I figure that is different... He didn't rant and rave and he actually allowed you to do it in the first place and then he told you he felt uncomforted by it, and you respected his wishes.

I actually encouraged PD to post pics on this site. We used to post pics over on yafro.com but the community totally sucked and I encouraged her to try this place instead and well, here we are.  I think that if you have a good looking woman *yes I do realize this, i'm not Mr. Bo jr* that wants to share what she has with people on the internet whom neither of us know and are hiding our true identity *as much that can be done online these days* then so be it. She enjoys it and I enjoy supporting her, so it's no big deal. 

Not to mention I get to take all these hot pics *yes I'm a lucky bastard *

If any guy feels threatened by a bunch of horny avatars* I mean that in the most respectful way possible haha* on a forum, then they have more serious problems than their g/f or wife posting pictures of herself on the internet.

He thought he had "it" figured out, but then they changed what "it" was.

Yay Bondi and I are on the same page!

I actually encouraged PD to post pics on this site. We used to post pics over on yafro.com but the community totally sucked and I encouraged her to try this place instead and well, here we are.  I think that if you have a good looking woman *yes I do realize this, i'm not Mr. Bo jr* that wants to share what she has with people on the internet whom neither of us know and are hiding our true identity *as much that can be done online these days* then so be it. She enjoys it and I enjoy supporting her, so it's no big deal. 

Not to mention I get to take all these hot pics *yes I'm a lucky bastard *

If any guy feels threatened by a bunch of horny avatars* I mean that in the most respectful way possible haha* on a forum, then they have more serious problems than their g/f or wife posting pictures of herself on the internet.

This isn't the view of RMM or its owner or anything... this is just MY opinion.
Just because your wife/girlfriend posts her tits on this site.  It DOESN'T mean shes trying to dump you for a website.  Maybe she just likes the admiration of her breasts from a group of strangers or maybe she likes the compliments she gets on her body.  Making her take down her pics because you are so god damned insecure in your relationship that you can't handle the fact your girlfriend/wife may be attractive to other people is kinda stupid.
This is just an extra activity.  The thing is you are missing gist the benefit... We get your gf/wife all hot and bothered and YOU get to play with those tits in real life.  We get her wet.. YOU get to have sex with her... and the fact is SHE wants to have sex with YOU not this website.... you fucking morons....

So quit giving your Gfs/Wives grief just because she wants to show her tits.  Those tits are YOURS and HERS not OURS we just get to look at them..... and jerk off..
Alot of you RMM BF's and Hubbys are cool as hell and I thank you personally for letting us lusters admire your wife's GF's bodies
To the jealous ones.... 
I would love to hear a retort from a jealous hubby or BF on this issue... Lemme know why you are having a shit hemorrage just because your wife/gf likes to show her body.    Go marry a fucking nun if you can't deal.

I'm moved in and settled in btw.... I'm back

after reading this thread at 2am yesterday, i decided not to post right then.  it would have been a post you wish you never read!

my first thought was...THERE IS A GOD!  thank u c-man for your insite. 

mr bo knows i am here, and he knows why i am here. to get the compliments that he chooses not to give.  heck, he wont even vote for my pics. need i say more?  women love compliments. they make us feel pretty, sexy, special...and the older we get, the more we need you to give them to us.  if you cant come up with any, then lie, for our sakes!    well, he was not happy when he read some of my posts, all the pretend fucking and sucking...he says i wanna be a porn star!  NOT! if i wanted to be a porn star, i'd go somewhere where i could charge an arm and a leg, not to a place like this.  porn stars arent in that line of work for compliments. its a totally different thing.  to me, this site is simply a form of adult entertainment. no ones really fucking...just a bunch of women who show some boobies and get complimented for it. everyones happy with that.  the forum is an extra benefit...a place we can come to and talk about whatever the hell we want.  my sister spends countless hours in a republican forum.  thats what she likes so thats what she does.  i like talking about, well, all the stuff we talk about here.

