[ Outline ] · Standard · Linear+ Shooting On Back, Want to get a second opinion

[dneidermeyer]

I need a second opinion.

My gf and I have stopped using a condom. We were fuckin doggy the other night and I pulled out and shot on her back. Probably the first time but never put much thought into it.

Then she got a little pissy with with me asking why I couldn't wait until she rolled over. When I tried to get an explanation she just shuts up and doesn't want to talk about it.

It was a real turn on doing it but I don't want to go through that again. Curious to know what people think. Does she like watching me cum? or having the feeling on her tits?

I'm just shocked because she has never really minded anything else. Last night we just had oral sex where I did all the work so and came in her mouth so haven't experimented much yet.

Thoughts?
Jason

[digitalnights]

Well it sounds like she's jsut having a hissy for no reason. Personally I don't see what the hell the big deal is. Shooting your load is jsut that. It shouldn't matter where (as long as you're protected from the age old baby thing) you shoot your load, and really in my experience usually the girl is jsut glad you got off and she did her job.

Now, if she refuses to talk about it, make her. There's no reason at all that she can't talk about it other than she's being overly childish about the ordeal. Really, if she was your gf and she cared about you, she'd get past being mad or upset about it, and she'd actually talk to you about what happened. If she gives you attitude, dish it right back. You shouldn't accept "I don't want to talk about it" as an excuse. Other wise you aren't in much of a relationship.

Another trick.... in the middle of the deed ask her this... "where do you want it baby?" It works. It puts her on the spot and normally says that she doesn't care and you choose lol.


But the guys are right, You need to talk to her instead of us really. Make her talk about it. get upset. It's seriously not fair that she can be upset about it. What's the big freakin deal anyways... so what you came on her back.... instead of her grabbing a towel to wipe it off, you do it lol....