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 This Is To All The Idiotic Jealous, Boyfriends/husbands of RMM posters
| bondiguy |
 Oct 5 2007, 12:53 AM
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QUOTE(tera @ Oct 5 2007, 08:45 AM) From Tera's Hubby, I usually leave the writing to Tera but just so you guys know she has my blessing to post and tt guys on this site because I reep the benifits when she signs off all hot and bothered. I'm blessed to have a woman as hot as her and showing her off is my way of bragging.I know i'm not suppossed to brag but i'm weak when it comes to her, she's sexier to me today then when we met over 10 yrs ago. Plus,,,she doesn't mind me admiring the other many fine women on this site! You sir are one lucky guy 
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| Bobaloo |
Oct 5 2007, 06:04 PM
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QUOTE(tera @ Oct 4 2007, 05:45 PM) From Tera's Hubby, I usually leave the writing to Tera but just so you guys know she has my blessing to post and tt guys on this site because I reep the benifits when she signs off all hot and bothered. I'm blessed to have a woman as hot as her and showing her off is my way of bragging.I know i'm not suppossed to brag but i'm weak when it comes to her, she's sexier to me today then when we met over 10 yrs ago. Plus,,,she doesn't mind me admiring the other many fine women on this site! I am jealous and thankful all at the same time. 
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| COMEDYMAN |
Oct 6 2007, 12:27 AM
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QUOTE(tera @ Oct 4 2007, 05:45 PM) From Tera's Hubby, I usually leave the writing to Tera but just so you guys know she has my blessing to post and tt guys on this site because I reep the benifits when she signs off all hot and bothered. I'm blessed to have a woman as hot as her and showing her off is my way of bragging.I know i'm not suppossed to brag but i'm weak when it comes to her, she's sexier to me today then when we met over 10 yrs ago. Plus,,,she doesn't mind me admiring the other many fine women on this site! High Fives and kudos to Tera's hubby for that one. And you have every right to brag on her. Shes incredible!!! 
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| paybarraman |
Oct 6 2007, 01:09 PM
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QUOTE(tera @ Oct 4 2007, 11:45 PM) From Tera's Hubby, I usually leave the writing to Tera but just so you guys know she has my blessing to post and tt guys on this site because I reep the benifits when she signs off all hot and bothered. I'm blessed to have a woman as hot as her and showing her off is my way of bragging.I know i'm not suppossed to brag but i'm weak when it comes to her, she's sexier to me today then when we met over 10 yrs ago. Plus,,,she doesn't mind me admiring the other many fine women on this site! To Mr. Tera, Thank You. Thank You Thank You Thank You Thank You......
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| ddd35 |
Oct 7 2007, 12:09 PM
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QUOTE(tera @ Oct 4 2007, 03:45 PM) From Tera's Hubby, I usually leave the writing to Tera but just so you guys know she has my blessing to post and tt guys on this site because I reep the benifits when she signs off all hot and bothered. I'm blessed to have a woman as hot as her and showing her off is my way of bragging.I know i'm not suppossed to brag but i'm weak when it comes to her, she's sexier to me today then when we met over 10 yrs ago. Plus,,,she doesn't mind me admiring the other many fine women on this site! oustanding and a big Thank You .. You are truly blessed to have such a sexy wife ..  |
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| misschickie |
Nov 28 2007, 01:41 AM
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QUOTE(boanna @ Aug 22 2006, 01:52 PM) after reading this thread at 2am yesterday, i decided not to post right then. it would have been a post you wish you never read! my first thought was...THERE IS A GOD! thank u c-man for your insite. mr bo knows i am here, and he knows why i am here. to get the compliments that he chooses not to give. heck, he wont even vote for my pics. need i say more? women love compliments. they make us feel pretty, sexy, special...and the older we get, the more we need you to give them to us. if you cant come up with any, then lie, for our sakes! well, he was not happy when he read some of my posts, all the pretend fucking and sucking...he says i wanna be a porn star! NOT! if i wanted to be a porn star, i'd go somewhere where i could charge an arm and a leg, not to a place like this. porn stars arent in that line of work for compliments. its a totally different thing. to me, this site is simply a form of adult entertainment. no ones really fucking...just a bunch of women who show some boobies and get complimented for it. everyones happy with that. the forum is an extra benefit...a place we can come to and talk about whatever the hell we want. my sister spends countless hours in a republican forum. thats what she likes so thats what she does. i like talking about, well, all the stuff we talk about here. c-man, u said that the husbands and boyfriends are the ones who actually get to touch our boobies...all u get here is to look at them. theres where i differ somewhat, ok, a lot. its common knowledge here that boanna just doesnt get enough sex. not near enough boobie touching. maybe thats why i talk about sex so much here. it fills the void. mr bo would say, well if i didnt bitch so much about not getting sex, he'd put out more.  its not bitching. i call it just having to ask over and over TO SEE SOME DICK! even if he wants to call it bitching, whats