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[COMEDYMAN]

I left a messege in Kianas thread about gettin laid ( yay me ) BUT I said there were circumstances behind it


I have been seein this girl on and off for the past 5 years now. Thing is.... shes married......

We are great friends outside the bedroom too its just that every now and again we hook up and make each other cum real hard

We both know what we are doin as far as the cheating thing. She tells me her marriage is basically for the kids and I do things to her that no other man has ( pat on back)

SO know that ya know this ... what do you think about me? Am I a bastard for having sex with a nother mans wife when he doesnt pay any attention to her.

I want honest opinions here, not sugar coating. Cause Im pretty sure Ill still continue doing it


and a second followup question


Playing on Cam Girls and Guys Who does it ? ( I do )

and is THAT considered cheating if your masterbating and talking dirty with another person aside from your signifigant other... or is it just harmless fantasy

THoughts

[Hot mama]

Wouldnt mind you f-ing up my day.... 

I would not mine eather

[sweetnsexy]

1) No you are not a cheating bastard - she's the one cheating;
2) However, you are an accessory to the crime, and no doubt hubby would regard you as a cheating bastard - this is only a problem if a) you like him (in which case you shouldn't be screwing his wife!), you get caught and c) he is bigger and faster than you and beats you up!!

3) No...parading yourself on the web isn't cheating...its a form of exhibitionism! And talking dirty is only a more aggressive form of flirting, with anonimity!

[Narazbad]

ok...wax on your dick....PAINFUL!!!

[bondiguy]

so if I masturbate 4 times a day and don't tell my woman about it, is that cheating too? Hypothetically speaking of course...

its awfully hard to cheat with herself!

[Coolbobbo]

Wow!!

[denyse]

1) My opinion, she's not staying in the marriage 'for the kids'. If the marriage was bad enough, she'd be out the marriage and take the kids with her. In a bad marriage, the kids are better off out of it so they don't see daily bad behaviour and believe that's the way to grow up. I think she's staying in the marriage for her herself and the lifestyle it gives her, ie the benefits of a family, security, and the ability to have 'fun on the side'.

Now, she's the one cheating not you, she's the one that needs to work out what she wants, but why not remove yourself from the inevitable shit that's gonna land when either a) the husband finds out and/or decides he doesn't like what she's doing or B ) she decides eventually to drop the marriage and expects you to take up the slack?

I think it's probably the opinion of most folks on here that you deserve better than that

2) yep, it's exhibitionism, although if you do it without SO knowing, then I guess it could be considered somewhat iffy on the cheating front....

[bondiguy]

Wow!!

You would make the pope swear my friend, you truly would