Please... Can somebody tell me why the vast majority of men who PM me here want to either "swap pics" or they just attach unsolicited pictures of their cocks in their messages to me? I don't get it. Are you guys really that much into exhibitionism that much? Or, do you really believe that ALL women want to spend all their time staring at pictures of strange men's penises? After-all, their NOT like boobs. Except for a few extreme cases, "seen one seen em all" pretty much applies.

cuz men are horny bastards that assume if your posting on here your willing to cyber with them

staking territory, possibly?

tried to be as polite as possible when I PM'd

I've never claimed to know much about women, but it doesn't seem like the best way to get to know a woman.




that's naraz's reason anyway

Like a really unattractive guy hitting a bunch of singles bars, they are playing the percentages.

Even if the success rate is 2%, that means that out of every 100 woman the guy, hits on, he will score with two. For a desperate guy, that may be worth the effort.

It probably works the same way with unsolicited "equipment" photos. The same guy who sent you that photo probably sent it to every single woman on this site. And hopes that maybe one or two of them will actually send something back.

I hope the one's who do are trannies....

hmmmm...you seem pretty knowledgeble about this...

either your a math major or something...or youve been in this situation rofl

It seems Naraz has gotten himself a digital camera

Why in the hell would they be so ignorant as to assume that because you post harmless boobie pics you want some kind of wierd sex?

with alll the talk about it around the site, maybe they feel you've fallen under some trance? lol

I dont know but some do.In my first week on here I even had a guy from the middle east ask my to go out there for a week of sex with him and when I turned him down he said he couldnt understand why as plenty of women did.

actually, i DO have a new digital camera...7.2 megapix! hehe...i liiiikeee...

always remember hun in some cases men think with there cocks , so when they send ya a pic of it there wanting you to think there smart ....

I DO realize that. But, how hard up does a guy have to be to restort to that kind of thing? Either they're so bad looking or off that they can't get a girl in the real world, or they're junior high school kids playing around on a computer. Maybe I'm just sensitive to this kind of thing because it seems so incredibly pathetic. To me cybre sex is NOT sex at all. It's just another way to jack-off. So, why envolve someone else in your fantasies who has made it clear she doesn't wish to participate? Maybe I just don't fully appreciate how sexually sick some people can be. (But, I doubt it.)

you never know who might be chatting with you or trying to entice you into answering their messages

Maybe I'm missing something. Obviously I've never Pm'ed you with cock pictures (or anything else, for that matter.) But when you ask "How hard- up does a guy have to be, etc, ect",think for a minute exactly what you're asking. I could just as easily ask, "How hard up does a woman have to be to post nude pictures on the Internet" "Does she really need attention that badly?" "It's pathetic what some woman will do to get attention". See where I'm going with this? Before you judge someone else's motives for what they are doing here, first judge you own. When you post nude pictures of yourself on the Internet, then are surprised by the responses you garner, you show yourself to be either naive or ignorant of human nature. To be truthful, I thought you were more sophisicated and informed than most of the women who post here. I was wrong. And to say that these guys(whoever they might be) are just here to "jack-off" over your pictures, what planet are you from? You must have gotten an "F" in biology. Either that, or you really have no idea how the male mind works. Answer one question, "What do YOU get out of posting nude pictures of yourself on the Internet?" Let's start with that.

I agree with you kind of, but that was a tad harsh.

Not the same thing at all. I doubt there are many women here that post pics with the expectation of fostering any kind of online sexual relationship. To be truthful, I thought you were more of a modern man who was not as intellectually handicapped as you apparently are. You obviously are close-minded enough to believe the BS you write. After-all you ARE one of the males whose mind obviously works the way you made a point of reference to. You've taken such a clearly defensive posture over this question that it would seem you may be quite obviousy be one of the one of the guys here to "jack-off" over pictures and attempt to demoralize the very women you show up here to see. Srry buddy, but you really do sound like a sick puppy yourself. And, as for why I post pictures here... It's simply fun watching men like you act the way you're acting now. I started posting pictures on a bet, but it became fun. I'm used to having my picture taken and published so it's really not a big streth for me. Sorry, but I don't need attention from people like you bad enough to post That's not the reason I do it. My self image is just fine. I've gotten enough attention from the opposit sex in my life to feel more than secure. On the other hand, it's hard to believe that any of my statements would have been enough to provoke such an intense response from you unless I struck a nerve. You've just shown (and proven) what kind of guy you really are. Now, everyone else here can see who you really are. Ans yes, I do see where you were going with your post. But, maybe you should ask someone else before you start playing the devil's advocate. My opinions are my opinions...your's are yours. That's just the way it is. Maybe we should wait until other men start PMing you pictures of their cocks on a regular basis then see how you feel. I just can't believe you are that narrow-minded.