the best remedy for a woman bitching about lack of sex? how bout when she opens her mouth, stick a dick in it before she can say one word! makes both people happy! mr bo doesnt come out and say, get off that site. why? cause he knows that i would say, then u stop your form of adult entertainment....get rid of your secret email address where u receive all the porn you look at. i am wise enough to know he's looking, but he isnt fucking them. another reason he wont tell me to quit is cause then he is the only man left with the responsibility to compliment me! he doesnt want to compliment, for whatever reason (i think its just laziness in a relationship that would make a man not compliment his lady), so i am actually doing him a favor by being here....i read all your compliments and enjoy them, and that takes some pressure off him to try and come up with a nice thing to say to me. here's a thought...go read some of the comments on my pics, memorize them, throw in a few of your own words...there u have it! instant compliment that you couldnt come up with by yourself! if mr bo stepped up to the plate where he needs to, and then asked me to leave this site, i would do it in a heart beat. cause the bottom line is that my relationship is what matters the most. but getting off simply because he is having some jealous fit cause he discovered i am getting the compliments anyway, i think that would be very controling and i wouldnt like it. i think what really bothered him the most, but he would never admit it, is not the boobie pics, but the things said in the threads. maybe he doesnt really listen when i tell him how important sex is to me. when he comes here and reads the stuff i post, it is a shocker. "dang, i never knew my wife was that sexy or that horny!" well, i am. I think Bo and I have parallel lives. I don't have nearly enough sex. It used to be infrequent but phenomenal, now...non existent. It fuckin sucks...I am 37 and I want to have some kind of sex all the damned time. He has taken to buying me toys, and I joke, but nothing really beats the feeling of being close to another person and doing just what feels good for the sake of feeling good. Mine had the same problem, shit said in threads or pm's, not the boobie pics...but lets face it, if I were getting more attention, I wouldn't be looking for it elsewhere. He has his own "entertainment" that gets him going, hell...I encourage it, anything to get some! But it doesn't seem to translate to us. I try anything to get him going, but it's like he is just not interested. Ya, I could stand to lose a few, but actually I have and that was a while ago and it has been since then. What do you do with someone who is just fucking sick of you? Crap, I am mixing drinking and posting again...lol
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| Damor |
Nov 28 2007, 03:26 AM
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QUOTE(misschickie @ Nov 28 2007, 01:41 AM) I think Bo and I have parallel lives. I don't have nearly enough sex. It used to be infrequent but phenomenal, now...non existent. It fuckin sucks...I am 37 and I want to have some kind of sex all the damned time. He has taken to buying me toys, and I joke, but nothing really beats the feeling of being close to another person and doing just what feels good for the sake of feeling good. Mine had the same problem, shit said in threads or pm's, not the boobie pics...but lets face it, if I were getting more attention, I wouldn't be looking for it elsewhere. He has his own "entertainment" that gets him going, hell...I encourage it, anything to get some! But it doesn't seem to translate to us. I try anything to get him going, but it's like he is just not interested. Ya, I could stand to lose a few, but actually I have and that was a while ago and it has been since then. What do you do with someone who is just fucking sick of you? Crap, I am mixing drinking and posting again...lol I'm going to mix my drinking to this post. I'm 38 and over the years I might think that I have educated myself on the way the female mind might work, which I'm sure is wrong. The body I think I have become very skilled at, but I'm always trying to learn new things. I know this might sound bad, but men really don't realize what they have until it is gone. We think that the grass is greener on the other side. In saying this some people i.e. men take for granted the everyday things that women do for us to just make us happy. I have been there so I can say this. I lost my first wife because of this simple little fact that no one ever told me about. The second one was my doing also, but the one thing that she taught me was when you aren't happy say so. Give them the choices that you present them to make things right and have an open mind during the conversation because not just one person is right. We all have something that we can improve on. To answer your question on what do we do with someone that is sick of you? The correct answer is leave. I know that there might be other circumstances that make this a hard decision i.e. children. You have to think of yourself at times like this. One day they will be gone and then it is just you. You waited to long to make that choice and now you are in a harder situation to deal with. In my mind happiness is something everyone deserves and you have to decide what will make you happy no one else can do that for you. Ever heard of the saying that you can lead the horse to the water, but you can't make him drink. That applies to us all men and women alike. It sounds like in this chess game the next move is yours and my heart goes out to you and the choices that you have to make. Good luck Chickie and make the decision that is right for you. You and only you can decide that.