c-man, u said that the husbands and boyfriends are the ones who actually get to touch our boobies...all u get here is to look at them.  theres where i differ somewhat, ok, a lot.  its common knowledge here that boanna just doesnt get enough sex. not near enough boobie touching.  maybe thats why i talk about sex so much here.  it fills the void.  mr bo would say, well if i didnt bitch so much about not getting sex, he'd put out more.      its not bitching. i call it just having to ask over and over TO SEE SOME DICK!  even if he wants to call it bitching, whats the best remedy for a woman bitching about lack of sex? how bout when she opens her mouth, stick a dick in it before she can say one word!  makes both people happy!

mr bo doesnt come out and say, get off that site.  why? cause he knows that i would say, then u stop your form of adult entertainment....get rid of your secret email address where u receive all the porn you look at.  i am wise enough to know he's looking, but he isnt fucking them.  another reason he wont tell me to quit is cause then he is the only man left with the responsibility to compliment me!  he doesnt want to compliment, for whatever reason (i think its just laziness in a relationship that would make a man not compliment his lady), so i am actually doing him a favor by being here....i read all your compliments and enjoy them, and that takes some pressure off him to try and come up with a nice thing to say to me.  here's a thought...go read some of the comments on my pics, memorize them, throw in a few of your own words...there u have it! instant compliment that you couldnt come up with by yourself!

if mr bo stepped up to the plate where he needs to, and then asked me to leave this site, i would do it in a heart beat. cause the bottom line is that my relationship is what matters the most.  but getting off simply because he is having some jealous fit cause he discovered i am getting the compliments anyway, i think that would be very controling and i wouldnt like it.

i think what really bothered him the most, but he would never admit it, is not the boobie pics, but the things said in the threads.  maybe he doesnt really listen when i tell him how important sex is to me. when he comes here and reads the stuff i post, it is a shocker.  "dang, i never knew my wife was that sexy or that horny!"  well, i am.

No what im with isn't it, and what's it, seems strange and unusual to me
Always....
No will ur bf let me have sex with you?
It was these reasons you were voted noob of the year

Well it is rather small!

Damn, I guess I missed the award ceremony haha

stop telling secrets 

Great comments bondi

ps..  I love your old school signature gif.  Kisses xoxo

Great comments bondi

ps..  I love your old school signature gif.  Kisses xoxo

From Tera's Hubby,

  I usually leave the writing to Tera but just so you guys know she has my blessing to post and tt guys on this site because I reep the benifits when she signs off all hot and bothered.
  I'm blessed to have a woman as hot as her and showing her off is my way of bragging.I know i'm not suppossed to brag but i'm weak when it comes to her, she's sexier to me today then when we met over 10 yrs ago.
Plus,,,she doesn't mind me admiring the other many fine women on this site!

From Tera's Hubby,

  I usually leave the writing to Tera but just so you guys know she has my blessing to post and tt guys on this site because I reep the benifits when she signs off all hot and bothered.
  I'm blessed to have a woman as hot as her and showing her off is my way of bragging.I know i'm not suppossed to brag but i'm weak when it comes to her, she's sexier to me today then when we met over 10 yrs ago.
Plus,,,she doesn't mind me admiring the other many fine women on this site!

From Tera's Hubby,

  I usually leave the writing to Tera but just so you guys know she has my blessing to post and tt guys on this site because I reep the benifits when she signs off all hot and bothered.
  I'm blessed to have a woman as hot as her and showing her off is my way of bragging.I know i'm not suppossed to brag but i'm weak when it comes to her, she's sexier to me today then when we met over 10 yrs ago.
Plus,,,she doesn't mind me admiring the other many fine women on this site!

From Tera's Hubby,

  I usually leave the writing to Tera but just so you guys know she has my blessing to post and tt guys on this site because I reep the benifits when she signs off all hot and bothered.
  I'm blessed to have a woman as hot as her and showing her off is my way of bragging.I know i'm not suppossed to brag but i'm weak when it comes to her, she's sexier to me today then when we met over 10 yrs ago.
Plus,,,she doesn't mind me admiring the other many fine women on this site!

From Tera's Hubby,

  I usually leave the writing to Tera but just so you guys know she has my blessing to post and tt guys on this site because I reep the benifits when she signs off all hot and bothered.
  I'm blessed to have a woman as hot as her and showing her off is my way of bragging.I know i'm not suppossed to brag but i'm weak when it comes to her, she's sexier to me today then when we met over 10 yrs ago.
Plus,,,she doesn't mind me admiring the other many fine women on this site!

