QUOTE(FreakyShinnizle @ Sep 12 2014, 12:40 PM)
I can't say I have, and I hate to be the bad guy, but general rule of thumb is, if it feels wrong, it is wrong. Don't compromise the beauty of what you already have unless you are 100% sure of your endeavor.
Thanks to you all for the replies but I just wanted to clarify that I'm not in any way being pressured, it's my decision and I am interested and curious just can't help this feeling that I am doing wrong by my husband even though he is 110% keen and ok with it. I am generally a pretty shy and nervous person and I think maybe that is my biggest problem. I really do wish I could just be cool with it and get on with the show.