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| Trickster |
Nov 28 2007, 01:06 PM
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QUOTE(Damor @ Nov 28 2007, 03:26 AM) I'm going to mix my drinking to this post. I'm 38 and over the years I might think that I have educated myself on the way the female mind might work, which I'm sure is wrong. The body I think I have become very skilled at, but I'm always trying to learn new things. I know this might sound bad, but men really don't realize what they have until it is gone. We think that the grass is greener on the other side. In saying this some people i.e. men take for granted the everyday things that women do for us to just make us happy. I have been there so I can say this. I lost my first wife because of this simple little fact that no one ever told me about. The second one was my doing also, but the one thing that she taught me was when you aren't happy say so. Give them the choices that you present them to make things right and have an open mind during the conversation because not just one person is right. We all have something that we can improve on. To answer your question on what do we do with someone that is sick of you? The correct answer is leave. I know that there might be other circumstances that make this a hard decision i.e. children. You have to think of yourself at times like this. One day they will be gone and then it is just you. You waited to long to make that choice and now you are in a harder situation to deal with. In my mind happiness is something everyone deserves and you have to decide what will make you happy no one else can do that for you. Ever heard of the saying that you can lead the horse to the water, but you can't make him drink. That applies to us all men and women alike. It sounds like in this chess game the next move is yours and my heart goes out to you and the choices that you have to make. Good luck Chickie and make the decision that is right for you. You and only you can decide that. No smilies for this one, it's too serious. Sadly, Damor has the point right. Kids, career, then our significant other, seems to become the order of the day, for most men, EXPECTING our wives to do those little things , instead of appreciating them. That sex has become something like the yard, or a faucet that leaks, and requires attention- get to it when you can, take care of it, and move on.... Men, or at least ME, tend to think linearly- that is , if it's broke fix it, if not, there's ALWAYS something else to fix. Tell him, show him, there's a problem in the relationship. My ex started with the question "Is this all there is?" Our love, and laughter, had soured, we had become the cliche of two point five kids, nice home, good cars, and nothing.... In our case it wasn't sex (I've always been horny), it was Intimacy, the touches, looks, or shared smiles of acknowledgment that deepen, or reaffirm relationships. Goldie Hawn once said something pertinant to this, when asked about marriage. Her view was- each day he and I wake up, and DECIDE to stay, that, love and happiness is best found HERE, not elsewhere. That, by acknowledging the other can leave, I will do a better job of convincing them to stay. I fear too many people take marriage vows to be a free pass to stop working on the relationship, foolishly believing it to be self-sustaining.....if good sex is more than just friction, then a good relationship has to be more than just living together. Figure out what it is for you, and communicate it. Relationships have to be about the journey, not the destination, and this was difficult for me to grasp, I hope for you it's not. |
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| Damor |
Nov 30 2007, 05:29 AM
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QUOTE(bondiguy @ Nov 30 2007, 01:55 AM) Very insightful... and only 60 posts old! Drunk again so I will post. I think the word "discover" is a key word that might be missing in this post and alot of others that have been before and might be after this. If one doesn't present an open mind to a number of issues that might be brought forward then that person might be considered close minded. The problem from the previous post is the lack of attention of a persons needs. For example today I told my other that I love the idea of watching her with another woman. I was told that I'm not happy with what I have. My happiness and my sexual desire are two different things. An open relationship in meaning communications is the best type. How many guys out there in the world have said that they enjoying seeing there other with a person of the same sex, not many. Be truthful and honest in your life is all anyone can ask for. Cheers.. Drunk again..
