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[desibaba]

After going out with many girls in my life and getting close to 23 yrs of age i have come to one conclusion.Forget all the crap you have learnt from bollywood n hollywood.Forget the sitting at a girl's feet and begging like a dog.Why? Because its the most self destructive thing you can do.For some reason i have seen most girls run away pretty fast when you give them presents,flowers and too many compliments.I guess the reason is they want a guy who's a CHALLENGE.Someone whos nice but at the same time lets them know that hes doing THEM a favor instead of going out with them instead of the other way around.In my experience all the girls i have dated i noticed the ones i was really nice to,gave the flowers and gifts to,Not to mention the compliments were the first ones who dumped me.And then the ones i didnt spend much money on,Never was the first to touch, and gave them the feeling that "i dont care if you like me or not" were the ones who were attracted to me the most.Anyone else agree with that? Girls like guys who are a challenge???

[COMEDYMAN]

I have said this a hundred times ... but what's a hundred and one


The reason Bad boys and assholeish dudes get the girls is that the asshole personality conveys a confidence about them. Girls dig that confidence.

The lovely ladies of RMM can back me up here ...

Which guy would you go out with at first....

1. A good looking guy who came right up to you and threw a few choice compliments and was sure of himself not to the point of arrogance but took charge somewhat.

or....

2. A good looking guy who barely looked at you due to shyness who made awkward passes to the point of personal embarassment and stammered and stumbled in the first contact speak to you.


#1 and #2 are the same dude but with different approaches.

#1 and #2 have same cock size, sexual ability and etc. but which one would you want to fuck first?

#1 will usually turn out to be an asshole once you get to know him while #2 could be a price charming but would you even bother trying to get to know him?


Discuss

[diane26]

I have said this a hundred times ... but what's a hundred and one
The reason Bad boys and assholeish dudes get the girls is that the asshole personality conveys a confidence about them.  Girls dig that confidence.  

The lovely ladies of RMM can back me up here ...

Which guy would you go out with at first....

1.  A good looking guy who came right up to you and threw a few choice compliments and was sure of himself not to the point of arrogance but took charge somewhat.

or....

2. A good looking guy who barely looked at you due to shyness who made awkward passes to the point of personal embarassment and stammered and stumbled in the first contact speak to you.
#1 and #2 are the same dude but with different approaches.

#1 and #2 have same cock size, sexual ability and etc.  but which one would you want to fuck first?

#1 will usually turn out to be an asshole once you get to know him while #2 could be a price charming but would you even bother trying to get to know him?
Discuss

You are right C man, but there is a line between a confident guy and a real asshole. I have been with all of the above.

A woman also can feel protected by a guy you know wont take shit, like with my husband he was always that asshole guy and more than just confident, but one thing I liked about him always is I know he would never let a guy disrespect me without kicking his ass.

I have seen him get in about 6 physical fights since being together about 5 of those was from a guy disrespecting me. HE also loves to fight.

But as I got older I decided allthough I like some of the pluses of that jerk of a guy the bad parts far outwieghed the good and I was no longer willing to put up with that, I would much rather have the nice romantic guy now.

Still dont want a puss especially for my personality I need a guy that is not a puss BUT I dont want to have the constant fighting and I want to feel truly loved.


That is when you hope as you get older the man your with matures also my husband started going to therapy to cope with me leaving him cause he was having a really hard time with it unlike I have ever seen he has always been such a manly man but he was having a total mental breakdown with me leaving, anyway he started therapy try and cope with it better and it has changed him a LOT I am now seeing a side of him I have never seen before that NICE GUY side and it is really nice, he still goes to therapy which is good cause he has a lot of issues from growing up I have always known about and its about time he has finally realized this and got help, but he has been romantic and nice and I dunno for a woman and for me it sure is a lot nice to feel like you are your husbands number 1.