Hi all, I am a newbie to the site. I joined because i thought you all would be the only ones that could probably help.

I am a 23 y/o who has a problem. I am getting married in july(thats not my problem). I love my wife to be but i cant help but look at other women. I masturbate almost once a day sometimes twice. We have sex on a regular basis but i just cant seem to help myself. I feel that it will eventually get me in trouble someday. I dont cheat on her, i may flirt with a girl or two but thats as far as it goes because i dont have the time to have multiple relationships nor do i feel that i need to cheat on her. This is becoming a long post but i need help. I need to know how to expand our sex life? and i need to find out what i can do to control my masturbation? If anyone can provide their opinion i would greatly appreciate it.

Thanks,