QUOTE(jokermuss @ May 1 2006, 12:32 PM)
OMG, I took Thursday and Friday off from work so that I could spend time with my wife and Baby. We experienced zero free time. She was seriously "fussy" this weekend so I joked that all she was doing was ensuring that she was going to be an only child! Lack of sex, lack of enthusiasm to do this again...
You wait to have the next one until this one is like 3 or 4 it makes life SO MUCH EASIER.
When I had my second things were pretty easy, one my oldest wanted to help a lot so that was a nice it was also my husbands first biological baby my oldest was already 2 when we got togehter so he helped out a lot as well since it was new for him and all that, but I had my third when the middle one was almost 2 one month shy of being 2 and that was hard.
My oldest no longer liked babies LOL my middle one didn't like it and the husband it wasn't new for him anymore so it was like I was on my own a single mom with him not to mention no family and no sitters so it was very overwhelming.