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Posted by: karol4u Oct 17 2005, 12:07 PM
I know that you can't search out all the nasty and rude comments, but at least write something up on a sticky... thank you... 
Posted by: Hot mama Oct 17 2005, 12:19 PM
I know how you feel. I have had some nasty comments made on my pics. You are right I'm not a small (thin) lady but I do have big boobs. If you look at my pics you'll see the comment I got. Sorry hon I dont post face pics any more. I did for along time but then some one downloaded it and used it the wrong way if you know what i meen. It was sent to alot of people and a friend of mine got it from a friend of his and sent it to me. I have not told any of my family or friends about this site. So hon that is why I'll not put a face pic on here for all to see.
Posted by: Hot mama Oct 17 2005, 12:27 PM
some people can be mean f**kin a** holes with there comments! Cman started a thread about mean comments. There were alot of us that got mean comments.
Posted by: Hot mama Oct 17 2005, 01:06 PM
its under shoot the breeze
Leaving Fucked Up Comments On The Front Page
thats the name of the thread 
Posted by: paybarraman Oct 17 2005, 01:45 PM
Hang In there Karol!!! Dont let them chase you away!!! Rememebr the real opinions are back here on the boards!!!!
Posted by: Hot mama Oct 17 2005, 01:56 PM
you are so right pay thay are.
Posted by: amberis1985 Oct 19 2005, 05:25 PM
That makes me really upset too! I dont think i have gotten a nasty comment yet..but the fear of one makes me extra careful with my pics.......I think if there was differnt groups that would be cool...but i bet that would be a big undertaking!
Posted by: squaddieboy Oct 19 2005, 06:09 PM
as a wise old man once said dont let the bastards grind you down or was it f**k em
Posted by: clincar Oct 19 2005, 07:52 PM
I agrre completely with you squaddieboy!! F**K EM!!
Posted by: juicyboobs Oct 20 2005, 11:08 AM
just don't give them the time of day!
if they don't like us then move on, i get plenty nice comments and ignore the shit ones
Posted by: mmmmmm808080 Oct 20 2005, 08:01 PM
if they don't like us then move on, i get plenty nice comments and ignore the shit ones
Having seen some of the comments - its clear that a number of people are very narrow minded and are only looking for stereotypes - they just cant admire the sexy pictures and the diversity.
Personally, I find curvy more sexy - and yes would like to see your faces, bodies shots and clothed - and not just tit shots, although that's my favorite part, and to hear something about you on these sorts of forums.
Those that wish to poke fun should just grow up as they've got no respect for your feelings - they just see the body and not the person - try to ignore them and the people that count will try to ensure you know how special you all are.
Please don't let it stop you posting, or indeed sneding out those those that care any photos and thoughts you want to
Posted by: COMEDYMAN Oct 21 2005, 11:00 AM
A BBW Category doesnt sound like a bad idea
Posted by: Hot mama Oct 21 2005, 11:21 AM
i think its a good idea
Posted by: BusterHymen Oct 21 2005, 12:00 PM
I think the category sounds good too but exactly when is it a women is considered a BBW? I mean is it like 170lbs and up 160lb? I am a little confused
I always thought of it as a personal decision.Anyway just curious,
Buster
Posted by: Hot mama Oct 21 2005, 12:11 PM
dont you like ladys that are 160-170lbs.? I'm not saying you dont!!!! I'm just asking
Posted by: COMEDYMAN Oct 21 2005, 12:14 PM
I always thought of it as a personal decision.Anyway just curious,
Buster
Thats actually a good point .... It is a personal choice i guess .. I dont like the term BBW per se but it is the accepted norm ... i just tend to like girls with a little more curve happening. I dont think theres a rule for a BBW
I hope you girls dont take my starting that thread as a type of segregation i just happen to like come more curves here and there is all
Its just liek my fetish thread or the Kittys of RMM And I put the disclaimers in the thread because there are some mean spirited folks who post sometimes and feel they have to tear someone down because of some personal fuck up in their lives...
Posted by: BusterHymen Oct 21 2005, 12:16 PM
I do not have a problem at all with that weight.
.. I am just curious when your talking about a BBW category would it go by weight, height, etc. just curious of how someone submitting the pic would know where to place the pic. (meaning in the BBW category or another one).
Posted by: Hot mama Oct 21 2005, 12:19 PM
.. I am just curious when your talking about a BBW category would it go by weight, height, etc. just curious of how someone submitting the pic would know where to place the pic. (meaning in the BBW category or another one).I know you love all lovly ladys
and that is because you are so sweet
Posted by: BusterHymen Oct 21 2005, 12:22 PM
and that is because you are so sweet Well Thank you Hot Mama!
Posted by: Hot mama Oct 21 2005, 12:24 PM
you are welcome
Posted by: 7mary3 Oct 21 2005, 01:58 PM
I am looking forward to the BBW posts. The softer appearance is a much bigger turn on that the skinny rib cage look...not that there is anything wrong with that, but the current Calista Flockhart trend just isn't my cup of tea.
CMan thanks for starting what to me sounds like a damn fine idea!! 
Posted by: cowboy Oct 21 2005, 02:59 PM
I agree with all of you I like something to hold onto when I'm with a women.
