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[desibaba]

After going out with many girls in my life and getting close to 23 yrs of age i have come to one conclusion.Forget all the crap you have learnt from bollywood n hollywood.Forget the sitting at a girl's feet and begging like a dog.Why? Because its the most self destructive thing you can do.For some reason i have seen most girls run away pretty fast when you give them presents,flowers and too many compliments.I guess the reason is they want a guy who's a CHALLENGE.Someone whos nice but at the same time lets them know that hes doing THEM a favor instead of going out with them instead of the other way around.In my experience all the girls i have dated i noticed the ones i was really nice to,gave the flowers and gifts to,Not to mention the compliments were the first ones who dumped me.And then the ones i didnt spend much money on,Never was the first to touch, and gave them the feeling that "i dont care if you like me or not" were the ones who were attracted to me the most.Anyone else agree with that? Girls like guys who are a challenge???

[bondiguy]

sounds like sombody has lived  a bad marriage to me  sorry    

How wrong u are... You have no idea about me so shut the fuck up! I am just trying to convey the fact that endless gifts and material signs of affection will not get someone who does not love you to love you.

Actually Bondi not wrong, one I was being sarcastic Two if the woman doesn't like him doing nice things and rather him be a jerk to her than she has issues, wether it be not loving him anymore or self issues there is IN FACT something going on.
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Why does this woman have issues? Maybe she does not love him now/anymore/ever. All the flowers in the world will not change her mind.... that is my opinion or at least 1 possibility. I do not think you can say the woman has issues without knowing the full story

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[diane26]

How wrong u are... You have no idea about me so shut the fuck up! I am just trying to convey the fact that endless gifts and material signs of affection will not get someone who does not love you to love you.
Why does this woman have issues? Maybe she does not love him now/anymore/ever. All the flowers in the world will not change her mind.... that is my opinion or at least 1 possibility. I do not think you can say the woman has issues without knowing the full story

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Also Bondi what the fuck crawled up your ass??? You come here being a smartass and rude but than tell someone who gave it back to shut the fuck up cause they don't know you???

What made you the expert on saying this dudes wife doesn't love him anymore. You come right in telling him she don't love you blah blah blah are you Dr. Phill?? Have you interviewed them, than he replies and you get all anal WTF is that all about.


If you don't like this place so much why are you back??? Why not just stay at Puppet's board the one that doesn't exist supposedly?? I mean if you bring back the old fun loving bondi great but if this is what people BEGGED you to come back for than maybe they got issues too.

Just my opinion.

[ddd35]

Also Bondi what the fuck crawled up your ass??? You come here being a smartass and rude but than tell someone who gave it back to shut the fuck up cause they don't know you???

What made you the expert on saying this dudes wife doesn't love him anymore. You come right in telling him she don't love you blah blah blah are you Dr. Phill?? Have you interviewed them, than he replies and you get all anal WTF is that all about.
If you don't like this place so much why are you back??? Why not just stay at Puppet's board the one that doesn't exist supposedly?? I mean if you bring back the old fun loving bondi great but if this is what people BEGGED you to come back for than maybe they got issues too.

Just my opinion.

thank you Diane , its not a big deal to me at all . but I apreciate your comments , I have a very strong marriage its just were all different in many ways , in our needs and our wants and our beliefs , the point I was making was simple , I tried to buy affection and when it didnt work I switched to not being so material , Im not mean by anyways , I just quit buying her things at every wim , and I think our relationship as become much stronger because of it , and I know our sex life has gotton much better , but thank you very much Di for your kind comments .

[diane26]

thank you Diane , its not a big deal to me  at all  .  but I apreciate your comments , I have a very strong marriage  its just were all different  in many ways , in our needs and our wants and our beliefs , the point I was making was simple  , I tried to buy  affection and when it didnt work I switched to not being so  material , Im not mean by anyways , I just quit buying her things at every wim , and I think our relationship as become much stronger because of it , and I know our sex life has gotton much better , but thank you very much Di  for your kind comments  .

No problem some times newer people get UNDESERVED bashings it shocks me anyone sticks around that is new. Glad you didn't let it get to you.

[ddd35]

No problem some times newer people get UNDESERVED bashings it shocks me anyone sticks around that is new. Glad you didn't let it get to you.

When i came to this board i realized quickly that there are nice people and there are not so nice people and the thing that i usually find is that the younger the person and less experienced in life they are the not so nice they become , I guess in my 40 yrs i have done several things that most havent , so we move on and enjoy the day as it may be our last .. Take great care lovely lady and thanks for sticking up for me , you dont find that very often this day and age ..

[diane26]

When i came to this board i realized quickly that there are nice people and there are not so nice people and the thing that i usually find is that the younger the person  and less experienced in life  they are the not so nice they become  ,  I guess in my 40 yrs i have done several things that most havent  , so we move on and enjoy the day as it may be our last    ..   Take great care  lovely lady  and thanks for  sticking up for me  , you dont find that very often this day and age  ..

No problem it is who I am, I am young only 26, 27 this year but I have gone through a whole shit load of stuff in my life so I think it has seriously aged me LOL

But I agree I notice more in younger men I think also it has to do with a cockyness they have and Im better than the world attitude want to think they have a high statue in this world to make them feel they are worth something.

That is what I have seen a lot anyway out and about in real world and online. Anyway welcome to the board and heres to hopping you stick around

[ddd35]

No problem it is who I am, I am young only 26, 27 this year but I have gone through a whole shit load of stuff in my life so I think it has seriously aged me LOL

But I agree I notice more in younger men I think also it has to do with a cockyness they have and Im better than the world attitude want to think they have a high statue in this world to make them feel they are worth something.

That is what I have seen a lot anyway out and about in real world and online. Anyway welcome to the board and heres to hopping you stick around

WEll Im planning on staying a good lady friend of mine invited me here and ive stayed and I get to see her pics as well so its all worth it , You are very mature for 27 my dear and sexy as hell I might add .. back at ya