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Posted by: diane26 Feb 14 2006, 03:11 PM

and I am sure I spelled that wrong good thing this isnt the spelling bee board;)



So with a woman when is it considered masturbation??? If she penetrates herself with something but doesnt cum is it?? Or if she doesnt penetrate but does cum is it as well??

Please Advise thanks

Posted by: paybarraman Feb 14 2006, 03:16 PM

well i view masturbation as self sexual gratification, whether i cum or not....

if you DO CUM then its definitely masturbation in my book, regardless how you get there (meaning doing it yourself)

Hope it helps

Posted by: Gnappster Feb 14 2006, 03:22 PM

I wouldn't argue with pay on this subject, he is seasoned pro

Posted by: diane26 Feb 14 2006, 03:58 PM

Ok school me some more, don't men always cum when masturbating?? Or even with a woman dont you always cum before you are done???

Posted by: paybarraman Feb 14 2006, 04:11 PM

Believe it or not not always.....

Sometimes i get right to the edge then lose it all together.....

And waaaaaaayyyyyy back when i did have some sex occasionaly...there were times when I did not orgasm. Usually because of condom issues.

Posted by: belicked6924 Feb 14 2006, 04:11 PM

Wouldn't that be the point?

Posted by: Gnappster Feb 14 2006, 04:13 PM

when rubbing one out, as long as there is sufficient jerking material, then yes I will bust a nut.

Posted by: diane26 Feb 14 2006, 04:17 PM

Are you getting a tone with me, for your sake I hope not. LOL

Wouldnt what be the point I thik something flew over my head in this topic. No not your head.

Posted by: bondiguy Feb 15 2006, 04:31 AM

I think thats his official title!

Masturbation doesn't mean penetration just like sex! Masturbation is getting off alone... no matter how you go about it!

Posted by: closeup Feb 15 2006, 09:19 AM

For a guy, it's not masturbation unless he cums, otherwise it's called "wasting your time." It wasn't sarcastic to say "Isn't that the whole point?" No guy would start unless he planned to finish. If a guy just spontaeously cums without masturbation, that's called "embarrassing yourself in public".

Posted by: bondiguy Feb 16 2006, 01:25 AM

Otherwise known as a Narazbad

Posted by: paybarraman Feb 16 2006, 08:48 AM

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!

Posted by: Gnappster Feb 16 2006, 12:08 PM

Zing!

Posted by: bondiguy Feb 17 2006, 01:53 AM

Narazbad said he'd like to defend himself from my previous comment but he said he's busy watching his idol on film

Posted by: Gnappster Feb 17 2006, 12:23 PM

or is it protege?

Posted by: bondiguy Feb 17 2006, 06:50 PM

a little from column A and a little from column B

Posted by: Lynette Mar 1 2006, 07:27 PM

OK, just an after thought here. Has anyone engaged in "mutual" masterbation? I don't mean touching each other. I'm talking about sitting opposite on another and watching each other masterbate. Kinda like putting on a little show for the other person. Know what I mean???

Posted by: diane26 Mar 1 2006, 07:34 PM

I saw this before ON TV but I didnt understand the point of it

Posted by: natalie Mar 1 2006, 07:40 PM

Oh yah and it's fucking hot!!!I like it if we're both laying down on the bed next to each other. You have the power to get them off while you get yourself off...what's to get?

Posted by: diane26 Mar 1 2006, 07:44 PM

See I think I would be to tempted to just get on them

Posted by: belicked6924 Mar 1 2006, 11:49 PM

And a little cross threading going on here it's another fun thing to do during that time of the month.

Posted by: Gnappster Mar 2 2006, 11:57 AM

I'll just take a blowjob

Posted by: natalie Mar 2 2006, 08:47 PM

How surprising, a man taking the lazy road.

Posted by: belicked6924 Mar 3 2006, 12:09 AM

I didn't think you're partner shut down once a month though.

Posted by: ontippytoes Mar 3 2006, 12:26 AM

All the time, babe!

Posted by: bondiguy Mar 3 2006, 12:55 AM

eh... its what we do best

Posted by: Narazbad Mar 3 2006, 02:21 AM

thanks for goin after the absent guy...lol

Posted by: bondiguy Mar 3 2006, 02:51 AM

its our pleasure

Posted by: ontippytoes Mar 3 2006, 03:01 AM

"our" ? schizo? LOL

Posted by: johnfreak Mar 3 2006, 03:05 AM

I'll show you when it is....

Posted by: Gnappster Mar 3 2006, 12:41 PM

always go after the absent guy, or the guy who doesn't speak english

Posted by: Gnappster Mar 3 2006, 12:43 PM

double post

Posted by: bondiguy Mar 3 2006, 06:01 PM

ahh Tiborg... how many times have you saved my butt

Posted by: thenewguy Mar 3 2006, 06:11 PM

The act of masturbation isn't soley about the orgasm in my opinion. Just like the act of sex isn't about the orgasm.

I think playing with your area is masturbation, with or without the final result. Just as sex is sex, with or without cumming. Not that guys ever have that problem... but I heard that it happens sometimes with girls (not from experience though! lol).

Posted by: diane26 Mar 3 2006, 06:21 PM

Very insightful THANK YOU.