Posted by: amberis1985 Oct 21 2005, 09:08 PM
.. I am just curious when your talking about a BBW category would it go by weight, height, etc. just curious of how someone submitting the pic would know where to place the pic. (meaning in the BBW category or another one).I think the girl will know if shes a BBW
Posted by: cowboy Oct 21 2005, 09:10 PM
you are right a girl knows better then us guys.
Posted by: amberis1985 Oct 21 2005, 09:12 PM
and i would also feel more comfortable posting in a BBW section.
Posted by: johnfreak Oct 23 2005, 11:28 AM
there's a couple problems making a BBW section.
#1 that means that if a girl submit pics and it's not submitted to the BBW section, I have to play god with her ego and decide if I shove her in the BBW section.... and there's no clear way to say "if a girl weighs X# of pounds she goes in the BBW sectioN" since obviously I can't judge that from a tittie pic. There are girls I would consider a little "thick" and that same girl another guy would say is a BBW and vice versa.
#2 That section would be a magnet for people putting in nasty comments.
#3 This would require programming.
#4 I might do it despite all these reasons
#5 it might not be necessary once (if it's ever done) the new script is done testing cause you girls can moderate your own comments.
Posted by: cowboy Oct 23 2005, 12:52 PM
#1 that means that if a girl submit pics and it's not submitted to the BBW section, I have to play god with her ego and decide if I shove her in the BBW section.... and there's no clear way to say "if a girl weighs X# of pounds she goes in the BBW sectioN" since obviously I can't judge that from a tittie pic. There are girls I would consider a little "thick" and that same girl another guy would say is a BBW and vice versa.
#2 That section would be a magnet for people putting in nasty comments.
#3 This would require programming.
#4 I might do it despite all these reasons
#5 it might not be necessary once (if it's ever done) the new script is done testing cause you girls can moderate your own comments.
Hi john could'nt you add a choise for them to pic from bbw or the main page when they submit there pics?
Posted by: diamondgeezer Oct 24 2005, 10:11 AM
I would judge BBW status on dress size. I know it's not completely scientific, but ladies of, say, size 16 and upwards? Maybe a poll is in order.
And I would cheer a BBW section. They're the way forward, and there are some truly lovely examples on this board
Posted by: denyse Oct 24 2005, 03:12 PM
It's really hard to put a 'limit' on what is BBW/SSBBW and what isn't.
Using Weight and/or dress size isn't necessarily the best way, eg, 170lb at 5' may be considered BBW, but not for someone who's 6'5", same with dress sizes really.
Also, what someone may consider 'normal' other people (who only like the skinny rake look for example) will view as being BBW.
Again, i don't think you can really necessarily say that the girl will know/view themself as, on quite a few BBW sites you'll see girls that probably wouldn't be considered as BBW by most people, but they probably had a SO and/or family who make them feel 'bigger' so they view themselves as being BBW.
It's a hard category to define really as it mostly depends on the individual's likes and dislikes, although there maybe some women for whom the category most definitely applys, there are also quite a number who consider themselves as BBW (but probably are just 'normal' in the view point of many people)) and just as many who perhaps should define themselves as BBW (in the eyes of others) but who see themselves as 'normal'.
IMO, it's up to the individual's themselves as to how they want to view themselves, but it's difficult to define the parameters as what makes what in order to make it a formal grouping, without taking into account things like height and so on.
edit ps: oh, and I most definitely consider myself in the BBW category, but you're only going to see close up Booby shots here to minimise the 'nasty' comments, which I'm happy to ignore personally, but I don't think they should be up to discourage others. Especially as all a rude/nasty comment does is show how narrow-minded/small-minded and prejudiced the note leaver usually is. Nobody expects everyone to like what they see, we all have different preferences, but there's no need to be rude and nasty about someone just because they aren't what you like personally.
Posted by: diamondgeezer Oct 24 2005, 03:57 PM
Well exactly. In all honesty, slim women just aren't my cup of tea. But I don't leave them comments telling them to down the pies and put some weight on.
You're absolutely right, some people are just narrow minded. It's all about different strokes for different folks. The world would be boring if we all liked the same things. What floats my boat doesn't do it for the guy next to me, but that's cool cos it means we can sit down and discuss what makes for the perfect woman 
At the end of the day, all women are beautiful in one way or another. If certain people can't see that, then it's their loss isn't it
Posted by: COMEDYMAN Oct 28 2005, 12:08 PM
#1 that means that if a girl submit pics and it's not submitted to the BBW section, I have to play god with her ego and decide if I shove her in the BBW section.... and there's no clear way to say "if a girl weighs X# of pounds she goes in the BBW sectioN" since obviously I can't judge that from a tittie pic. There are girls I would consider a little "thick" and that same girl another guy would say is a BBW and vice versa.
#2 That section would be a magnet for people putting in nasty comments.
#3 This would require programming.
#4 I might do it despite all these reasons
#5 it might not be necessary once (if it's ever done) the new script is done testing cause you girls can moderate your own comments.
cool
but i just started the thread cause i like a little somethin somethin extra 
and cool for #5
Posted by: cowboy Oct 29 2005, 09:24 AM
Hey cman and a good thread it is
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