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paybarraman
Ok Ladies...

Does it gross you out or make you squirmish if your Husband/Boyfriend/SO tells you they masturbate?

I recently mentioned this to my SO since our sex life is practically non-existent. The context was basically "You must be able to live with it but I cant....I at least take care of myself but you..." It was at this point that she went into "No NO NO!! I dont wanna know!! Ewwwwww...:"

Well? How many of you would be put off being told this?

asianones
QUOTE(paybarraman @ Jun 3 2013, 02:19 AM)
Ok Ladies...

Does it gross you out or make you squirmish if your Husband/Boyfriend/SO tells you they masturbate?

I recently mentioned this to my SO since our sex life is practically non-existent.  The context was basically "You must be able to live with it but I cant....I at least take care of myself but you..."  It was at this point that she went into "No NO NO!! I dont wanna know!!  Ewwwwww...:"

Well?  How many of you would be put off being told this?
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Definitely does not gross me out. I actually like that idea and would love to watch.
evade20
QUOTE(asianones @ Jun 3 2013, 02:40 AM)
Definitely does not gross me out. I actually like that idea and would love to watch.
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asianones
QUOTE(evade20 @ Jun 3 2013, 06:39 AM)
You are an exceptionally hot babe!!!! 2thumbs.gif  2thumbs.gif
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me gusta
My old lady freaks out about it says its cheating so I have to keep my stash hidden and my cookies deleted lol!
Lynette
Most of the folks here already know how my tastes run on this subject. ABSOLUTELY NO gross out here. I LOVE sitting opposite a man watching one another masterbate. I cum about 99% of the time within 5 seconds of the time I see him squirt. Besides, I like putting on a show too.
AlaskaDude
QUOTE(Lynette @ Jun 19 2013, 07:39 PM)
Most of the folks here already know how my tastes run on this subject. ABSOLUTELY NO gross out here. I LOVE sitting opposite a man watching one another masterbate. I cum about 99% of the time within 5 seconds of the time I see him squirt. Besides, I like putting on a show too.
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Mutual masturbation is so incredibly erotic...one person on each end of the couch, seeing who can either 1) cum first, or 2) lose willpower and jump the other person!
stevieboy
Funny that some women are put off by the idea. Lately sex has been the furthest thing from my wife's mind which sucks for me as its the summertime when she usually looks her best between her deep dark tan and the very skimpy clothes she wears. Anyway recently during a conversation whereby I was griping about not getting any she looks at me and says that I just need to learn to jack off when I'm horny because unless she's in the mood she doesn't want to hear about how bad I wanna screw her so the other morning I woke up super horny and tried to start something and she just rolls over and says I told you...beat off. I'll just watch.
ddd35
QUOTE(stevieboy @ Jun 19 2013, 07:00 PM)
Funny that some women are put off by the idea.  Lately sex has been the furthest thing from my wife's mind which sucks for me as its the summertime when she usually looks her best between her deep dark tan and the very skimpy clothes she wears.  Anyway recently during a conversation whereby I was griping about not getting any she looks at me and says that I just need to learn to jack off when I'm horny because unless she's in the mood she doesn't want to hear about how bad I wanna screw her so the other morning I woke up super horny and tried to start something and she just rolls over and says I told you...beat off.  I'll just watch.
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My wife recently walked in on me while I was stroking , well actually I had been using my cock pump and had just removed it and was stroking the end result , There was lube all over it and pre cum dripping , whens he entered the bathroom she was Taken back I could tell , then she says , "Can I watch ?" I said sure but it wont be long . When I came all she said was "NOW CLEAN UP YOUR MESS PERV. " I was like You bitch . We have not discussed since , but now she knocks before she enters the bathroom .
Jennifer_Anne
QUOTE(Lynette @ Jun 19 2013, 07:39 PM)
Most of the folks here already know how my tastes run on this subject. ABSOLUTELY NO gross out here. I LOVE sitting opposite a man watching one another masterbate. I cum about 99% of the time within 5 seconds of the time I see him squirt. Besides, I like putting on a show too.
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Yes! I'm not the only one who enjoys this! So hot!!!
badgirlpinky
this would turn me on especially if it was to naughty pics of me! i enjoy watching porn and would like to watch it with my man especially if it was porn of a girl that had a similar body type to me, bbw, and got him super hard for me to enjoy, i know watching porn would make me wetter.... i presume it would make guys harder???
Miss Stars
I love seeing men jack off and love cum too. I think women who think it is "gross" are just sexually repressed. I am pretty sure all of the women on this site are pretty comfortable with their sexuality, so the results of this poll might be slightly skewed. wink.gif
paybarraman
QUOTE(Jennifer_Anne @ Jul 12 2013, 05:05 AM)
Yes! I'm not the only one who enjoys this! So hot!!!
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QUOTE(badgirlpinky @ Jul 12 2013, 05:32 AM)
this would turn me on especially if it was to naughty pics of me! i enjoy watching porn and would like to watch it with my man especially if it was porn of a girl that had a similar body type to me, bbw, and got him super hard for me to enjoy, i know watching porn would make me wetter.... i presume it would make guys harder???
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I tried that once.....tried to get her to watch some porn with me, thinking it might get her ramped up....she was curious a bit, but ultimately, she just didnt buy into it....was all "impossible" according to her....

