and I am sure I spelled that wrong good thing this isnt the spelling bee board;)



So with a woman when is it considered masturbation??? If she penetrates herself with something but doesnt cum is it?? Or if she doesnt penetrate but does cum is it as well??

Please Advise thanks

well i view masturbation as self sexual gratification, whether i cum or not....

if you DO CUM then its definitely masturbation in my book, regardless how you get there (meaning doing it yourself)

Hope it helps

I wouldn't argue with pay on this subject, he is seasoned pro

Ok school me some more, don't men always cum when masturbating?? Or even with a woman dont you always cum before you are done???

Believe it or not not always.....

Sometimes i get right to the edge then lose it all together.....

And waaaaaaayyyyyy back when i did have some sex occasionaly...there were times when I did not orgasm. Usually because of condom issues.

Wouldn't that be the point?

when rubbing one out, as long as there is sufficient jerking material, then yes I will bust a nut.

Are you getting a tone with me, for your sake I hope not. LOL

Wouldnt what be the point I thik something flew over my head in this topic. No not your head.

I think thats his official title!

Masturbation doesn't mean penetration just like sex! Masturbation is getting off alone... no matter how you go about it!

For a guy, it's not masturbation unless he cums, otherwise it's called "wasting your time." It wasn't sarcastic to say "Isn't that the whole point?" No guy would start unless he planned to finish. If a guy just spontaeously cums without masturbation, that's called "embarrassing yourself in public".

Otherwise known as a Narazbad

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Zing!

Narazbad said he'd like to defend himself from my previous comment but he said he's busy watching his idol on film

or is it protege?

a little from column A and a little from column B

OK, just an after thought here. Has anyone engaged in "mutual" masterbation? I don't mean touching each other. I'm talking about sitting opposite on another and watching each other masterbate. Kinda like putting on a little show for the other person. Know what I mean???

I saw this before ON TV but I didnt understand the point of it

Oh yah and it's fucking hot!!!I like it if we're both laying down on the bed next to each other. You have the power to get them off while you get yourself off...what's to get?

See I think I would be to tempted to just get on them

And a little cross threading going on here it's another fun thing to do during that time of the month.

I'll just take a blowjob

How surprising, a man taking the lazy road.

I didn't think you're partner shut down once a month though.

All the time, babe!

eh... its what we do best

thanks for goin after the absent guy...lol

its our pleasure

"our" ? schizo? LOL

I'll show you when it is....

always go after the absent guy, or the guy who doesn't speak english

double post

ahh Tiborg... how many times have you saved my butt

The act of masturbation isn't soley about the orgasm in my opinion. Just like the act of sex isn't about the orgasm.

I think playing with your area is masturbation, with or without the final result. Just as sex is sex, with or without cumming. Not that guys ever have that problem... but I heard that it happens sometimes with girls (not from experience though! lol).

Very insightful THANK YOU.


SO if I held the shower massager there long enough to have to hurry and move it cause it was to intense have I officially masturbated

Not sure if ytou can masturbate by accident, but if it feels good and you keep it there, than I guess so.

No worries though, if it feels good... DO IT!

Leave it to me too not even be able to get masturbation right

Oh I bet you could if you just relaxed. Don't think of it as dirty... just use your imagination and let go.

My woman doesn't do it (or at least says she doesn't) cause she "likes it when you help". I wouldn't mind if she did though... I think she just feels a little dirty doing it alone. But I like dirty.

I agree sex isnt solely about orgasm but masturbation surely is... I mean why else do you do it? especially for a guy... to give urself blue balls?

Whenever I've masturbated my husband makes me tell him all the details of what got me off. Of course that's not surprising seeing as it's usually him doing anothe girl. I usually have to mentally be envisioning a fantasy to get off.

I'll bet even if you unoffically maturbate, it'll still feel good. Practice, and you'll get the hang of it.

yes, it's my main reason to do it... of course it's the best part of masturbation. But if you dont finish (maybe interrupted, maybe moved on to sex with the lady) it still means you "masturbated" even though you didnt cum at the end-- of course thats just my opinion.

I always love to hear the details of when my girl masturbates.... its like a penthouse letter come to life

Penthouse is alright....Forum is better!

omg thats hot.

ah forum, thats what I meant

If it feels good do it

What that saying? "there are only two types of people in this world....liars....and
masturbators!"

Damn... I do both!

Hey Bondi, don't we all?!?!?!?!