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[paybarraman]

Ok Ladies...

Does it gross you out or make you squirmish if your Husband/Boyfriend/SO tells you they masturbate?

I recently mentioned this to my SO since our sex life is practically non-existent. The context was basically "You must be able to live with it but I cant....I at least take care of myself but you..." It was at this point that she went into "No NO NO!! I dont wanna know!! Ewwwwww...:"

Well? How many of you would be put off being told this?

[JCupTitties]

Jerking off is not gross, it's natural but with all things you can take it to pervy creepy places. Maybe some of those who are skeeved out by it have a reason to be. On the other hand men are typically very very secretive about jerking off. They often behave as if they are doing something wrong. I think if you behave like your doing something wrong or hide it from someone your in a committed relationship or want to be in a committed relationship with it sets a tone.

I always knew my husband jerked off he would in front of me if I asked the same as I would play with myself for him.... However he hid that he looked at porn and jerked off and lied to me point blank when asked for a long time. I don't have a problem with it, he thought I would or he wanted to keep it to himself... That I have issues with. When you have to lie about something or you aren't open in a relationship where you should be there are underlying problems and the porn nor the jerking off are the issues it's more than that.

My opinion. If your gonna jerk off then jerk off. If your in a relationship where you feel comfortable enough to have sex with a girl you should be able to be comfortable enough to talk about jerking off with her or not hide it from her at least. Either she is okay with it or she isn't but if its a part of who you are and what you enjoy and it's not enveloped around something really shifty or illegal then you shouldn't have to change for anyone.

JMO