QUOTE(misschickie @ Aug 28 2009, 09:02 AM)
too fawning, too drooly, too stalkerish sounding?
non-creepy invite"hey there, welcome to the site...i think your pics are hot/sexy/pretty. i don't know if you noticed, but we have a great forum here, and i have started a page for you in the top melons "insert link". you have a lot of fans, it would be great if you came and said hi."
creepy inviteur fuckin hot, i want to cum all over you. i made a page for you, get your tits over there and post a billion more pics for my pleasure.
ps i have my hand on my dick right now.
(the creepy invite would also include the spelling mistakes and grammar of a serial killer)
There are, unfortunately, many more instances of Top Melon threadees shying away from participation for whatever reason than actively participating. Several times I have started threads after securing, what I thought, was the goodwill of the threadee only to have the thread fall flat after a few of my colleagues jumped in and commented.

If we are to have Top Melon threads, we need to follow
Misschickie's advice and just continue to be patient and not let failure and rejection
bum us out too much.