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| bondiguy |
Nov 30 2007, 04:30 PM
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QUOTE(Damor @ Nov 30 2007, 08:29 PM) Drunk again so I will post. I think the word "discover" is a key word that might be missing in this post and alot of others that have been before and might be after this. If one doesn't present an open mind to a number of issues that might be brought forward then that person might be considered close minded. The problem from the previous post is the lack of attention of a persons needs. For example today I told my other that I love the idea of watching her with another woman. I was told that I'm not happy with what I have. My happiness and my sexual desire are two different things. An open relationship in meaning communications is the best type. How many guys out there in the world have said that they enjoying seeing there other with a person of the same sex, not many. Be truthful and honest in your life is all anyone can ask for. Cheers.. Drunk again.. Lay off the Martini's! lol
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| DoubleJ |
Nov 30 2007, 06:28 PM
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QUOTE(Kiana @ Nov 30 2007, 06:24 PM) I think I should keep my mouth shut on this topic. Of all the things i'd like to say, i'm afraid i'd piss quite a few people off. maybe i'm foolish and idealistic but why hold back, people reaction to what you say is there own, you shouldn't let it inhibit you |
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| DoubleJ |
Nov 30 2007, 07:43 PM
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QUOTE(Kiana @ Nov 30 2007, 07:34 PM) Oh trust me, I don't care if people get mad. It's all the bullshit you gotta deal with afterwards. If you havent yet noticed there are always little cliques(sp?) and if you piss one person off all their little cronies wanna bitch about it too. I just don't have time for that shit but since you got me started (LOL) I will start by saying that anyone that is unhappy needs to start by blaming themselves. Everyone wants to sit around and bitch about what the other person doesnt do for them or what the other person did wrong but who's the fool thats taking it? No one makes you happy but YOU. If you want to be happy then make yourself happy. Also, there's gotta be a reason your other half got tired of you. No ones perfect. Clean up your side of the street and then see where the relationships at. If he doesnt want to clean up his AFTER you've done yours then go make yourself happy somewhere else. Switching the tone a little bit to the original topic on this thread, how the hell is anyone gonna bitch about the jealous husbands? Maybe it isnt jealousy. Maybe it's about whats right and wrong. Unless this was a part of their relationship when they met, this isnt what they said "i do" to. I'm not a jealous person but if my fiance was talking to other bitches online the way some these married women talk to other men here I'd be fucking pissed. We are in a commited relationship and he doesnt need to be engaging in any kind of relationship (other than friends) with another women. No matter what i'm doing wrong. If his reason is cause he isnt happy with me then he needs to leave me, NOT cheat on me. Whether its online or not its cheating. He would be going outside our relationship. I think it's bullshit to justify it and say "well my husband isnt doing this right and im not happy" Then leave his ass and do whatever the fuck you want but if you arent going to leave then you should honor your marraige vows. I'll step down off my soap box now and wait for some replies  haha, so am I gonna get blame or credit for gettin you started? I will stand 100% by what I see as the main point of your statement (feel free to correct me if I'm wrong) that you are responsible for your own individual happiness. I'm a big believer ni this as you cannot really look outside yourself and depend on others to make you feel a certain way. but I too will now stand aside and see how people react, lol |
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| bondiguy |
Nov 30 2007, 08:49 PM
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QUOTE(Kiana @ Dec 1 2007, 09:24 AM) I think I should keep my mouth shut on this topic. Of all the things i'd like to say, i'm afraid i'd piss quite a few people off. I love it when you do that QUOTE(Kiana @ Dec 1 2007, 10:34 AM) Oh trust me, I don't care if people get mad. It's all the bullshit you gotta deal with afterwards. If you havent yet noticed there are always little cliques(sp?) and if you piss one person off all their little cronies wanna bitch about it too. I just don't have time for that shit but since you got me started (LOL) I will start by saying that anyone that is unhappy needs to start by blaming themselves. Everyone wants to sit around and bitch about what the other person doesnt do for them or what the other person did wrong but who's the fool thats taking it? No one makes you happy but YOU. If you want to be happy then make yourself happy. Also, there's gotta be a reason your other half got tired of you. No ones perfect. Clean up your side of the street and then see where the relationships at. If he doesnt want to clean up his AFTER you've done yours then go make yourself happy somewhere else. Switching the tone a little bit to the original topic on this thread, how the hell is anyone gonna bitch about the jealous husbands? Maybe it isnt jealousy. Maybe it's about whats right and wrong. Unless this was a part of their relationship when they met, this isnt what they said "i do" to. I'm not a jealous person but if my fiance was talking to other bitches online the way some these married women talk to other men here I'd be fucking pissed. We are in a commited relationship and he doesnt need to be engaging in any kind of relationship (other than friends) with another women. No matter what i'm doing wrong. If his reason is cause he isnt happy with me then he needs to leave me, NOT cheat on me. Whether its online or not its cheating. He would be going outside our relationship. I think it's bullshit to justify it and say "well my husband isnt doing this right and im not happy" Then leave his ass and do whatever the fuck you want but if you arent going to leave then you should honor your marraige vows. I'll step down off my soap box now and wait for some replies Here, Here!