any hint at porn and she just gets skeeved cause her thought is Im jerking off (which I am) and that's just gross for her....

QUOTE(Miss Stars @ Jul 12 2013, 05:53 AM)
I love seeing men jack off and love cum too. I think women who think it is "gross" are just sexually repressed. I am pretty sure all of the women on this site are pretty comfortable with their sexuality, so the results of this poll might be slightly skewed.  wink.gif
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Simply more proof that my sex life (or complete lack of one) sucks.
Minnesotamelons
It's so hot and turns me on like crazy!! I do not understand why any woman would think its gross. It's such a natural thing for one and for two its so so sexy!!
JCupTitties
Jerking off is not gross, it's natural but with all things you can take it to pervy creepy places. Maybe some of those who are skeeved out by it have a reason to be. On the other hand men are typically very very secretive about jerking off. They often behave as if they are doing something wrong. I think if you behave like your doing something wrong or hide it from someone your in a committed relationship or want to be in a committed relationship with it sets a tone.

I always knew my husband jerked off he would in front of me if I asked the same as I would play with myself for him.... However he hid that he looked at porn and jerked off and lied to me point blank when asked for a long time. I don't have a problem with it, he thought I would or he wanted to keep it to himself... That I have issues with. When you have to lie about something or you aren't open in a relationship where you should be there are underlying problems and the porn nor the jerking off are the issues it's more than that.

My opinion. If your gonna jerk off then jerk off. If your in a relationship where you feel comfortable enough to have sex with a girl you should be able to be comfortable enough to talk about jerking off with her or not hide it from her at least. Either she is okay with it or she isn't but if its a part of who you are and what you enjoy and it's not enveloped around something really shifty or illegal then you shouldn't have to change for anyone.

JMO
Laurendd
There is nothing that gets me going like seeing my man stroking it. It's such a turn on. Quite often we watch each other satisfy ourselves as part of foreplay. I love to watch him cum....especially on my girls. Knowing that he's watching me and that turns him on is so flattering. I cum seconds after seeing him. Kinda reminds me of being younger when we would finish together every time. smile.gif
Laurendd
QUOTE(paybarraman @ Jun 3 2013, 02:19 AM)
Ok Ladies...

Does it gross you out or make you squirmish if your Husband/Boyfriend/SO tells you they masturbate?

I recently mentioned this to my SO since our sex life is practically non-existent.  The context was basically "You must be able to live with it but I cant....I at least take care of myself but you..."  It was at this point that she went into "No NO NO!! I dont wanna know!!  Ewwwwww...:"