From Tera's Hubby,

  I usually leave the writing to Tera but just so you guys know she has my blessing to post and tt guys on this site because I reep the benifits when she signs off all hot and bothered.
  I'm blessed to have a woman as hot as her and showing her off is my way of bragging.I know i'm not suppossed to brag but i'm weak when it comes to her, she's sexier to me today then when we met over 10 yrs ago.
Plus,,,she doesn't mind me admiring the other many fine women on this site!

after reading this thread at 2am yesterday, i decided not to post right then.  it would have been a post you wish you never read!

my first thought was...THERE IS A GOD!  thank u c-man for your insite. 

mr bo knows i am here, and he knows why i am here. to get the compliments that he chooses not to give.  heck, he wont even vote for my pics. need i say more?  women love compliments. they make us feel pretty, sexy, special...and the older we get, the more we need you to give them to us.  if you cant come up with any, then lie, for our sakes!    well, he was not happy when he read some of my posts, all the pretend fucking and sucking...he says i wanna be a porn star!  NOT! if i wanted to be a porn star, i'd go somewhere where i could charge an arm and a leg, not to a place like this.  porn stars arent in that line of work for compliments. its a totally different thing.  to me, this site is simply a form of adult entertainment. no ones really fucking...just a bunch of women who show some boobies and get complimented for it. everyones happy with that.  the forum is an extra benefit...a place we can come to and talk about whatever the hell we want.  my sister spends countless hours in a republican forum.  thats what she likes so thats what she does.  i like talking about, well, all the stuff we talk about here.

c-man, u said that the husbands and boyfriends are the ones who actually get to touch our boobies...all u get here is to look at them.  theres where i differ somewhat, ok, a lot.  its common knowledge here that boanna just doesnt get enough sex. not near enough boobie touching.  maybe thats why i talk about sex so much here.  it fills the void.  mr bo would say, well if i didnt bitch so much about not getting sex, he'd put out more.      its not bitching. i call it just having to ask over and over TO SEE SOME DICK!  even if he wants to call it bitching, whats the best remedy for a woman bitching about lack of sex? how bout when she opens her mouth, stick a dick in it before she can say one word!  makes both people happy!

mr bo doesnt come out and say, get off that site.  why? cause he knows that i would say, then u stop your form of adult entertainment....get rid of your secret email address where u receive all the porn you look at.  i am wise enough to know he's looking, but he isnt fucking them.  another reason he wont tell me to quit is cause then he is the only man left with the responsibility to compliment me!  he doesnt want to compliment, for whatever reason (i think its just laziness in a relationship that would make a man not compliment his lady), so i am actually doing him a favor by being here....i read all your compliments and enjoy them, and that takes some pressure off him to try and come up with a nice thing to say to me.  here's a thought...go read some of the comments on my pics, memorize them, throw in a few of your own words...there u have it! instant compliment that you couldnt come up with by yourself!

if mr bo stepped up to the plate where he needs to, and then asked me to leave this site, i would do it in a heart beat. cause the bottom line is that my relationship is what matters the most.  but getting off simply because he is having some jealous fit cause he discovered i am getting the compliments anyway, i think that would be very controling and i wouldnt like it.

i think what really bothered him the most, but he would never admit it, is not the boobie pics, but the things said in the threads.  maybe he doesnt really listen when i tell him how important sex is to me. when he comes here and reads the stuff i post, it is a shocker.  "dang, i never knew my wife was that sexy or that horny!"  well, i am.

I think Bo and I have parallel lives.

I don't have nearly enough sex.  It used to be infrequent but phenomenal, now...non existent.  It fuckin sucks...I am 37 and I want to have some kind of sex all the damned time.  He has taken to buying me toys, and I joke, but nothing really beats the feeling of being close to another person and doing just what feels good for the sake of feeling good.

Mine had the same problem, shit said in threads or pm's, not the boobie pics...but lets face it, if I were getting more attention, I wouldn't be looking for it elsewhere.  He has his own "entertainment" that gets him going, hell...I encourage it, anything to get some!  But it doesn't seem to translate to us.

