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[SecretFantasy]

Hi all, I am a newbie to the site. I joined because i thought you all would be the only ones that could probably help.

I am a 23 y/o who has a problem. I am getting married in july(thats not my problem). I love my wife to be but i cant help but look at other women. I masturbate almost once a day sometimes twice. We have sex on a regular basis but i just cant seem to help myself. I feel that it will eventually get me in trouble someday. I dont cheat on her, i may flirt with a girl or two but thats as far as it goes because i dont have the time to have multiple relationships nor do i feel that i need to cheat on her. This is becoming a long post but i need help. I need to know how to expand our sex life? and i need to find out what i can do to control my masturbation? If anyone can provide their opinion i would greatly appreciate it.

Thanks,

[SecretFantasy]

its not that i cant be me. Its that i want her to be more open with me, i want to open her up. It takes time and i am willing to spend the rest of my life trying to open her up. I know that once she opens up, what happens after that is going to be nothing but pure extasy. I have seen glimpses of it and it probably the closes thing to ski diving/Bunji jumping/ and the most erotic sensations all put together. Its hard to explain but all i know is for those 3 hours i was as hard as a rock with no failure what so ever........ And i wasnt on anything either...... it was the purest most sensual experience we have ever had in our lives.

[ontippytoes]

its not that i cant be me.  Its that i want her to be more open with me, i want to open her up.  It takes time and i am willing to spend the rest of my life trying to open her up.  I know that once she opens up, what happens after that is going to be nothing but pure extasy.  I have seen glimpses of it and it probably the closes thing to ski diving/Bunji jumping/ and the most erotic sensations all put together.  Its hard to explain but all i know is for those 3 hours i was as hard as a rock with no failure what so ever........  And i wasnt on anything either...... it was the purest most sensual experience we have ever had in our lives.

Awesome! Well, if you're willing to work with her and help build up her confidence, then go for it. Other than getting her drunk, I'm not sure there's a ready-made way to get her to open up.

[Gnappster]

Awesome!  Well, if you're willing to work with her and help build up her confidence, then go for it.  Other than getting her drunk, I'm not sure there's a ready-made way to get her to open up.

you could try a speculum

OK that was in poor taste, but most stuff I post is..at least I didn't post the pic.