Recently I've thought about going to visit a swingers club/sex club. I have never been to one. It sounds exciting. I thought I would ask all of you. Has anyone been to one? What was your experience like? Would you recommend it?

Here are some rules...

If its not yours don't touch it until invited.
Don't assume everyone there is "all-in." Some people just want to watch at first.
If your partner is uncomfortable before something happens, it's best not to force anything.
Talk about what you think you'd be ok with before hand. I'm ok with seeing my wife having fun but she's a little more territorial. Find what works for you guys.

So it was a positive experience for you guys?

It was a good experience. One rule she has...my cum is all hers.

I like that rule.

I think she beat you to it You could always ask though, she might share

Lol. I think its awesome you guys are so open and do things like that together. I don't think it's easy for some.

We have talked a lot about this as well as 3 somes and more . For me I think it would be a turn on at first but fear of How I would act or feel after

I totally get that. It's like, opening Pandora's box. What if you can't go back?