I try anything to get him going, but it's like he is just not interested.  Ya, I could stand to lose a few, but actually I have and that was a while ago and it has been since then.  What do you do with someone who is just fucking sick of you?

Crap, I am mixing drinking and posting again...lol

I'm going to mix my drinking to this post.

I'm 38 and over the years I might think that I have educated myself on the way the female mind might work, which I'm sure is wrong.  The body I think I have become very skilled at, but I'm always trying to learn new things.

I know this might sound bad, but men really don't realize what they have until it is gone.  We think that the grass is greener on the other side.  In saying this some people i.e. men take for granted the everyday things that women do for us to just make us happy.  I have been there so I can say this.  I lost my first wife because of this simple little fact that no one ever told me about.  The second one was my doing also, but the one thing that she taught me was when you aren't happy say so.  Give them the choices that you present them to make things right and have an open mind during the conversation because not just one person is right.  We all have something that we can improve on.

To answer your question on what do we do with someone that is sick of you?  The correct answer is leave.  I know that there might be other circumstances that make this a hard decision i.e. children.  You have to think of yourself at times like this.  One day they will be gone and then it is just you.  You waited to long to make that choice and now you are in a harder situation to deal with.  In my mind happiness is something everyone deserves and you have to decide what will make you happy no one else can do that for you.  Ever heard of the saying that you can lead the horse to the water, but you can't make him drink.  That applies to us all men and women alike.

It sounds like in this chess game the next move is yours and my heart goes out to you and the choices that you have to make.

Good luck Chickie and make the decision that is right for you.  You and only you can decide that.

This has been a pretty serious thread from the parts I've read. Jealiousy just isn't an emotion I really like of any sort.
That said I can understand how it might suck to "discover" someone you are in a committed relationship to posting themselves nude online. That said it is not the fault of the site or really the "fault" of that person but probably a sign of a different issue or maybe just that she likes the attention. In any relationship communication is the key and that must be remembered as far as I'm concerned.
But hey I'm an idiot so what do I know

Very insightful... and only 60 posts old!

Drunk again so I will post.  I think the word "discover" is a key word that might be missing in this post and alot of others that have been before and might be after this.  If one doesn't present an open mind to a number of issues that might be brought forward then that person might be considered close minded.

The problem from the previous post is the lack of attention of a persons needs.  For example today I told my other that I love the idea of watching her with another woman.  I was told that I'm not happy with what I have.  My happiness and my sexual desire are two different things.

An open relationship in meaning communications is the best type.  How many guys out there in the world have said that they enjoying seeing there other with a person of the same sex, not many.

Be truthful and honest in your life is all anyone can ask for.

Cheers..  Drunk again..

I think I should keep my mouth shut on this topic.  Of all the things i'd like to say, i'm afraid i'd piss quite a few people off.

Oh trust me, I don't care if people get mad. It's all the bullshit you gotta deal with afterwards.  If you havent yet noticed there are always little cliques(sp?) and if you piss one person off all their little cronies wanna bitch about it too.  I just don't have time for that shit but since you got me started (LOL) I will start by saying that anyone that is unhappy needs to start by blaming themselves. Everyone wants to sit around and bitch about what the other person doesnt do for them or what the other person did wrong but who's the fool thats taking it?  No one makes you happy but YOU.  If you want to be happy then make yourself happy.  Also, there's gotta be a reason your other half got tired of you.  No ones perfect.  Clean up your side of the street and then see where the relationships at.  If he doesnt want to clean up his AFTER you've done yours then go make yourself happy somewhere else.  Switching the tone a little bit to the original topic on this thread, how the hell is anyone gonna bitch about the jealous husbands?  Maybe it isnt jealousy.  Maybe it's about whats right and wrong.  Unless this was a part of their relationship when they met, this isnt what they said "i do" to.  I'm not a jealous person but if my fiance was talking to other bitches online the way some these married women talk to other men here I'd be fucking pissed.  We are in a commited relationship and he doesnt need to be engaging in any kind of relationship (other than friends) with another women.  No matter what i'm doing wrong.  If his reason is cause he isnt happy with me then he needs to leave me, NOT cheat on me.  Whether its online or not its cheating.  He would be going outside our relationship.  I think it's bullshit to justify it and say "well my husband isnt doing this right and im not happy"  Then leave his ass and do whatever the fuck you want but if you arent going to leave then you should honor your marraige vows.