Right! pull up a chair and get comfortable. I've done this before with know-it-all men.

WOW i totally think that SAME fucking guy did the same thing to me. haha wow, how truly ridiculous! lol


ok and in regards to closeups response.... i dont think hes narrowminded or here to "jack-off" even if he is. what he did say made sense for the most part... i mean, there a lot of people who would think those things about the women who post here and to each her own with the reasons. but really, if you have made it clear that you dont want unsolicited cocks and still get them, you really just have to ignore it, chances are its a random person who knows nothing. you have to disregard it although it irritates you. and i dont think closeup stands behind what he said, he was just trying to say what others could be getting an impression of.

now, not to seem as if taking sides.... i do agree with both of you on some/most of what you each said. i think the hostility on both ends are slighly unwarranted though... just my opinion. dont me

oh il spank you cort...but not cuz of this..

just cuz its fuckin fun and you'll love it! lol

Lynnette,

While I agree with your frustrations, I have to say with all the shit that goes on the world, to be surprised by unsolicited cock PM's is just not something you can distill down to any particular reasons.

Like it has been said, you enjoy posting, started on a lark, well someof those same people who sent the pms are prolly on the same wave length. they just get off sending their shit out there.

The best advice I can give is to just make use of the "Ignore User" feature in the mail area and start blocking the schlubs that keep sending you shit.

I think the real problem is some guys havent had sexual 101 , they dont realize most women are not stimulated by the site of a erect cock , most have to be phisically stimulated , thus they feel if they send you a pic of there cock you will get horny and in turn help them get off as well, I personally dont much care either way , I think cyber sex is highly over rated , but I do enjoy looking at your pictures Lyn ...... keep them coming so to speak ..

You're some piece of work. First, I've never once in the year and a half I've been on this site sent an unsolicted PM with a rude comment or picture. I'm not sure what you mean by my "demorilizing" the women here. That word, in that context, makes no sense. (Look it up) Secondly, as I've stated in a few other threads, I don't get off on the pictures you ladies post here. I don't, however, DENIGRATE the guys who do, like you did in your post. Thirdly, my response was not intense, my panties aren't in a knot, and I'm not someone who takes this whole RMM thing very seriously. But when someone like you feels the need to take a cheap shot, I have no problem calling you on it. I agree with everyone else once you say you don't want someone to PM you, that should be that. But to be so quick to condemn "guys" motives for being here, before you question your own, really shows what kind of person you are. Here's an idea: Stick to posting your melons and leave the thinking to others who are better equipped.

you're totally wrong there






it's more like 1%






naraz probably just hasn't made his rounds yet



But seriously, I think maybe some dudes just think women think like themselves. Most guys would LOVE if women were sending them unsolicited pussy pics and feel that women would love it as well if they send them cock pics. Idunno what guys are inexperienced enough to think women and men think along the same lines, but obviously there are some.

