I've been to both Hedonism I (Negril, Jamaica) and Hedonism III (Runaway Bay, Jamaica). Hedonism III is a much newer and cleaner looking place and is the one you often see in Playboy or on TV. They have a "prude" side (Topless and thongs) and a "nude" side where everyone is basically naked and if you aren't you get looked at sort of funny. They play lots of different games there which can be fun and sexy. The grounds at Hedonism III are impecable and of the 2 I'd recommend that one. The buildings do not have balconies though and that is a bit odd (except I am sure they don't want anyone having sex on them for all to see). I know when I got there I went into the pool to the swim up bar to see a guy going down on his girlfriend sitting on the bar. While my beers were being served they switched and she had a mouthful. I also remember a girl servicing 5 guys sitting on the edge of a hot tub which was interesting to see. Now they told us that "sexual activity" out in the open was not allowed, but I saw just about everything one could imagine, all the way to some guy having his girlfriend bent over in front of him while he was banging her in a gazebo overlooking the ocean.......ah, romance. We did meet some very cool people there, and some that were a lot of fun. We also noticed a lot of single guys looking to get lucky, and not just with women either.
They also had a body painting contest which was a lot of fun too. And at night if you are open to "swinging" you are supposed to keep your door ajar (that is the signal). Just be prepared for whatever walks in. I saw lots of good looking women, a lot of goofy looking people, and some decent people. The food is ok if you like buffets, which I don't care for. I remember they had a "toga" night which the party started right after dinner (a buffet, as they all are) and they started to dance and the people that didn't take off their clothes were the ones you wanted to see naked and the ones that did were not necessarily the ones you wanted to see naked. I know a lot of people came in that night just for the toga party so I know a lot of those dancing naked were not Hedonism III registered guests.
Hedonism I is a much older resort, still nice but not as nice. When I went it was when they had Miss Black Nude America and there was a bunch of hot ladies there but more swinging dicks than I care to be around. Men out numbered women at that time. Luckily I was staying next door at Sandals Negril and had a 3 day pass to use if I wanted. We went several times and had fun, but not as much as Hedonism III.
If it were me I would choose Hedonism III. But if you were really smart you'd look at Sandals in Dunn's River and work out a deal with your travel agent to get a 1, 2, or 3 day pass to Hedonism III in Runaway Bay. It is only about a 15 minute ride. Besides the rooms, grounds, food and drink are soooo much better at Sandals. And there are a lot of great people too. All I know is that when we got done from the Hedonism visits the girl I was with said she saw more dick and ass than she wanted..........and that came from a girl that really wanted to go there too. Or go to Sandals Negril as Hedonism I is right next door and you can come and go as you please (again Sandals is a nicer resort). Negril also has a couple other "adult" places to go that are upscale as well.
Just be prepared to see people in all shapes and sizes and forms and with all kinds of perversions (they like to find those out). Yes, it can be fun. Would I go back? Yes, you just need the right lady with the right mindset!!!