SO if I held the shower massager there long enough to have to hurry and move it cause it was to intense have I officially masturbated

Posted by: thenewguy Mar 3 2006, 06:28 PM

Not sure if ytou can masturbate by accident, but if it feels good and you keep it there, than I guess so.

No worries though, if it feels good... DO IT!

Posted by: diane26 Mar 3 2006, 06:31 PM

Leave it to me too not even be able to get masturbation right

Posted by: thenewguy Mar 3 2006, 06:33 PM

Oh I bet you could if you just relaxed. Don't think of it as dirty... just use your imagination and let go.

My woman doesn't do it (or at least says she doesn't) cause she "likes it when you help". I wouldn't mind if she did though... I think she just feels a little dirty doing it alone. But I like dirty.

Posted by: bondiguy Mar 3 2006, 06:36 PM

I agree sex isnt solely about orgasm but masturbation surely is... I mean why else do you do it? especially for a guy... to give urself blue balls?

Posted by: natalie Mar 3 2006, 06:37 PM

Whenever I've masturbated my husband makes me tell him all the details of what got me off. Of course that's not surprising seeing as it's usually him doing anothe girl. I usually have to mentally be envisioning a fantasy to get off.

Posted by: closeup Mar 3 2006, 06:38 PM

I'll bet even if you unoffically maturbate, it'll still feel good. Practice, and you'll get the hang of it.

Posted by: thenewguy Mar 3 2006, 06:39 PM

yes, it's my main reason to do it... of course it's the best part of masturbation. But if you dont finish (maybe interrupted, maybe moved on to sex with the lady) it still means you "masturbated" even though you didnt cum at the end-- of course thats just my opinion.

Posted by: bondiguy Mar 3 2006, 06:40 PM

I always love to hear the details of when my girl masturbates.... its like a penthouse letter come to life

Posted by: natalie Mar 3 2006, 06:40 PM

Penthouse is alright....Forum is better!

Posted by: thenewguy Mar 3 2006, 06:40 PM

omg thats hot.

Posted by: bondiguy Mar 3 2006, 06:44 PM

ah forum, thats what I meant

Posted by: Gnappster Mar 6 2006, 03:53 PM

If it feels good do it

Posted by: numba1fan Mar 7 2006, 01:00 PM

What that saying? "there are only two types of people in this world....liars....and
masturbators!"

Posted by: bondiguy Mar 8 2006, 02:34 AM

Damn... I do both!

Posted by: numba1fan Mar 8 2006, 02:35 AM

Hey Bondi, don't we all?!?!?!?!

Posted by: Lynette Mar 8 2006, 03:40 PM

This is an interesting question. I'm not really sure if im qualified to answer on behalf of any woman out there though. I've always thought that I kinda have the sex drive of a guy. I mean it's really easy for me to get totally preoccupied with sex, and I'm EXTREMELY orgasmic. I'm pretty sure there's only been like two or three times in my entire life where I didn't cum while having intercourse. I've often found it very hard to sympathize with women who say the never do. Masturbating for me is all about cumming, and experiencing all the feelings and fantasies that go with it along the way to the orgasm. But without the orgasm, I'd just as soon go shopping to tell you the truth. And who knows... with the right heels, short shorts, and see-through top, I just might meet the next lucky guy at the food court. LOL!

Posted by: closeup Mar 8 2006, 03:46 PM

You wear THAT top to the food court and you'll have guys wanting to have you for lunch.

Posted by: melonmassager Jan 1 2013, 05:24 PM

doesn't matter what Lynette is wearing, I want her for breakfast, lunch & dinner.

Posted by: evade20 Jan 1 2013, 06:06 PM

And midnight snatch... er I mean snack.

Posted by: LovemInNJ Jan 1 2013, 08:19 PM

absolutely agree with both of you

Posted by: ddd35 Jan 2 2013, 09:03 AM

Yep me to

Posted by: Patrizio Jan 2 2013, 08:04 PM

ditto

Posted by: Patrizio Jan 2 2013, 08:11 PM

I have done it lot of times
on cam, even face to face.. with lot of teasing sometimes.
I had a "friend" who liked to see it, she would get her pussy very close to the head of my cock while we both masturbated and let me shoot on her hand/pussy.

I suspect the last part was what drove her nuts, what really aroused me was having her so close and not being able to go.. any further.

Posted by: malhe Jan 2 2013, 09:31 PM

Masturbation can be done various ways and for female you dont have to have vaginal penetration but i do believe you have to cum for it to count or what is the point. I prefer to watch someone while I do it but if noone is available I seem to make due. It can def get you and your partner in the mood watching each other.

Posted by: evade20 Jan 2 2013, 09:50 PM

Tell us more....

Posted by: malhe Jan 2 2013, 10:27 PM

Ok Evade,

More

LOL just teasing. Forgot to add make sure you have dif vibrators in size and vibrating settings for the mood you may be in at the time of self pleasure.

Posted by: ddd35 Jan 3 2013, 10:32 AM

Oh MY

Posted by: rdmoscow1808 Jan 3 2013, 04:43 PM

Gosh ....I didnt KNOW that ??!!