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Posted by: badgirlpinky Sep 15 2013, 04:12 PM

So I have a date coming up and I am super fucking horny, i really want to suck on this guy but would this be too slutty on the first date? Would it put him off becoming more serious with me? I have only slept with 7 people in my life so i don't think i am a slut, but if i suck him will it put him off asking me to be his girlfriend?

Posted by: vanman3360 Sep 15 2013, 04:26 PM

So I have a date coming up and I am super fucking horny, i really want to suck on this guy but would this be too slutty on the first date? Would it put him off becoming more serious with me? I have only slept with 7 people in my life so i don't think i am a slut, but if i suck him will it put him off asking me to be his girlfriend? 

Posted by: 5thattempt Sep 15 2013, 04:29 PM

So I have a date coming up and I am super fucking horny, i really want to suck on this guy but would this be too slutty on the first date? Would it put him off becoming more serious with me? I have only slept with 7 people in my life so i don't think i am a slut, but if i suck him will it put him off asking me to be his girlfriend? 

Posted by: badgirlpinky Sep 15 2013, 04:30 PM

Play it slow baby girl..see if you like him..really.. unless all YOU want is some cock..and only head...think if it as your dessert.. not his..now later..if it works and you want to be a slut..playmate..and dress and play the part..mmmmmm
Send me some pics..kisses

Posted by: badgirlpinky Sep 15 2013, 04:31 PM

Depends on the guy.  I married a women who I had sex with on the first date. And she was the first one id done that with.
maybe lie and say you have a period and blow him if that still meets ur needs. He would def come back after that.

Posted by: SophZ3 Sep 15 2013, 04:39 PM

yeah i dont want actual sex on the first date i am just hungry for cock

Posted by: COMEDYMAN Sep 15 2013, 05:06 PM

I like the period fake-out for sex and see if he is receptive to a blowjob.... who wouldn't be?!!

Maybe he's just out to get laid so both needs are met

I think just coming out with it might be in order since it sounds like sex will be inevitable. or at least a blowjob!!

Posted by: badgirlpinky Sep 15 2013, 05:39 PM

I like the period fake-out for sex and see if he is receptive to a blowjob.... who wouldn't be?!! 

Maybe he's just out to get laid so both needs are met

I think just coming out with it might be in order since it sounds like sex will be inevitable. or at least a blowjob!!

Posted by: Buck Turgidson Sep 15 2013, 05:47 PM

Posted by: badgirlpinky Sep 15 2013, 05:59 PM

Exactly, depends on the guy.

Some guys are weird, some guys are emotional wusses, some guys don't get it and some guys do get it, and things like this work out.

Posted by: badgirlpinky Sep 15 2013, 10:10 PM

LOL....oh my.... sounds like trouble either way lol

Posted by: crimson Sep 16 2013, 12:15 AM

yeah i dont want actual sex on the first date i am just hungry for cock

Posted by: paybarraman Sep 16 2013, 03:33 AM

You're jumping from first date to blowjob to boyfriend. Slow it down and keep it simple.

You're both adults. Just relax and have a good time. If the opportunity arises and you're both "clicking" then let things happen on their own.

A first date is hardly to time to be thinking exclusivity or not.

There are sooo many things that you have to keep in mind. Firstly, you don't know what HIS sexual history is so even if it's a BJ, make sure he's all wrapped up. Until you can be 100% certain about that you owe it to yourself to protect yourself.

DON'T let your horniness lead you to recklessness.

Posted by: badgirlpinky Sep 16 2013, 10:13 AM

You're jumping from first date to blowjob to boyfriend.  Slow it down and keep it simple.

You're both adults.  Just relax and have a good time.  If the opportunity arises and you're both "clicking" then let things happen on their own.

A first date is hardly to time to be thinking exclusivity or not.

There are sooo many things that you have to keep in mind.  Firstly, you don't know what HIS sexual history is so even if it's a BJ, make sure he's all wrapped up.  Until you can be 100% certain about that you owe it to yourself to protect yourself.

DON'T let your horniness lead you to recklessness.

Posted by: Lynette Sep 16 2013, 05:47 PM

So I have a date coming up and I am super fucking horny, i really want to suck on this guy but would this be too slutty on the first date? Would it put him off becoming more serious with me? I have only slept with 7 people in my life so i don't think i am a slut, but if i suck him will it put him off asking me to be his girlfriend? 

