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[UncleBuck]

Thought I'd just air out some grievances:

As anyone who reads this thread would know, I'm getting married, and it is only like 10 or 11 weeks away, I'm excited!

However, when I meet new people (And in my line of work it happens daily) and they find out I am getting married, all of a sudden they turn into Dr Phil. Are you sure you want to do this? Wow, you are really young to be getting married, are you rushing into things? Are you going to be put "under the thumb" of your new wife? I hope it works out for you but Marriage can be a disaster etc etc.

Usually, the ones offering such sound advice are either single or divorced or their spouse keeps them on a leash!

My fiancee and I have lived together now for almost 3 years and have been together 5 1/2 years so i think i would know her a little better than the strangers offering me advice! Just because you wife doesn't let you drink with the boys anymore doesn't mean that will happen to me. Oh, and just because you don't get laid anymore becaue you are married, doesn't mean I'll be putting my cock into retirement just yet. Maybe your wife doesn't fuck you because you have put on 40 lbs since you got hitched!

Had to get that off my chest

Yeah famous last words Bondi, good luck to you my friend
and a Happy New Years to you!


A Code of Honor: Never approach a friend's girlfriend or wife with mischief as your goal. There are just too many women in the world to justify that sort of dishonorable behavior. Unless she's really_ attractive.
-- Bruce Friedman

Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, and half shut afterwards.
-- Benjamin Franklin

[evade20]

Thought I'd just air out some grievances:

As anyone who reads this thread would know, I'm getting married, and it is only like 10 or 11 weeks away, I'm excited!

However, when I meet new people (And in my line of work it happens daily) and they find out I am getting married, all of a sudden they turn into Dr Phil. Are you sure you want to do this? Wow, you are really young to be getting married, are you rushing into things? Are you going to be put "under the thumb" of your new wife? I hope it works out for you but Marriage can be a disaster etc etc.

Usually, the ones offering such sound advice are either single or divorced or their spouse keeps them on a leash!

My fiancee and I have lived together now for almost 3 years and have been together 5 1/2 years so i think i would know her a little better than the strangers offering me advice! Just because you wife doesn't let you drink with the boys anymore doesn't mean that will happen to me. Oh, and just because you don't get laid anymore becaue you are married, doesn't mean I'll be putting my cock into retirement just yet. Maybe your wife doesn't fuck you because you have put on 40 lbs since you got hitched!

Had to get that off my chest

Best of luck to you, Dude!

[hott1976]

10 or 11 weeks and my heart will be broken..........

[bondiguy]

Thanks for all the messages of Support people!

wishing you much luck , history is what most people  go by, as a matter of fact its the only thing we have to go by ,  and in most married peoples history  was great sex  , blow jobs ,nights out with friends , drinking ,  I must say  once the ring goes on the finger  things do tend to change , , why I have no idea  ? it just they seem to want to impress us then they get  the ring and things are solitified  and  things just seem to change  , i will never give  a person advice  , just talk of experiences that I have seen first hand  ..but as I started out mate  , I wish you a happy and fun loving  marriage  ...

I feel sorry for you. I know my (future) wife, who is younger than me, has a very healthy libido and enjoys sex as much if not more than most women... so im pretty sure I'll be in good hands

10 or 11 weeks and my heart will be broken.......... 

Awww shucks

[bondiguy]

Happy 2007 guys and girls

[ddd35]

I feel sorry for you. I know my (future) wife, who is younger than me, has a very healthy libido and enjoys sex as much if not more than most women... so im pretty sure I'll be in good hands
Awww shucks

no need to feel sorry , I married a nympho my friend , when we dated and lived together for 3 yrs we had sex no less then 7 times a week usually more , however when Our first child was born she had many complications mainly he was face up not face down which makes it twice as hard todeliever she ended up pushing till she broke the blood vessels in her eye balls and then dislocated her hip from trying to push him , and after I had threatened to kill the doctor that finnally did a C section and then after 7 tries they couldnt get the spinal block to work so they had to knock her out , the point is after that our sex really slowed , I mean came to a stop , now we have had our 2nd child 7 yrs ago and since that times its all been good , but to say it will never happen to me . Is total Bullshit .. Im sure there are many stories , As I said it just goes to history ...

[ddd35]

Happy 2007 guys and girls

and to you !!!!

[hott1976]

no need to feel sorry , I married a nympho my friend , when we dated and lived together for 3 yrs we had sex no less  then 7 times a week usually more  ,   however  when Our first child was born  she had many complications mainly he was face  up not face down  which makes it twice as hard todeliever  she ended up pushing till she broke the blood vessels in her eye balls  and then dislocated her hip  from trying to push him  , and after  I had threatened to kill the doctor that finnally  did a C section  and then  after 7 tries they couldnt get the spinal block to work so they had to knock her out  ,  the point is  after that our sex really slowed , I mean came to a stop , now we have had our 2nd child  7 yrs ago and since that times  its all been good   , but  to say  it will never happen to me  . Is total   Bullshit  .. Im sure there are many stories , As I said  it just goes to history ...

hmm........that's hot! ~ paris hilton

makes me not want to think about having a child.

[ddd35]

hmm........that's hot!  ~ paris hilton

makes me not want to think about having a child.

well Id be glad to volunteer to help you practice getting pregnant anytime your ready

[hott1976]

hmmm............
??? interesting.

[ddd35]

hmmm............
???  interesting.

it could be for sure

[bondiguy]

Sorry 3d, I just don't buy that shit. Just because it happens to you, it doesn't happen to everyone. I have married friends who love their sex life as much as they ever did.

Sometimes you are kind of funny and whatever but when you try and predict what will happen in my life without knowing the slightest things about my circumstances I start to take your posts with a grain of salt.

