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[SecretFantasy]

Hi all, I am a newbie to the site. I joined because i thought you all would be the only ones that could probably help.

I am a 23 y/o who has a problem. I am getting married in july(thats not my problem). I love my wife to be but i cant help but look at other women. I masturbate almost once a day sometimes twice. We have sex on a regular basis but i just cant seem to help myself. I feel that it will eventually get me in trouble someday. I dont cheat on her, i may flirt with a girl or two but thats as far as it goes because i dont have the time to have multiple relationships nor do i feel that i need to cheat on her. This is becoming a long post but i need help. I need to know how to expand our sex life? and i need to find out what i can do to control my masturbation? If anyone can provide their opinion i would greatly appreciate it.

Thanks,

[diane26]

If you got in trouble once before from masturbating by fooling around with someone that I would think it wasnt the masturbation??? Cause if you were doing that than why were you cheating???


As a woman, if you want to wank off 5 times a day that is ok by me just be ready to give it to me when Iw ant it. I have a friend and her husband is a "tool" anyway he will tell her he isnt in the mood for sex or blow her off and shit than go masturbate now that is a little fucked up IMO but if you guys are having sex often and you still need to handle your business nothing wrong with that.


As far as looking that is human nature. Not just for me, I have seen good looking guys before and cant help but give a smile to them or do a double take or little flirty things it is something I dont even noitce until after.

Not sure if my post helped but oh well. Get her on the boards we will open her up a bit

[belicked6924]

Get her on the boards we will open her up a bit

Yea what Diane said.


And as far at the masturbating thing take care of your business as long as you are taking care of hers too. It's perfectly natural to .


OH yea, welcome to the boards