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Personally my opinion on casual sex is it is great. my question to you guys is when is it ok, where is it ok, how many times can you have casual sex to be considered a slut, and i also believe there should be more parties planned to have just regular casual sex with no strings attatched. personally i am always open to casual sex and i love to make plans which makes it so much more exhilirating.

Personally my opinion on casual sex is it is great. my question to you guys is when is it ok, where is it ok, how many times can you have casual sex to be considered a slut, and i also believe there should be more parties planned to have just regular casual sex with no strings attatched. personally i am always open to casual sex and i love to make plans which makes it so much more exhilirating.

I went through a casual sex phase twice. I don't see anything wrong with it, my first phase I was much to young though and had no business having it and am lucky I didn't wind up pregnant or with STD's from that time frame. Second time was much smarter and used protection.

If I were single again I would probably be game for it again as long as I was responsible and kept it away from my children knowing.

There's nothing wrong with casual sex. Just be smart about it...like Diane talked about. I think one could get addicted to casual sex. Anyone agree?

I'd have to be having sex but yeah....I'd be addicted to it sure!!! :P

Seriously though, I'm down for casual sex as long as both people understand what the deal is from the beginning.

I really think it's sad that sexually liberal women still get termed a slut or do not have the respect they should. There are circumstances when it's a little much. There was this one girl at my work who by the time she had left after only three or four months, had slept with two bartenders, a doorman and several customers not to mention people she knew outside of work. I liked working with her and would defend her a lot until it just got to be too much. I had one customer tell me that he came back to his table and she was eating some of his salad. He was like what the fuck are you doing and she said not to worry she'd make him breakfast.
And then just before she was fired she came into work on her day off drunk. Even though someone tried to drive her home she got in her car to drive. She could have gone straight, there was nobody in front of her but she stepped on the gas and in reverse slammed into a car of a guy waiting for a food pick-up. God she's dumb! The scary part is she also kept talking about how much she wanted kids.

Oh and I suppose I don't have an oppinion on casual sex because I've never had it. :unsure:

'Casual' sex should be like any other - if you are happy with it, then its okay.

And I am very happy!! :roflmao:

Casual sex is the shizzle, and I'm always on the look out. Whilst a lot of people attach a lot of emotional weight and even stigmatisms to sex, to me it really is just this thing I like to do for fun. The trick is indeed for all parties to know how the game is played. Get a bunch of consenting adults, get your kit off, do the dirty and go home.

But that's me. I'm that sort of person, I can see things in black and white. Not everyone can seperate physical sex from the emotional stuff and that's fine... I'm just glad I'm not one of them, and I've met a lot of people who agree with me ^^

Oh yeah, and play safe now kiddies ;)

Oh and I suppose I don't have an oppinion on casual sex because I've never had it. :unsure:

I could help you out with that Nat :P

'Casual' sex should be like any other - if you are happy with it, then its okay. 

And I am very happy!! :roflmao:

we can be happy together!!

I could help you out with that Nat :P

You can give me an oppinion? :nahnah:

It's just sex.

Oh and I suppose I don't have an oppinion on casual sex because I've never had it. :unsure:

Don't feel so alone there Nat, neither have I!

But I guess if that's what works for some.......Have at it! :2thumbsup:

I would like to have casual sex with a few guys here.

I would like to have casual sex with a few guys here.

Yes something a little better than the cyber :P

Yes something a little better than the cyber :P

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I would like to have casual sex with a few guys here.

Hmm. I found this list..


Diane's casual sex list
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1) bobaloo
2) Gnappy
3) Bobaloo
4) Bobaloo
5) Numba
6) Bobaloo and Natalie
7) Bobaloo, natalie, foxy, juicy, peak, hott, Lynette, bo. and lots lots more... (and no, ladies, I didn't forget anyone, I just don't have time to write all your names cuz I'm at work and I'm still not caught up on these boards today after 2 hours)

Hmm. I found this list..
Diane's casual sex list
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1) bobaloo
2) Gnappy
3) Bobaloo
4) Bobaloo
5) Numba
6) Bobaloo and Natalie
7) Bobaloo, natalie, foxy, juicy, peak, hott, Lynette, bo. and lots lots more... (and no, ladies, I didn't forget anyone, I just don't have time to write all your names cuz I'm at work and I'm still not caught up on these boards today after 2 hours)

Ummmm yea only you forgot that the line starts at me. After the first 22 hours somebody can take my place whilst I get some rest. :silvio:

Ummmm yea only you forgot that the line starts at me. After the first 22 hours somebody can take my place whilst I get some rest.  :silvio:

True Story

Ummmm yea only you forgot that the line starts at me. After the first 22 hours somebody can take my place whilst I get some rest.  :silvio:

I could see it would take you that long to get things started. It must take you just about that long to find the business end of your stick.
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To the above picture: yikes.

