[ Outline ] · Standard · Linear+ Anyone Been Divorced?, ...and are now with the right person?

I've been married once before, we got divorced. Just wasn't right for me. For various reasons, the main one being that we weren't sexualy compatable......It was hard for a while, I hung in for 7 years, well only married for 2.

We'd have made better friends than lovers, lucky for us we didn't have kids, so the divorce went well, she got everything and I took my stereo and one of the dogs.... :lol:


Shortly after, I met the most amazing woman I've ever met......I consider myself lucky for that too. She was sexy, sweet, and VERY understanding, we clicked right away....she was in the middle of a nasty divorce, but we hung in there and I never knew what love was till we met......A new high, so to speak.....you just know, and if you don't know what I mean, then you haven't found it yet :(


It's nice to be one with your relationship, no to be judged for what you say.....and to just be head over heels in love....

Just a thought I had this morning.

I was married for a long time to my "college sweetheart." Should have known better I guess. She said and did all the right things until we had a house built, then it was all about her dreams and my dreams were left to be just that! While she was a beautiful lady and did quite a bit of modeling I'd have to say as time went on she got "dumb." Dumb because she thought the world was all about her looks and how she looked, and who looked at her. No matter what she couldn't get enough attention and she disliked other women immensely!!

I had moved up in a company to a great level of being an executive and traveling in style and comfort. We went to a lot of hot spots all over. Vacations were generated from frequest flyer miles, bonuses, etc. Then one day she told me she wanted a divorce. Here she was fucking her old boyfriend from high school when I was out of town on business. He was feeding her head with a bunch of shit (she told me later about that). We ended up getting divorced. She's traveled down a couple roads since and has come back many times telling me how sorry she was. Only thing is I'm not sorry about our being divorced anymore!!

Now with 2 kids I loved I couldn't just move away, although a great promotion was offered with the move! But my kids were too important and I knew their mom was too caught up in herself to raise them alone. I rode the thing out and while I thought I was miserable about getting divorced, I realized I really wasn't. I began to date and it was like getting back on a bicycle again. What I did find was that I wasn't miserable, but happily divorced.

I remain happily divorced to this day. I've met some wonderful women along the way who have been friends and more, but have learned that I know what I want and that is the direction I will go. I don't try to change anyone, and don't wish to be asked to change for anyone. I'm open to making improvements on myself, but know I am a good person, have a ton of friends, am well respected in my community and have dated a lot of great looking women!! Dating a good lady is not the problem, as I've also met many a lady that has had the same experience I have.

Yep, happily divorced!

But, if some good looking lady came along and wanted to be in my life and had many of the same ideals I do, I'd certainly welcome it! Until then, I am the "BOOBLUVER2!"

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