So I need help with an idea that myself and my husband thought a good idea. We have been married for 10 years and have a great relationship, sex life is amazing and I couldn't have it any better. We love porn where the lady is involved in a MMF threesome and it got us thinking about partaking in our own threesome. Now I find this to be quite arousing, though if I think about some other man actually fucking me I can't handle it. It feels very wrong but the thought turn me on to no end. Has anyone involved in a threesome had this same thought but been able to get past it.

If you do decide to do the MMF threesome are you looking for a volunteer?

I can't say I have, and I hate to be the bad guy, but general rule of thumb is, if it feels wrong, it is wrong. Don't compromise the beauty of what you already have unless you are 100% sure of your endeavor.

I'd agree...anyone that has a chance go join will put quite a persuasive effort in but it has to be your choice and any doubts or reservations, even of the slightest need to be the overriding factor because once it's done, you can't take it back. I realize that sounds cliche, but the regrets and other complications it can bring to the relationship can amplify over time. You may repress them or you may rationalize them away because of the desire for physical pleasure, but if they're there even in the slightest form they can have consequences down the road. You've got something good, leave well enough alone and enjoy the fantasy and seduction that the idea of something you can't have brings.

If your not comfortable doing it. Don't do it. The thrill of the moment may turn into a strong regret.

Thanks to you all for the replies but I just wanted to clarify that I'm not in any way being pressured, it's my decision and I am interested and curious just can't help this feeling that I am doing wrong by my husband even though he is 110% keen and ok with it. I am generally a pretty shy and nervous person and I think maybe that is my biggest problem. I really do wish I could just be cool with it and get on with the show.

sounds like you shouldn't do it and let it remain a fantasy.

Do it! You will like it!

[quote=Evetitties81,Sep 11 2014, 11:24 AM]
So I need help with an idea that myself and my husband thought a good idea. We have been married for 10 years and have a great relationship, sex life is amazing and I couldn't have it any better. We love porn where the lady is involved in a MMF threesome and it got us thinking about partaking in our own threesome. Now I find this to be quite arousing, though if I think about some other man actually fucking me I can't handle it. It feels very wrong but the thought turn me on to no end. Has anyone involved in a threesome had this same thought but been able to get past it.

Hi , I have the same thoughts as you . Me and my wife both enjoy watching porn and pretending she is in the movie with other males and it really turns me on when we are in that moment. But I'm not sure if I could handle watching my wife getting fucked for real.
Would also like to be able to get past that thought as I would like to suprise my wife with something new for us to both enjoy.