Yes, I live in California and have had one of those exclusive privileges in life to hang around a few porn star girls. No, I have not done any porn work(though maybe I should ha!) but with the girls it's really a mixed bag. And what I mean by that, is some of the girls are just absolutely down to earth, and I easily forget that I'm talking to women who do porn. The conversation is always anything from something their pet cat or dog did, to an experience while they were out and about and if I could identify with the same scenario. Just really great personalities inside. Other girls are bitchy with big head syndrome. Some are checked out on the chemical of the day. The good ones really shine in their personalities, one name stands out, porn goddess Cindy Crawford actually remembered me from the last time we met, even remembered a fact about the car I was driving. It's things like that, that reinforce the fact that their true personalities and character have no recourse with their occupation. I would have to say too, that anyone who has not had the opportunity to meet a few, and I'm not talking about standing in line waiting waiting for her to sign your picture while she sits behind the table, but actually mingle with them in their off time, will shoot down any preconceived opinions you will have about porn stars in general.
To address the first question, commercially produced porn is unbelievable, because everybody knows they've had one or two that were just not that into getting fucked. And all of the sudden, media fantasy and reality do not seem to correlate. To married people who have had one sex mate all of their life, sadly, you will never get to experience this, just take we singles word for it

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I'd like to use Wifey's World as a perfect example of reality porn. They didn't even want to do it as a full time venture, but their fans demanded more because of the "realism". Though they pretend in mock scenarios, everything is real as real gets and their huge fan base eats it up because it's believable. There are times when she's this way, or that way and or it happens this way and it strikes a cord with people who have been there in the bedroom!