I'll step down off my soap box now and wait for some replies

I think I should keep my mouth shut on this topic.  Of all the things i'd like to say, i'm afraid i'd piss quite a few people off.

Oh trust me, I don't care if people get mad. It's all the bullshit you gotta deal with afterwards.  If you havent yet noticed there are always little cliques(sp?) and if you piss one person off all their little cronies wanna bitch about it too.  I just don't have time for that shit but since you got me started (LOL) I will start by saying that anyone that is unhappy needs to start by blaming themselves. Everyone wants to sit around and bitch about what the other person doesnt do for them or what the other person did wrong but who's the fool thats taking it?  No one makes you happy but YOU.  If you want to be happy then make yourself happy.  Also, there's gotta be a reason your other half got tired of you.  No ones perfect.  Clean up your side of the street and then see where the relationships at.  If he doesnt want to clean up his AFTER you've done yours then go make yourself happy somewhere else.  Switching the tone a little bit to the original topic on this thread, how the hell is anyone gonna bitch about the jealous husbands?  Maybe it isnt jealousy.  Maybe it's about whats right and wrong.  Unless this was a part of their relationship when they met, this isnt what they said "i do" to.  I'm not a jealous person but if my fiance was talking to other bitches online the way some these married women talk to other men here I'd be fucking pissed.  We are in a commited relationship and he doesnt need to be engaging in any kind of relationship (other than friends) with another women.  No matter what i'm doing wrong.  If his reason is cause he isnt happy with me then he needs to leave me, NOT cheat on me.  Whether its online or not its cheating.  He would be going outside our relationship.  I think it's bullshit to justify it and say "well my husband isnt doing this right and im not happy"  Then leave his ass and do whatever the fuck you want but if you arent going to leave then you should honor your marraige vows.

I'll step down off my soap box now and wait for some replies

Lay off the Martini's! lol

I think Bo and I have parallel lives.

I don't have nearly enough sex.  It used to be infrequent but phenomenal, now...non existent.  It fuckin sucks...I am 37 and I want to have some kind of sex all the damned time.  He has taken to buying me toys, and I joke, but nothing really beats the feeling of being close to another person and doing just what feels good for the sake of feeling good.

Mine had the same problem, shit said in threads or pm's, not the boobie pics...but lets face it, if I were getting more attention, I wouldn't be looking for it elsewhere.  He has his own "entertainment" that gets him going, hell...I encourage it, anything to get some!  But it doesn't seem to translate to us.

I try anything to get him going, but it's like he is just not interested.  Ya, I could stand to lose a few, but actually I have and that was a while ago and it has been since then.  What do you do with someone who is just fucking sick of you?

Crap, I am mixing drinking and posting again...lol

Oh trust me, I don't care if people get mad. It's all the bullshit you gotta deal with afterwards.  If you havent yet noticed there are always little cliques(sp?) and if you piss one person off all their little cronies wanna bitch about it too.  I just don't have time for that shit but since you got me started (LOL) I will start by saying that anyone that is unhappy needs to start by blaming themselves. Everyone wants to sit around and bitch about what the other person doesnt do for them or what the other person did wrong but who's the fool thats taking it?  No one makes you happy but YOU.  If you want to be happy then make yourself happy.  Also, there's gotta be a reason your other half got tired of you.  No ones perfect.  Clean up your side of the street and then see where the relationships at.  If he doesnt want to clean up his AFTER you've done yours then go make yourself happy somewhere else.  Switching the tone a little bit to the original topic on this thread, how the hell is anyone gonna bitch about the jealous husbands?  Maybe it isnt jealousy.  Maybe it's about whats right and wrong.  Unless this was a part of their relationship when they met, this isnt what they said "i do" to.  I'm not a jealous person but if my fiance was talking to other bitches online the way some these married women talk to other men here I'd be fucking pissed.  We are in a commited relationship and he doesnt need to be engaging in any kind of relationship (other than friends) with another women.  No matter what i'm doing wrong.  If his reason is cause he isnt happy with me then he needs to leave me, NOT cheat on me.  Whether its online or not its cheating.  He would be going outside our relationship.  I think it's bullshit to justify it and say "well my husband isnt doing this right and im not happy"  Then leave his ass and do whatever the fuck you want but if you arent going to leave then you should honor your marraige vows.

