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[paybarraman]

Ok Ladies...

Does it gross you out or make you squirmish if your Husband/Boyfriend/SO tells you they masturbate?

I recently mentioned this to my SO since our sex life is practically non-existent. The context was basically "You must be able to live with it but I cant....I at least take care of myself but you..." It was at this point that she went into "No NO NO!! I dont wanna know!! Ewwwwww...:"

Well? How many of you would be put off being told this?

[Lynette]

I was talking about this subject a couple of nights ago with my date. When I brought the topic up he got a little squirmmy. But, after a little while admitted that he believes watching a woman "do" herself, particularly if she has a little public hair (which I happen to have) is one of a man's biggest turn on's. I asked him, "then why would it surprise a man to learn that the same would apply for a woman?" He told me that the social stigma attached to male masterbation is what he considered to be the major hang-up, and that most men have always done it in extreme privacy, so the thought of doing it in front of another person (even a woman) is just counter to their conditioning and would kind of amount to the same thing as doing it in public and might be a source of great embarassment more than it would be a turn on. It was at this point that I looked up through my eyelashes at him with a slight flirty smile and said "You never know what's good until you taste it... Wanna try it with me?" An hour and a half later we were at my place sitting on the patio deck overlooking the lagoon. I had him turn two deck chairs around so they were about six feet apart facing each other while I stood in front of him slipping out of my clothes. He just stood there staring at my naked body like he's never seen a horny, naked woman before. It was like he didn't know what to do next. LOL! The only things I was still wearing were my heels (he stands about 6'3" and I wanted to be taller that my 5'10" frame so I could look him in the eye more). I began undoing his pants and once I reached in and grabbed him by his hard-on and squeezed it a few times, I backed off slowly and sat in my chair and asked him to take off his clothes for me. I'm an exhibitionist at heart anyway (as most people on this site are all too aware of, so I put on a great show for him with my legs spread wide open, Head back at times (but, also staring at his dick like a hungry tigeress) leaning forward so my titties hung, swayed, and jiggled in front of him. I came twice (once right away, and then again about twenty minutes later when I saw a stream of white liquid shoot out of his cock about a foot into the air ithrough the light from my bedroom wondow (loved every second of it). Long story short... He LOVED the experience, and told me the next morning that it was the most sexy experience a woman had ever offered him, and asked if we could do it again sometime. SO, my take on this question is that if more people would just hook up with a person who would walk them through it in just the right, gentle way e first time, more people would love it (including a lot of "sexually repressed" women).It's really fun, and for me it offers a great outlet for my need to show off what God gave me. LOL!