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| Damor |
Dec 2 2007, 01:47 AM
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QUOTE(bondiguy @ Nov 30 2007, 04:30 PM) Lay off the Martini's! lol I really drink to much when I travel.... Then again when I'm not home I can! 
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| ddd35 |
Dec 2 2007, 01:38 PM
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QUOTE(misschickie @ Nov 27 2007, 11:41 PM) I think Bo and I have parallel lives. I don't have nearly enough sex. It used to be infrequent but phenomenal, now...non existent. It fuckin sucks...I am 37 and I want to have some kind of sex all the damned time. He has taken to buying me toys, and I joke, but nothing really beats the feeling of being close to another person and doing just what feels good for the sake of feeling good. Mine had the same problem, shit said in threads or pm's, not the boobie pics...but lets face it, if I were getting more attention, I wouldn't be looking for it elsewhere. He has his own "entertainment" that gets him going, hell...I encourage it, anything to get some! But it doesn't seem to translate to us. I try anything to get him going, but it's like he is just not interested. Ya, I could stand to lose a few, but actually I have and that was a while ago and it has been since then. What do you do with someone who is just fucking sick of you? Crap, I am mixing drinking and posting again...lol Well from the mans point of view doll , Im a busy person and have gotton very busy as of late , we are looking and buying as much land as we can aquire , I spend all day traveling and looking at land and then come home at night and look at sales and real estate ads at night , and all of the suddent eh other night my wife walks in in a little skimpy nighty and says , SO you coming to bed early tonight ? I didnt even look away from my computer screen and said Ill be up in a few , well the few turned into 2 hours , By the time I got up there she was sound asleep in a flannel PJ 's , In My case I cant apologize enough to her for it , she doesnt understand the importance of this land aquisition is to my farming operation . But like us all she has needs , so I made a date with her , we went out for a nice meal I bought her a carrot diamond Necklace , and then we went to a movie , the only problem is by the time we got back home we were both so tired we didnt feel like sex , So we just fell asleep cuddling , which we had not done in yrs , But come morning I snuck in the shower with her and made up for some of the past .. I know there will be those that say never put work ahead of marriage and I dont what im doing is securing a future for my Son and Daughter cause to survive in this line of work it takes Acres to make the kind of money in which you can live confortable thus when a investoer came along and said he had XX Millions to spend I jumped on board .. Does that make not satifying my wife Okay hell NO , but in the end we will all be even more better off then we are now and my kids will be able to come back from college get married and not have to much to worry about .. But in the mean time I have to spend more time satisfying the lady of my life ... But for sure Im not sick of her , as Im sure your hubby isnt Chickie , its just sometimes we fall in arut and it takes a tit up side the head to change us ..  |
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| misschickie |
Dec 2 2007, 07:18 PM
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QUOTE(Kiana @ Nov 30 2007, 04:34 PM) Oh trust me, I don't care if people get mad. It's all the bullshit you gotta deal with afterwards. If you havent yet noticed there are always little cliques(sp?) and if you piss one person off all their little cronies wanna bitch about it too. I just don't have time for that shit but since you got me started (LOL) I will start by saying that anyone that is unhappy needs to start by blaming themselves. Everyone wants to sit around and bitch about what the other person doesnt do for them or what the other person did wrong but who's the fool thats taking it? No one makes you happy but YOU. If you want to be happy then make yourself happy. Also, there's gotta be a reason your other half got tired of you. No ones perfect. Clean up your side of the street and then see where the relationships at. If he doesnt want to clean up his AFTER you've done yours then go make yourself happy somewhere else. Switching the tone a little bit to the original topic on this thread, how the hell is anyone gonna bitch about the jealous husbands? Maybe it isnt jealousy. Maybe it's about whats right and wrong. Unless this was a part of their