate her g-spot, what kind of pressure do you need to use? i've read some stuff that says standard stimulation (like when you rub her clit) simply isn't hard enough... also, how much stimulation/length of time does it usually take for one of these orgasms to build? same as for clitoral ones, more, less, varies?... thoughts?

Every one is different, the first time it happened to me I was 17 years old didn't have a clue as to what just happened... we were just having "straight-up sex" when I thought I pissed myself or something! My "much more expercienced" partner explained to me what happened. I think the g-spot is the key, once you find it, bang away baby! As far as length of time and how much stimulation.... again everyone is different.

yeah the g-spot is the key me thinks, hence, propping up her butt so that you're rubbing it while plugging away. I would tend to think you should have sex from every which way so she is good and warmed up then finish in the manner stated previous. Gotta make sure you stimulate the clit though, or you may never get her there.
Sometimes it only takes a couple minutes but everyone is different.

haha well you can't blame a guy for trying... but like someone said practice makes perfect. Its aways good to get another viewpoint on things! haha

Juicy- nice tips hun, I also like several positions in one session and I keep my personal hygiene at a maximum level at all times!

I never doubted you hun...but I am sure not all men are like you!

well, modesty not being a strong point... I'd have to agree with you, though on the same hand, not all women are like you sexy

i am digging this thread up!! and this quote seems like a good place to start.

foreplay...sometimes it needs to start a lot earlier in the day than a man thinks...like give her a fucking phone call while u are still at work and tell her something u just cant wait to come home and do sexually with her. she will anticipate it and be more than ready when the evening comes...and the man will probably get a better than average dinner cooked for him too!

one place boanna loves to do some foreplay on him is anywhere that he cannot do a damn thing about it! it teases the hell out of him and i love it! like when he is driving the truck (yea, i know, somewhere in another thread many of us folks who have vehicle sex got really slammed for this cause someone said it was a hazard to other drivers....i guess it would be cause our truck is high and other drivers cant see in...so it would be a hazard to them if they saw my head come up and down but couldnt see the real action! )

but we dont always want foreplay, or at least boanna doesnt. sometimes enough is enough and i just need the dang cock in me already, so get after it! or if we are taping it and the video on my camera only allows for 3 minute videos! then i have to decide...do we wanna tape some foreplay or just the fucking on this one?

tv watching during sex...this means u were watching tv and started messing around...it doesnt mean u start to mess around, then turned on the tv (the latter to me would be a sign that i needed to get a good lawyer!) if the tv happens to be on, the only tv boanna allows on during sex is a baseball game! (i get a rise out of all those men in their tight uniforms, and then theres the wood, and all those balls....)

final piece of advice...when you are done, that doesnt mean we are done. so dont roll over and grab the remote, or take off to the kitchen for some cookies and milk, until the look of raw animal insticts is gone from my eye.

umm, marry me?


eh, screw that, i don't need that kind of committment... let's just fuck lol

wow , that's actually pretty insightful...what's it doing posted here haha.



but how do we know which it is???

I'm with you BO


Sometimes just pull my pants off & fuck me

Other times push me to my knees & stick your cock in my mouth.

i LOVE your idea of foreplay

its posted here cause felt like digging this thread up.

u will know which mood i am in....its easy to tell...if i grab your cock and shove it inside me, thats a dead giveaway that i am not interested in too much foreplay.

but if i dont even take my panties off, just pull the crotch of them to one side and then shove your cock in me, then its pretty much obvious i didnt want any foreplay at all!

i think I got it, but just to be sure how bout some pictorial aids