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I wonder if I'm the only one who is sick of not having sex? It's been almost 2 years since I got any. I've been really horny lately and I've been struggling with if I should go outside my committed relationship so I can get what I want. My s.o. says they're horny(first time in almost a year) but then when I go to initiate sex I get turned down. I'm so frustrated and tired of just masturbating.

I wonder if I'm the only one who is sick of not having sex? It's been almost 2 years since I got any. I've been really horny lately and I've been struggling with if I should go outside my committed relationship so I can get what I want. My s.o. says they're horny(first time in almost a year) but then when I go to initiate sex I get turned down. I'm so frustrated and tired of just masturbating.

I wouldn't like it if my husband went outside our marriage for sex unless it was something we decided together. I don't keep him waiting around for it either, but I still would feel betrayed. Have you talked about it? I would start there. We have a fairly adventurous physical relationship, if we lacked that for a extended period, I would want to know why.