relationship when they met, this isnt what they said "i do" to. I'm not a jealous person but if my fiance was talking to other bitches online the way some these married women talk to other men here I'd be fucking pissed. We are in a commited relationship and he doesnt need to be engaging in any kind of relationship (other than friends) with another women. No matter what i'm doing wrong. If his reason is cause he isnt happy with me then he needs to leave me, NOT cheat on me. Whether its online or not its cheating. He would be going outside our relationship. I think it's bullshit to justify it and say "well my husband isnt doing this right and im not happy" Then leave his ass and do whatever the fuck you want but if you arent going to leave then you should honor your marraige vows. I'll step down off my soap box now and wait for some replies Obviously this was directed at me. Not sure why I am being attacked for a simple little post about real life, real marriage issues, and by the sound of the responses from those that could actually relate, thanks. I have been with the same man for 20 years, and believe me, we went through that stage of "don't look or talk to anyone else, we are enough for each other". After a while that suffocating type of relationship ends and you go to the next step. "some of these married women" need a little fun, too.
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| baby21 |
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QUOTE(misschickie @ Dec 2 2007, 07:26 PM) Damor, Trickster and ddd35...thanks for your insights they were very helpful. I think I am done with this thread, though. To Chickie and Kiana.. I think age has to play an issue in both of your opinions. I mean, Kiana, you are young and it's easy to satisfy your needs/change things up when things are still new. I'm sure after so many years, things get comfortable. There's security in the relationship that Chickie has in that although things may not be 100% she has someone to go home to and has a life that's working for her in other aspects. I think this is all similar to someone's career. "Do what makes you happy," well what if that won't pay the bills? You sacrifice. It's you're decission though when that sacrifice is too much... If you're life is shit, you have the power to change that. It's just whether or not you can stand or if it is even worth it to break out of your comfort zone. It's also easier for someone like me to go out and find a new job to be happy with being younger and not into much of a career yet. My mother on the other hand works a job that she's not completely happy with in order to pay the bills. She chooses to do so because she gets excellent benefits and her retirement is invested within this company that she works with.. Anyways, I hope that makes sense... then again, I'm probably too young to know anything. |
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QUOTE(baby21 @ Dec 2 2007, 05:31 PM) To Chickie and Kiana.. I think age has to play an issue in both of your opinions. I mean, Kiana, you are young and it's easy to satisfy your needs/change things up when things are still new. I'm sure after so many years, things get comfortable. There's security in the relationship that Chickie has in that although things may not be 100% she has someone to go home to and has a life that's working for her in other aspects. I think this is all similar to someone's career. "Do what makes you happy," well what if that won't pay the bills? You sacrifice. It's you're decission though when that sacrifice is too much... If you're life is shit, you have the power to change that. It's just whether or not you can stand or if it is even worth it to break out of your comfort zone. It's also easier for someone like me to go out and find a new job to be happy with being younger and not into much of a career yet. My mother on the other hand works a job that she's not completely happy with in order to pay the bills. She chooses to do so because she gets excellent benefits and her retirement is invested within this company that she works with.. Anyways, I hope that makes sense... then again, I'm probably too young to know anything. It more than made sense, it is exactly what I was talking about. I have no intention of saying, "I'm unhappy with 1 aspect of our relationship at the moment, bye", because when you are married, you need to compromise and be flexible. I was looking for other peoples point of view on improving the situation, or even what happens when it goes very bad...because the relationship was once phenomenal in all respects. Baby, that meant a lot, lot, lot...thanks. 
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