[ Outline ] · Standard · Linear+ Soliciting Comments, Don't you think it's kind of sad?

[Lynette]

[/B]I recently received a PM from a woman here who was asking for comments to be made on her pictures. Maybe some of you got the same one. Anyway, it struck me as sad that anyone would actually use the PM to promote themselves here. Obviously, some women here in the past view this site as "competitive". I fail to see why there should be any kind of competition here. The top ten scores are there to help arket the site for sure. This woman objected and called me rude and jealous (of just what, I'm not sure of) when I answered and told her that I thought she sounded a little desperate to solicit comments by begging for opinions on the messanger. I believe that if someone feels compelled to make a comment on any given picture...they will without be asked. Anyone else get this message?

[Pinkcheeks214]

I think the 'Top Melons this month' section makes this site competitive. If you're able to vote for yourself, then you can keep yourself in the top 20. Isn't that why women start threads for themselves in the 411 section, more attention for themselves so people check out their pics. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, positive praise is why everyone posts pics to this site.

[Lynette]

I think the 'Top Melons this month' section makes this site competitive. If you're able to vote for yourself, then you can keep yourself in the top 20. Isn't that why women start threads for themselves in the 411 section, more attention for themselves so people check out their pics. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, positive praise is why everyone posts pics to this site.

Yes, but don't you think it's kinda sad when women resort to "begging" for attention? The pictures are generally posted for fun. Boobs are fun things. We all have fun with them. When the need for praise is so strong that that a woman actually begs for attention... well it just seems very sad. Let's face it, we're all exhibitionists to some degree here. But showing your boobs for fun, and soliciting votes arre two very different things. Besides, there are some women here that have NO chance of ever being in the top ten, but are out there trying to "buy" votes with promises of more personal types of pictures to be e-mailed in exchange for a vote or comment. Just sounds like they have self-image issues.