Posted by: badgirlpinky Sep 16 2013, 09:00 PM

Oh sweetie. Every so often a girl SHOULD unleash her "inner slut". But, if he happens to be a guy you'd like to have a long-term relationship with, it might be best to wait, keep him hooked by being a little cute, suggestive, and sexy. Then when the time is right (third or forth date maybe), just go crazy on his body. Give him a blow job every time you see him, screw him in every way you know how, and always.... ALWAYS, show him how intense an orgasom he's giving you.

Posted by: crimson Sep 16 2013, 09:06 PM

more good advice   this is a guy that i want a long term ralationship with. so i guess ur right i'd betta take it slow

Posted by: ddd35 Sep 17 2013, 09:24 AM

more good advice   this is a guy that i want a long term ralationship with. so i guess ur right i'd betta take it slow

Posted by: badgirlpinky Sep 20 2013, 08:15 PM

the fucker stood me up anyhow... his loss

Posted by: crimson Sep 20 2013, 10:14 PM

the fucker stood me up anyhow... his loss

Posted by: ddd35 Sep 21 2013, 02:01 PM

the fucker stood me up anyhow... his loss

Posted by: paybarraman Sep 23 2013, 03:41 AM

the fucker stood me up anyhow... his loss

Posted by: badgirlpinky Sep 24 2013, 10:29 PM

WTF!?!?!?!?!??!

Too busy    than to actually have the Real Thing....

Come back to Milan sexy.. 

I wont stand you up....

Well....

maybe I would, to push you back against a wall..... 

Posted by: paybarraman Sep 26 2013, 03:18 AM

against the wall sounds good to me!

Posted by: badgirlpinky Sep 26 2013, 04:39 PM

holding your arms out wide to the sides while I bury my face into your lush tits....

grinding my hips against yours, letting you feel my reaction to your body...

Posted by: 40dd Oct 2 2013, 09:21 PM

This is probably old fashioned, but I'd say no way!(I am kind of old...) If your thinking it is a guy you actually want a relationship with, make him earn you!

It's one thing if you just want sex, but that and an actual relationship are two different things. I really think a lasting relationship has to be based on honesty and respect.(probably not popular with the guys here... sorry)

Posted by: badgirlpinky Oct 2 2013, 09:30 PM

This is probably old fashioned, but I'd say no way!(I am kind of old...)  If your thinking it is a guy you actually want a relationship with, make him earn you!

It's one thing if you just want sex, but that and an actual relationship are two different things.  I really think a lasting relationship has to be based on honesty and respect.(probably not popular with the guys here... sorry)

Posted by: curvyleah Oct 6 2013, 06:55 PM

no i have come to the same conclusion, make him earn it, take it slow

Posted by: curvyleah Oct 6 2013, 06:56 PM

So I have a date coming up and I am super fucking horny, i really want to suck on this guy but would this be too slutty on the first date? Would it put him off becoming more serious with me? I have only slept with 7 people in my life so i don't think i am a slut, but if i suck him will it put him off asking me to be his girlfriend? 

Posted by: KrisOfMO Oct 6 2013, 07:19 PM

It's not really a date if you put out. It is a booty call where he took you out first. Its super hard to look at a girl who blew you on the first date as anything after besides a concrete orgasm.

Posted by: badgirlpinky Oct 6 2013, 08:15 PM

It's not really a date if you put out. It is a booty call where he took you out first. Its super hard to look at a girl who blew you on the first date as anything after besides a concrete orgasm.

Posted by: ddd35 Oct 23 2013, 07:54 AM

  ok ok i get it, make him wait

Posted by: melonmassager Sep 6 2014, 04:52 PM

Unless you don't want to then fuck his brains out ! 

Posted by: Buck Turgidson Sep 6 2014, 11:52 PM

She did

http://www.ratemymelons.com/chat/index.php?showtopic=2873&view=findpost&p=269285

Posted by: Mrscabo Oct 10 2014, 12:47 PM

It's not really a date if you put out. It is a booty call where he took you out first. Its super hard to look at a girl who blew you on the first date as anything after besides a concrete orgasm.

Posted by: ddd35 Oct 10 2014, 02:42 PM

I been at this for a long time...IF I really like a guy and let him have his way with me