Like Diane, I also had a casual sex phase, but it was with a girl that I used to date and it really was horrible the way it made me feel. The break-up was mutual, but it was too much for me to handle that our relationship had dwindled to just sex. Although that's really what we both wanted, i couldn't deal, so i quit calling and so did she... However, i'm still up for it, just with someone who I don't know quite as well...

Diane, could you put me on your list? I can see that I would have to wait a while, but i'm sure it'd be worth it :cheers: :letsfuck:

To the above picture: yikes. 

Like Diane, I also had a casual sex phase, but it was with a girl that I used to date and it really was horrible the way it made me feel.  The break-up was mutual, but it was too much for me to handle that our relationship had dwindled to just sex.  Although that's really what we both wanted, i couldn't deal, so i quit calling and so did she...  However, i'm still up for it, just with someone who I don't know quite as well...

Diane, could you put me on your list?  I can see that I would have to wait a while, but i'm sure it'd be worth it  :cheers:  :letsfuck:

Sure I can :kisses:

I could see it would take you that long to get things started.  It must take you just about that long to find the business end of your stick.

Hey now no cock pics in shoot the breeze even if they are your own. :2gunsfiring:



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Well since I dont get any anyways to say I'm against casual sex would be down right silly soo.....


HOO HAAA!!!! Yippee for Casual Sex!!! I'm all for it!!!

I think casual sex is great!!! As long as it remains casual. I think it is an integral part of finding your soulmate. If you can't make each other cum easily whats the use of spending the rest of your life with them.

hate to be blunt but it is a little spoken truth. You may be in love with someone as a person, but if they can't fuck then how far will that love overlook that one important factor.

Personally the 1st date banter that happens should just be a one topic coversation question: " What Makes You Cum The Hardest?" if it turns out you both like watching midget porn while getting whipped cream sucke doff your nipples then I think you found a soul mate.

And Don't get the ole CM wrong. I love a woman for her mind as well as her skills abed. My philosophy is more toward you girls.

You cannot tell me, You fine sexual ladies of RMM, if your man who you fell in love with wasnt hitting that button right that you wouldnt get tired of it quick. No matter how much you loved him.

Now I know some girls do not put an empahsis on sex. But if you are a poster of text and pics on this forum I am assuming that the ability to cum is foremost on your list of important things.

Lemme know what you think.

I really think it's sad that sexually liberal women still get termed a slut or do not have the respect they should. There are circumstances when it's a little much. There was this one girl at my work who by the time she had left after only three or four months, had slept with two bartenders, a doorman and several customers not to mention people she knew outside of work. I liked working with her and would defend her a lot until it just got to be too much. I had one customer tell me that he came back to his table and she was eating some of his salad. He was like what the fuck are you doing and she said not to worry she'd make him breakfast.
And then just before she was fired she came into work on her day off drunk. Even though someone tried to drive her home she got in her car to drive. She could have gone straight, there was nobody in front of her but she stepped on the gas and in reverse slammed into a car of a guy waiting for a food pick-up. God she's dumb! The scary part is she also kept talking about how much she wanted kids.

Got her phone number?

I think casual sex is great!!! As long as it remains casual.  I think it is an integral part of finding your soulmate. If you can't make each other cum easily whats the use of spending the rest of your life with them. 

hate to be blunt but it is a little spoken truth. You may be in love with someone as a person, but if they can't fuck then how far will that love overlook that one important factor.

Personally the 1st date banter that happens should just be a one topic coversation question:  " What Makes You Cum The Hardest?"  if it turns out you both like watching midget porn while getting whipped cream sucke doff your nipples then I think you found a soul mate.

And Don't get the ole CM wrong. I love a woman for her mind as well as her skills abed.  My philosophy is more toward you girls. 

You cannot tell me, You fine sexual ladies of RMM, if your man who you fell in love with wasnt hitting that button right that you wouldnt get tired of it quick.  No matter how much you loved him. 

Now I know some girls do not put an empahsis on sex. But if you are a poster of text and pics on this forum I am assuming that the ability to cum is foremost on your list of important things.

Lemme know what you think.

I agree with you c-man. That's why religions where there is no sex before marriage are stupid or at least that policy is stupid.

I have nothing against casual sex, but i usually enjoy sex in a relationship more. Unless I really click with someone, which has happened, and I'm totally contemplating doing again very soon!

Personally the 1st date banter that happens should just be a one topic coversation question:  " What Makes You Cum The Hardest?"  if it turns out you both like watching midget porn while getting whipped cream sucke doff your nipples then I think you found a soul mate.

I agree with your whole post CMan, but this part I totally agree with. If 2 people that it takes all that to get them off find each other, there's nothing further to do then to plan on spending the rest of their lives together. :lol:

for me it depends on the reason
and the differnce between swing and casual sex
but most likely if im ok with it and or a bf is then just do it