Someone you met online?

I don't know about me but do you like someone online??

I plead the fifth.

There are 5 of them?

I think so.

But back to the topic.

Sorry...thought we were talking about your 5 online lovers??

i rather not take a wild guess..

Well I had to cut too loose so 5 will have to do. What can I say a woman has needs

nvm i am going to keep my mouth shut on this one.

Womanly needs....Oh girl, tell me!!!

Oops I meant two not too YIKES

Damn...when I saw 'too loose' I thought 'aha! a girl after my own heart!!'

sweet... you have it wrong... tighter is better when it comes to girls...

I guess no one has gotten attatched to anyone online.

still waiting on those 5

Overstock.com
oldnavy.com
smartbargains.com
ebay.com
gap.com

They are the loves of my life. True internet connection.

honestly diane? yes...i have....very many times and every one of them almost has ended in heartache


actually gotten attached to one or two off of this very site

naraz... how many times do i have to tell you... i just don't like you that way

*sigh* yes. Recently I met this smart ass on-line...

Really?? I dunno I find it harder not to get attatched to someone online than real life maybe I think cause most of the "relationship" online is all communication. That can bond people quick. I have gotten conned a few times by people online. Conned as in I cared about them as a person talked to them on the phone cried for them worried about them "all as a friend" and there whole life ended up being fake.

damnit j...why must you think everythings about you? i do like other people too you know! i told you! it was one night and i was drunk! it didnt mean that much! let it go!!

hmm.... which way to go with this one?

option a) ... but you told me i was special

or b ) ... but then why do you keep calling me?


yeah... definitely option b

dated a girl like that...sucked pretty much when i found out her entire life was a lie

damnit...i knew i needed to hide my phone when im drunk.....that and you really conned those 12 year olds pretty badly man...they think you really love them!

or c)...gnappy or bondi?

umm... nope

i give you credit for attempting the burn... but you need to do more than just list names... you need to develop context... create a plot and weave the story, give it life!


eh, who am i kidding... i just make shit up most of the time, lol

its ok jrock...we can tell...we just laugh cuz we feel sorry for you

Was finishing where you left off liked the way it started just not the finish.

lol

again w/the whole "pot/kettle" thing naraz...

i know...thats what makes it so funny

Hi.

I know I'm new around here, but I guess this is as good a place to make a first post as any. well, I've been trolling for a short while and "feeling" out the site.

it's really easy to become attached to someone online because it's a place where all the usual hangups get left at the door, so to speak. for example, when you meet someone offline, your ego gets in the way and you may feel uncomfortable saying what you want to say. in other words, the anonymity of the internet makes it easier to put on airs or leave behind inhibitions that normally preclude a quick emotional attachment to someone "in the real world." I also feel that sometimes, people who are craving emotional attachment are more ready to accept people for who they say they are (again, the anonymity of the internet makes this easier to facilitate).

as naraz (and many others -- not just on this site) has found, not everyone is who they say they are.

and to answer your question, yes. I've gotten attached to someone I've met online. I'm a pisces. it's in the blood to become attached

Attached to? Do you mean like surgically or is handcuffed to enough?

And yes, I have met a few women that a relationship developed with via the internet. In my own personal experience I've had about the same success rate from the internet as I have from the bar/club. I don't think it matters where you meet so long as you meet. (whole lots of philosophical stuff here)

Welcome to RMM and I agree with pretty much all you said. Sucks when you find out someone wasnt who they said but can happen in real life too so got to take the good with the bad.

Hope you stick around.

this is a boobie site. of course, I'm sticking around

and thanks for the welcome!

I really like some ladies ive met on this forum.As long as it stays fun and games thats fine. I will not allow any kind of online friendship to get to the point of ruining my real life relationship.most people here have someone special in their life,I would not want to hurt the other persons relationship either.I think maybe people let things get to serious and this is a mistake.keep it simple people,dont ruin your real life because of a fantasy relationship.This is just my opinion,doesnt mean shit to anyone but myself.

im attached to my cock and balls an awful lot....

sadly yes, I have gotten attached to someone online. I am rather fond of someone right now as a matter of fact. It doesn't seem to matter where I meet guys, I always end up broken hearted.

...does this have anything to do with the conversation we were having the other night?

hmmm...


oh, and by the way, you shouldn't get attached to me sweetheart., your husband wouldn't approve

so you'd rather finish with ME?
sure I'm flattered, maybe even a little curious, but you're just not my type.

I'm trying not too No nothing about the other night I have always wonder how others felt about the topic last night it was so dead in here figured I would ask to give something to talk about.

I know if I were single again I would probably try like the match. sites or something I dunno. I dont see meeting a long term relationship at a bar or anything I mean thats good if you are just wanting some sex but not a lot of places to meet people these days seems like everyone is on the net now.

Yes I agree people can take things way to serious and not know things just may be fun and games.

I've chatted with girls online in the past,but never got overly attached. Just cuz I know someone online doesn't mean I know them at all in real life.Even had some crazy girl from way out east who was going to come out and visit me about 8 years ago but I managed to convinve her not to. She had some "issues" that I wanted no part of. I still have a few people I still chat with that I met online 10 years ago, but I've never wanted it to move beyond the friendship stage. I've seen too many people get burned by so called sure thing internet romances.

she wanted to travel cross-country to see YOU?! ... yeah, you could say she had issues

you son of a bitch!

but honestly, your diagnosis was about right...some chick i barely knew was going to travel cross country to see me at a time when i could barely get a drunk girl across the street into my bed. that was a red flag right there!

For what it's worth I was very desperate at the time and can not be held accountable for my state of mind that was my black period

lol, don't worry, u weren't missing much

Yeah funny that is what J rock said too