Size definitely matters...I want to feel it spread my lips fully open...but it is the girth that is most important..
The thickest I have had is 6" around (he is also 7" long, and gets rock hard, with no bend....so he has to be careful not to push in too deeply or he will hurt my cervix), but the feeling is wonderful.
The longest I have had is 8", but he was only about 5 1/2 inches around, and never got totally hard, so it was fun taking him down my throat, but not as much fun in my pussy.
For guys 6" or under, large smooth melonballs are fun, as they slap my clit during doggy style, which can really get me off.
Most of the guys I have been with have been around 6" long and 5" around, and they know to get me off with their tongue before pounding my pussy (I love to feel a melonpoker in me immediately after an orgasm, as my pussy pulses and really squeezes the shaft hard).
I have to be honest that any melonpoker under 6" is not really appealing, but then again, I have very high expectations....a melonpoker has to be cut, little to no hair (smooth is my fav if I am going to give a bj)...
I would still love to be with a whopper....9+ inches, and thick as a cucumber would be a real turn on...if there are any guys out there with that equipment, hit me up! [attachmentid=249245][attachmentid=249245]