[ddd35]

Sorry 3d, I just don't buy that shit. Just because it happens to you, it doesn't happen to everyone. I have married friends who love their sex life as much as they ever did.

Sometimes you are kind of funny and whatever but when you try and predict what will happen in my life without knowing the slightest things about my circumstances I start to take your posts with a grain of salt.

LoL yep , Id bet you that 50% of all married couples after 5 yrs of marriage there sex lives have changed in some way , 75 % after 10 yrs have changed drastically ... as you get older and kids enter the picture , your job gets more demanding , need for capital gets more demanding the need for sex is still there just not as needful as it is in the single days and dating days ... If we have this conversation in 10 yrs I hope Im wrong but most likely youll see what im talking about ... when I was 25 I could work 10 hours n the farm , drink till 2 AM and then fuck till dawn and do the same thing the next day , now at 41 , I work 10 hours go home fall asleep on the couch , wake up at 5 AM pat her on the ass and start my day again ... Its just life , nothing bad mind ya just the way i choose to go , We live in a world that revolves around money way more then sex ... add this to the hour glass , as long as your counting sand add this one , I have a business associate that married a very horny asian gal , he is very business minded never wanted kids just wanted to make the almighty dollar and climb the coporate ladder , well she emails me all the time now they have been married 6 yrs , have 1 child ,he is on the world payroll for monsanto corporation , he travels all over the world and there sex life is pretty slow , he gets up at 5 heads to work then comes home at 6 Pm works in his home office till 10 or 11 then goes to bed , there just isnt that much time for sex ... and it doesnt matter to him but to her she wants more kids , My point is its not always the wifes fault often times its the man .. as said there are many stories and Im sure many of the ladies here will tell ya they get all they want , however do they really ? LOL good day mate hope things are coming together for your wedding I hope it is the best day of your life and hers of course and I mean that sincere ..

this is the final chapter in (as the wedding Vows turn ) this message brought to you by trojan , the condom's cheaters chose the most ..

[bondiguy]

3d, I have no doubts that with the hands of time that everyone's ses life slows at by varying margins. What I object to is that people who tell me to kiss my sex life goodbye from March onwards. People often give up too easily on their sex life and I guess it is up to the individuals to decide how important it is to them, to me it is very important. To others who hold it in a high importance they experiment, try different things with their partners, it is how you get longevity.

Also, I don't think it has got a thing to do with how much of a nymph your prospective life partner has. Sex is a two way street and as long as a connection is there and a physical attraction remains, sex will live on. I don't work 10 hours a day, neither does my fianceee. Kids are a long way off for us so in at least the short term I am pretty sure I'll be just fine. Thanks for your concern though

[closeup]

This seems to be one discussion that that is actually being taken seriously. Everyone is assuming the other person's good intentions,i.e. giving the benifit of the doubt. That's how most advice should be taken around here. Take what sounds reasonable and ignore the rest. Best of luck my good man. I won't try to offer any words of wisdom ,because if I could ever figure out women, I wouldn't just give it away free to you, I'd sell a book and make millions.

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[bondiguy]

This seems to be one discussion that that is actually being taken seriously. Everyone is assuming the other person's good intentions,i.e. giving the benifit of the doubt. That's how most advice should be taken around here. Take what sounds reasonable and ignore the rest. Best of luck my good man. I won't try to offer any words of wisdom ,because if I could ever  figure out women, I wouldn't just give it away free to you, I'd sell a book and make millions.

A best of luck and congrats are is all the advice I need.... thanks mate

[ddd35]

mate , mine was not advice , just stating history and fact ..

hey been doing some resaerch on weather , and it seems australia is in a long term drought is that the case is your area ?

your weather is what we use to project our elnino and lanino events in the weather which effects my farming operation greatly ...

[bondiguy]

mate , mine was not advice , just stating history and fact .. 

hey been doing some resaerch on weather  , and it seems australia is  in a long term drought  is that the case is your area  ?

your weather is what we use to project our elnino  and lanino events in the weather   which  effects my farming operation greatly  ...

Fact? Once again, one person's fact is another's fiction

Very true, most parts of Australia is in the middle of the worst drought for 100 years. I live in a major city so it doesn't affect me too much but we are on water restrictions across the state which kinda blows.

Scientists originally thought it was caused mainly by global warming and climate change but have since further researched and laid blame squarely on our friend El Nino. Some have predicted a turn around in August of 2007 but even then we would need months of substantial, above average rainfall to turn the tide so to speak

[hott1976]

Cool conversation peeps! duh.

[bondiguy]

Cool conversation peeps!  duh.

Well it is hard convincing Farm Boy not all married couples stop having sex

[hott1976]

no i'm talking the El nino stuff...
can we see mr. nino's cock? anyone got that pic?

[hott1976]

by the way ya'll (yes you bondi) i'm a farm girl at heart! LOL

[bondiguy]

no i'm talking the El nino stuff...
can we see mr. nino's cock?  anyone got that pic?

Im sure 3d has it?

And perhaps you could liven up proceedings here???

[bondiguy]

by the way ya'll  (yes you bondi) i'm a farm girl at heart!  LOL

Yeeeeeeeeeha

[hott1976]

lol
not really a farm girl but maybe a waterwomen... you'll see in your pm. kisses.

[bondiguy]

lol
not really a farm girl but maybe a waterwomen... you'll see in your pm.  kisses.

I am much the same way

[hott1976]

u ride the water i work the water.

[bondiguy]

u ride the water i work the water. 

And there is little else I love more.... :surfingsmilie:

[ddd35]

by the way ya'll  (yes you bondi) i'm a farm girl at heart!  LOL

I sensed that about you ..

[hott1976]

You did 3D? that's the dumbest thing i've ever heard?