QUOTE(FreakyShinnizle @ Sep 11 2014, 09:40 PM)
I can't say I have, and I hate to be the bad guy, but general rule of thumb is, if it feels wrong, it is wrong. Don't compromise the beauty of what you already have unless you are 100% sure of your endeavor.
I'd agree...anyone that has a chance go join will put quite a persuasive effort in but it has to be your choice and any doubts or reservations, even of the slightest need to be the overriding factor because once it's done, you can't take it back. I realize that sounds cliche, but the regrets and other complications it can bring to the relationship can amplify over time. You may repress them or you may rationalize them away because of the desire for physical pleasure, but if they're there even in the slightest form they can have consequences down the road. You've got something good, leave well enough alone and enjoy the fantasy and seduction that the idea of something you can't have brings.