Well?  How many of you would be put off being told this?
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Put off ? No way.....I feel sorry for some girls who just seem sexually repressed and cold. They'll never understand what they miss out on being so proper. Sorry dude... sad.gif
Lynette
I was talking about this subject a couple of nights ago with my date. When I brought the topic up he got a little squirmmy. But, after a little while admitted that he believes watching a woman "do" herself, particularly if she has a little public hair (which I happen to have) is one of a man's biggest turn on's. I asked him, "then why would it surprise a man to learn that the same would apply for a woman?" He told me that the social stigma attached to male masterbation is what he considered to be the major hang-up, and that most men have always done it in extreme privacy, so the thought of doing it in front of another person (even a woman) is just counter to their conditioning and would kind of amount to the same thing as doing it in public and might be a source of great embarassment more than it would be a turn on. It was at this point that I looked up through my eyelashes at him with a slight flirty smile and said "You never know what's good until you taste it... Wanna try it with me?" An hour and a half later we were at my place sitting on the patio deck overlooking the lagoon. I had him turn two deck chairs around so they were about six feet apart facing each other while I stood in front of him slipping out of my clothes. He just stood there staring at my naked body like he's never seen a horny, naked woman before. It was like he didn't know what to do next. LOL! The only things I was still wearing were my heels (he stands about 6'3" and I wanted to be taller that my 5'10" frame so I could look him in the eye more). I began undoing his pants and once I reached in and grabbed him by his hard-on and squeezed it a few times, I backed off slowly and sat in my chair and asked him to take off his clothes for me. I'm an exhibitionist at heart anyway (as most people on this site are all too aware of, so I put on a great show for him with my legs spread wide open, Head back at times (but, also staring at his dick like a hungry tigeress) leaning forward so my titties hung, swayed, and jiggled in front of him. I came twice (once right away, and then again about twenty minutes later when I saw a stream of white liquid shoot out of his cock about a foot into the air ithrough the light from my bedroom wondow (loved every second of it). Long story short... He LOVED the experience, and told me the next morning that it was the most sexy experience a woman had ever offered him, and asked if we could do it again sometime. SO, my take on this question is that if more people would just hook up with a person who would walk them through it in just the right, gentle way e first time, more people would love it (including a lot of "sexually repressed" women).It's really fun, and for me it offers a great outlet for my need to show off what God gave me. LOL!
LovemInNJ
QUOTE(Lynette @ Jul 25 2013, 01:28 PM)
I was talking about this subject a couple of nights ago with my date. When I brought the topic up he got a little squirmmy. But, after a little while admitted that he believes watching a woman "do" herself, particularly if she has a little public hair (which I happen to have) is one of a man's biggest turn on's. I asked him, "then why would it surprise a man to learn that the same would apply for a woman?" He told me that the social stigma attached to male masterbation is what he considered to be the major hang-up, and that most men have always done it in extreme privacy, so the thought of doing it in front of another person (even a woman) is just counter to their conditioning and would kind of amount to the same thing as doing it in public and might be a source of great embarassment more than it would be a turn on. It was at this point that I looked up through my eyelashes at him with a slight flirty smile and said "You never know what's good until you taste it... Wanna try it with me?" An hour and a half later we were at my place sitting on the patio deck overlooking the lagoon. I had him turn two deck chairs around so they were about six feet apart facing each other while I stood in front of him slipping out of my clothes. He just stood there staring at my naked body like he's never seen a horny, naked woman before. It was like he didn't know what to do next. LOL! The only things I was still wearing were my heels (he stands about 6'3" and I wanted to be taller that my 5'10" frame so I could look him in the eye more). I began undoing his pants and once I reached in and grabbed him by his hard-on and squeezed it a few times, I backed off slowly and sat in my chair and asked him to take off his clothes for me. I'm an exhibitionist at heart anyway (as most people on this site are all too aware of, so I put on a great show for him with my legs spread wide open, Head back at times (but, also staring at his dick like a hungry tigeress) leaning forward so my titties hung, swayed, and jiggled in front of him. I came twice (once right away, and then again about twenty minutes later when I saw a stream of white liquid shoot out of his cock about a foot into the air ithrough the light from my bedroom wondow (loved every second of it). Long story short... He LOVED the experience, and told me the next morning that it was the most sexy experience a woman had ever offered him, and asked if we could do it again sometime. SO, my take on this question is that if more people would just hook up with a person who would walk them through it in just the right, gentle way e first time, more people would love it (including a lot of "sexually repressed" women).It's really fun, and for me it offers a great outlet for my need to show off what God gave me. LOL!
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boredandlonely77
Good god no it doesn't freak me out. It turns me the fuck on, if I know they are wanking over me and damn I would love to watch. I do not understand women like that at all. It's like girls who say their men can't watch porn, wt is that all about? I'd watch with them! lol
paybarraman
QUOTE(boredandlonely77 @ Aug 4 2013, 11:48 PM)
Good god no it doesn't freak me out. It turns me the fuck on, if I know they are wanking over me and damn I would love to watch. I do not understand women like that at all. It's like girls who say their men can't watch porn, wt is that all about? I'd watch with them! lol
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I got some movies... 22.gif

Wanna cum watch?
crimson
QUOTE(boredandlonely77 @ Aug 4 2013, 06:48 PM)
Good god no it doesn't freak me out. It turns me the fuck on, if I know they are wanking over me and damn I would love to watch. I do not understand women like that at all. It's like girls who say their men can't watch porn, wt is that all about? I'd watch with them! lol
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boredandlonely77
QUOTE(paybarraman @ Aug 12 2013, 08:54 AM)
I got some movies...  22.gif

Wanna cum watch?
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