I'll step down off my soap box now and wait for some replies

Damor, Trickster and ddd35...thanks for your insights they were very helpful.

I think I am done with this thread, though.

To Chickie and Kiana..

I think age has to play an issue in both of your opinions. I mean, Kiana, you are young and it's easy to satisfy your needs/change things up when things are still new.

I'm sure after so many years, things get comfortable. There's security in the relationship that Chickie has in that although things may not be 100% she has someone to go home to and has a life that's working for her in other aspects.

I think this is all similar to someone's career. "Do what makes you happy," well what if that won't pay the bills? You sacrifice. It's you're decission though when that sacrifice is too much... If you're life is shit, you have the power to change that. It's just whether or not you can stand or if it is even worth it to break out of your comfort zone.

It's also easier for someone like me to go out and find a new job to be happy with being younger and not into much of a career yet.

My mother on the other hand works a job that she's not completely happy with in order to pay the bills. She chooses to do so because she gets excellent benefits and her retirement is invested within this company that she works with..

Anyways, I hope that makes sense... then again, I'm probably too young to know anything.

I really drink to much when I travel....

Then again when I'm not home I can!  

It more than made sense, it is exactly what I was talking about.     

I have no intention of saying, "I'm unhappy with 1 aspect of our relationship at the moment, bye", because when you are married, you need to compromise and be flexible.  I was looking for other peoples point of view on improving the situation, or even what happens when it goes very bad...because the relationship was once phenomenal in all respects.

Baby, that meant a lot, lot, lot...thanks. 

Chickie, I love you girl!

Have the two of you tried going on a vacation? Like a real vacation just to focus on each other's needs... if you haven't and are planning on it, you can take me!!

Chickie, i wasnt attacking you.  That was my personal opinion.  My emotion on this topic is more directed at that fact that people get mad that husbands and boyfriends for not wanting their wives/girlfriends to post nude pics of themselves and talk to men online.  In my opinion that husband/boyfriend has every right to get mad.  If that bothers the wife then there's a problem if she continues to still do it.  Marriage is about compromise and if your (proverbial your) husband doesnt like that you chat with men and post nude pics then you shouldnt do it.  If you do then where's the trying for your marriage?  You werent the only one that was like I do it cause my husband doesnt do enough of whatever.  I dont care how long people have been married.  They should do things to help their marriage and eachother and by doing things purposefully that the other doesnt like then you are doing something to harm your marriage and hurt the other person.  I dont think thats right

Damor, Trickster and ddd35...thanks for your insights they were very helpful.

I think I am done with this thread, though.

Ok.   Well, I guess you just touched a nerve.  Although my hubby does not mind at all about the naked pics he does get mad if I spend too much time here.  I have reduced my time on here a lot...friggin addictive place, this is.

I do see what you are saying in theory.  It makes perfect sense, always do for each other, always be there for each other, always love each other.  I love him, but sometimes I want to push him off of a cliff, I do a lot for him, but sometimes I do things that I know will piss him off, just because I feel like it...right now, you are thinking, "fuck, what a bitch, why doesn't she divorce him"  Ambivilence is the opposite of love, not hate.  Sometimes I do shit to get a rise out of him.  If I didn't care, I'd go...but I do care, that's why I ask people who aren't involved in my actual life for their opinion.  I guess I wasn't interested in hearing that I might be wrong...

And, I agree...if your spouse or whatever really hates you being on here, then perhaps you shouldn't be...but that smothering jealousy is a bitch and can end up backfiring.  (that is just my opinion)

Whats your poison of choice brother?

p.s this thread is DEEP

Baby, I love YOU girl!!!

Well, we are going away in January...we'll see what happens, lol.

But, I'd LOVE to take you!  We are still planning on that trip to Vegas someday, right???