Why thank you. I'll take the "some piece of work" comment as a compliment coming from you. I'm still trying to figure out why my comments about men who do this sort of thing got you so riled up in th first place. Are you a discussion board cop? I was merely trying to get other peoples take on why these men do what they do. You seem to think that my questions were directed at all men. They weren't! Listen, I think I've got a pretty firm grasp of what makes men tick sexually, but the questions I post are meant to initiate responses from other people. I enjoy hearing other opinions. You posed a couple of questions regarding the motivations women have for posting. This place is all about entertainment (both for the women posting and the men who frequent this site). That's it in a nutshell. And, I do resent the fact that you seem to feel that you're sitting on such high ground by making statements such as "I don't get off on the pictures you ladies post here". If you don't appreciate the photos...then what the heck are you here for in the first place? For the articles? Pleeeeeeze! The men who make it a practice to send unsolicited pictures of their private areas to women especially after they've been asked not to have problems as far as I'm concerned. I don't feel it's natural or right. In my opinion they harbor much the same mentality as the rapist who hears the word "NO" but ignores it for his own reasons. So, if you want to come to their defense, go ahead. But, it just shows the kind of person you are. I just don't understand how someone like you can so quickly jump to the defense of men like that. As far as I'm concerned, there's no excuse. And, you act as though I was directing my comments at all the men here on this site. That was NEVER the case. And, if you read my post carefully, I really don't believe I am being quick to "condmn" guy's motives for being here at all. I see these places as very healthy entertainment for the most part. So, suppose you come right out and tell me just what kind of person I am? Man! There are pictures of TITS all over this place! From my personal experience, men enjoy looking at a good set of knockers... they always have and always will. The men here are no exception, and in many ways it's very healthy. And, for the most part the regulars here are all great guys. But, that doesn't necessarily mean it's right for other men to do some of the things they do. And, for you to even make the veiled suggestion that all the women here have security issues as a motivation for posting pictures is just plain ignorant. Whether you realize it or not, THAT comment IS "demoralizing" to women. Sorry, but you really are starting to sound like one of those men who will say things about a rape victim like... "she had it coming because she was wearing a low-cut top". If any of this sounds harsh to you, then I suggest you re-read your answer to my intial post on this subject and look closely at the name-calling and personal attack. BTW, this is all IMHO.

As per usual, either you didn't read what I wrote or didn't understand it. See where I said you were right to say enough is enough when it comes to guys PMing you after you've told them not too? That's the opposite of coming to their defense.But I'm not going to rehash the whole thing again for your edification. I see you didn't follow my simple advice about posting.If you understood men the way you claim to, there would be a picture of your tits here instead of a rebuttal Here's a hint; Above the neck-Bad, below the neck-Good. And to equate what I've written with the mind of a rapist is the lowest of blows.Saying I don't get off on the pictures doesn't mean I don't appreciate them. That's two separate and distinct things. Since we're both calling a cease-fire, your next post should be:

A. More argument

B. A picture of your boobs

Take your time and give it some thought, I'm sure you can figure it out.

Ya know... I don't think you even realize just how you come across. Your tendency to posture yourself as superior to everyone you direct your comments toward illustrates how badly you really do want to always be right. Are you typical of the type of men that think women should be seen and not heard? "If you understood men the way you claim to, there would be a picture of your tits here intead of a rebuttal. Here's a hint; Above the neck-bad, below the neck-good". You've quite obviously been involved in relationships where you feel you can assert control over a partner by putting her in her place. Sounds an aweful lot like you're saying "shut up and show your tits". "Women are only good for one thing." Right? Not a very enlighted attitude. Also, the same thing applies to your comment "I'm sure you can figure it out". THAT, my friend sounds a lot like I may be incapable of understanding what you mean because you're SO intellectually superior to me. And... "since we're both calling a cease-fire"? Who's calling a cease-fire? You take liberties by assuming you're always right? Then, you think it's a matter of cut & run? HMMMM! Since we're propsing we both know what one another's next post should be... I think yours should be to...

A. Give up on arguing a point that has very little merit.
or,
B. Be quiet, and recognize the fact that you're being totally arogant, and come to the realization that your opinion is no better (or no more correct) than anyone else's here.Take all the time you need. I'm thinking YOU'LL figure it out.

Or... Maybe I should just bow, show you my tits, and say "you're right darling, I'm wrong. Wanna have sex now?

Sorry, I just find it hard to believe that, that many men are that stupid (unless they've watched so much porn that they've lost touch with reality). THAT would make then just plain weirdos. I'm pretty sure that not a lot of men receive unsolicited pussy pics from everyday, ordinary women. If these guysb want to show their stuff there are a lot of sites that allow them to post. Why impose?

Just chiming in here but.....If I'm understanding you correctly Lynette, it seems like you're getting hit with PM's from repeat offenders and if that's the case well then yeah....major problems and the best explanation is the guy is getting off on your issues with the mail.

If these are just single PM's, then whether you want to believe/agree/give merit or not, the explanation that there are guys who just do it to see if they get a response has to have some weight.

Remember there are over 15000 members to this site and unless you've received 15000 individual cock pic PM's then I'd warrant you're liable to see more.