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[SecretFantasy]

Hi all, I am a newbie to the site. I joined because i thought you all would be the only ones that could probably help.

I am a 23 y/o who has a problem. I am getting married in july(thats not my problem). I love my wife to be but i cant help but look at other women. I masturbate almost once a day sometimes twice. We have sex on a regular basis but i just cant seem to help myself. I feel that it will eventually get me in trouble someday. I dont cheat on her, i may flirt with a girl or two but thats as far as it goes because i dont have the time to have multiple relationships nor do i feel that i need to cheat on her. This is becoming a long post but i need help. I need to know how to expand our sex life? and i need to find out what i can do to control my masturbation? If anyone can provide their opinion i would greatly appreciate it.

Thanks,

[SecretFantasy]

i always take care of her she is my #1.

As far as getting her on the board dont think that could be possible. Earlier in my relationship i use to visit a porn site and talk to a couple of ladies and paid for their services. I really just wanted it for the female interaction. The nudity meant little to me. Well she found out and thought that she was doing something wrong. I tried to tell her that it wasnt anything she was doing but thats like trying to sell snow to an eskimo. Anyways, i know she has a freak inside her becuz it comes out of her every now and then. How should i try and bring it out of her on a more frequent occasion????????? I try to tell her that its ok but she is still afraid.......

She said she would rather strip for complete strangers becuz it doesnt matter what they think..... but it matters what i think so she is hesitant to do it for me???