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So.... you get a private message, someone sends you a pic and asks "How do I look?" "Do I turn you on?"


Is it rude to be honest and say "no", "not really", "you're not my type at all"

Or are we to lie in order to not offend someone?!



People want others to be honest, don't like lies, yet they don't like to really get the truth when someone does!!!!



AH humans!!!!!!!

So.... you get a private message, someone sends you a pic and asks "How do I look?"  "Do I turn you on?"
Is it rude to be honest and say "no", "not really", "you're not my type at all" 

Or are we to lie in order to not offend someone?!
People want others to be honest, don't like lies, yet they don't like to really get the truth when someone does!!!!
AH humans!!!!!!!

Yeah, I don't know if it's this way everywhere in the world, but in our culture we're definitely trained to lie in order to avoid hurting peoples' feelings.

Is it rude to be honest? I'd say its not rude, but it's a fine line. I would only say it's rude if you went out of your way to say something harsh, like "no, you're gross" or "no, you're a fat pig." But it's definitely subjective.