[ Outline ] · Standard · Linear+ Sexual Arousal, How fast do you get horny?

[Lynette]

I was in a discussion the other night with some friends and it seems that the time it takes for different people to get turned-on really varies. When I told a some of these girlfiends of mine and their husbands and boyfriendsthat I can get savagely horny within two or three seconds, they seemed genuinely surprised. Most of the gus said the same thing and agreed that threy could generate a boner almost immediately, but there were also a couple that said it takes some time and effort. THAT'S hard for me to imagine. Usually, just the mention of anything sexual gets me wet. It doesn't take any effort for me to want to get naked and dirty at all. I LOVE sex! But, I understand that there are lots of women who have all kinds of problems sexually. One of my friends is 29 years old and told me that she'd NEVER had an orgasm during any kind of sexual encounter with her husband or anyone else for that matter. I thought "how sad". Words can't describe how bad I felt for her. But that's a little off-topic...
How long does it take you to be fully functional?

[diane26]

Not all men are wired the same and are so easy, I was shocked when watching my husband because we could watch a Porno and he wont even get hard and I will be horny and when I persue him than he gets hard. Also at a strip club he hasn't gotten hard. He says that it seems to be for a long time if it isn't a situation where he knows he can be with that person he wont get hard. Like he says he has been at work and thought of me and got hard but if he saw some hot chick he would think she was hot but wouldnt get hard cause he knows he wont be fucking her.

Anyway so I know not all men are the same and I know it isn't some bullshit he is telling me cause I have witnessed it but as far as when it comes to me I could be looking my worst come out and stetch and he will get hard.

I have a friend and her husband is the same way and when we were in vegas and he got a lapdance he didnt get hard either until his wife took over.

[dashriprock]

He says that it seems to be for a long time if it isn't a situation where he knows he can be with that person he wont get hard. .

I like the chase . It's more arousing not being sure you can get them . IMO

[diane26]

I like the chase .    It's more arousing not being sure you can get them .  IMO

My kind of man.

I like that with my husband at times too when he is tired or we been fighting and I get horny and I have to work a little to get him in the mood.

I think it really spices things up to have things be different.

[dashriprock]

My kind of man.

I like that with my husband at times too when he is tired or we been fighting and I get horny and I have to work a little to get him in the mood.

I think it really spices things up to have things be different.

Exactly ! I always put more effort into getting the chicks that showed less interest . My wife barely made eye contact the first time she was introduced to me . That started it all ! LOL