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Posted by: Opiatepoet Oct 23 2009, 01:44 AM

Just a thought I had the other night, why is it so much more exciting to watch a girl on her webcam then to see a studio produced porn? To me anyways, nothing beats a girl with a natural look to her, maybe its the idea that it could be a woman you meet every day. The girl behind the counter at the gast station, a co-worker, a teacher at the local school, whoever it is has a side they dont share with everyone, and for that moment, youre invited.

So chime in everyone, what are your thoughts? Amateur versus Professional? I for one would give my left arm (I still need the right one tongue.gif ) to have a website full of vids from any of the girls ive mentioned on here, and have never once been tempted to pay for any porn sites, the girls here are just so much sexier.

Posted by: mtnguy75 Oct 23 2009, 01:52 AM

I whole heartedly agree! Store bought produced porn always seemed so fake to me. Woman on sites like this, especially this site for me, are real woman. That keeps my attention far greater than anything else out there. And theres some fine ones on here too i must say wink.gif

Posted by: misschickie Oct 23 2009, 01:53 AM

i endorse this thread smile.gif

i can see the draw to real women. because she would be putting on the show for you rather than a mass audience, therefore more tangible, therefore someone you could actually 'connect' with.

Posted by: mtnguy75 Oct 23 2009, 01:56 AM

Bullseye darlin wink.gif

Posted by: Opiatepoet Nov 23 2009, 11:11 AM

So as a bit of an update, in linking from a comedy website I go to often the other day I ended up after a bit of clicking on the website for a pornstar, one she owns and posts on. I entered the chat room out of curiosity and lo and behold, ended up chatting with said pornstar. Let me tell you, I had some preconcieved notions about pornstars, and some of them have rung true, I met a few hanging out with a friend of mine who managed an adult toy store, but this woman was dynamite. Very funny, and witty, and down to earth, great to chat with. Oddly enough, after chatting with her, the porn she had on her site seemed hotter to me, just after a conversation. Anyone else ever chatted with a pornstar and then got into thier work more afterwards?

Posted by: Buck Turgidson Nov 24 2009, 02:44 AM

Yes, I live in California and have had one of those exclusive privileges in life to hang around a few porn star girls. No, I have not done any porn work(though maybe I should ha!) but with the girls it's really a mixed bag. And what I mean by that, is some of the girls are just absolutely down to earth, and I easily forget that I'm talking to women who do porn. The conversation is always anything from something their pet cat or dog did, to an experience while they were out and about and if I could identify with the same scenario. Just really great personalities inside. Other girls are bitchy with big head syndrome. Some are checked out on the chemical of the day. The good ones really shine in their personalities, one name stands out, porn goddess Cindy Crawford actually remembered me from the last time we met, even remembered a fact about the car I was driving. It's things like that, that reinforce the fact that their true personalities and character have no recourse with their occupation. I would have to say too, that anyone who has not had the opportunity to meet a few, and I'm not talking about standing in line waiting waiting for her to sign your picture while she sits behind the table, but actually mingle with them in their off time, will shoot down any preconceived opinions you will have about porn stars in general.

To address the first question, commercially produced porn is unbelievable, because everybody knows they've had one or two that were just not that into getting fucked. And all of the sudden, media fantasy and reality do not seem to correlate. To married people who have had one sex mate all of their life, sadly, you will never get to experience this, just take we singles word for it tongue.gif .
I'd like to use Wifey's World as a perfect example of reality porn. They didn't even want to do it as a full time venture, but their fans demanded more because of the "realism". Though they pretend in mock scenarios, everything is real as real gets and their huge fan base eats it up because it's believable. There are times when she's this way, or that way and or it happens this way and it strikes a cord with people who have been there in the bedroom!

Posted by: UncleBuck Nov 24 2009, 10:54 AM

QUOTE(Opiatepoet @ Nov 23 2009, 09:11 AM)
So as a bit of an update, in linking from a comedy website I go to often the other day I ended up after a bit of clicking on the website for a pornstar, one she owns and posts on. I entered the chat room out of curiosity and lo and behold, ended up chatting with said pornstar. Let me tell you, I had some preconcieved notions about pornstars, and some of them have rung true, I met a few hanging out with a friend of mine who managed an adult toy store, but this woman was dynamite. Very funny, and witty, and down to earth, great to chat with. Oddly enough, after chatting with her, the porn she had on her site seemed hotter to me, just after a conversation. Anyone else ever chatted with a pornstar and then got into thier work more afterwards?
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So how did you know that she/it was excatly a 'pornstar'
and not this Guy confused-smiley-013.gif smilio04.gif
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Posted by: theinfamousjax Nov 24 2009, 07:46 PM

QUOTE(UncleBuck @ Nov 24 2009, 10:54 AM)
So how did you know that she/it was excatly a 'pornstar'
and not this Guy confused-smiley-013.gif  smilio04.gif
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dudes got a point you can't know you were talking to her...the beauty of the internet...
most of these sites are ghost owned and operated by porn production companies that buy the licensing to the pornstar's name the most the actual girls do is usually scenes and shoots for it... and you met some porn stars??? really? really?? you'll have to excuse my skepticism

Posted by: Opiatepoet Nov 24 2009, 10:54 PM

fair enough, I suppose you may be right, allthough from what ive heard this particular girl is on her site alot doing chats and what not, still its not like we discussed her pussy or cybered, we just had an enlighteneing conversation so in the end, does it really matter?

Posted by: ddd35 Nov 25 2009, 07:55 AM

QUOTE(Opiatepoet @ Nov 24 2009, 08:54 PM)
fair enough, I suppose you may be right, allthough from what ive heard this particular girl is on her site alot doing chats and what not, still its not like we discussed her pussy or cybered, we just had an enlighteneing conversation so in the end, does it really matter?
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Have you ever seen the HBO specials were a 60 yr old women is pretending to be a attractive sexy 18 yr old and talking dirty for phone sex , its the same thing on the net , Dont put allot of faith in the fact that it is actually the person , usually its just a headline to draw people in . But to each there own . food-smiley-004.gif

Posted by: peterpan Nov 26 2009, 11:22 PM

QUOTE(ddd35 @ Nov 25 2009, 07:55 AM)
Have you ever seen the HBO specials were a 60 yr old women is pretending to be a attractive sexy 18 yr old and talking dirty for phone sex , its the same thing on the net , Dont put allot of faith in the fact that it is actually the person , usually its just a headline to draw people in . But to each there own . food-smiley-004.gif
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Well put 3d... I would prefer the women here on RMM to the faceless one on the other end of a phone..

3 CHEERS to the women of RMM !!!!!

Posted by: ddd35 Nov 27 2009, 07:07 AM

QUOTE(peterpan @ Nov 26 2009, 09:22 PM)
Well put 3d... I would prefer the women here on RMM to the faceless one on the other end of a phone..

3 CHEERS to the women of RMM !!!!!
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grinning-smiley-003.gif Agreed 2thumbs.gif

Posted by: Gnappster Jan 15 2010, 04:15 PM

QUOTE(Opiatepoet @ Oct 22 2009, 11:44 PM)
Just a thought I had the other night, why is it so much more exciting to watch a girl on her webcam then to see a studio produced porn? To me anyways, nothing beats a girl with a natural look to her, maybe its the idea that it could be a woman you meet every day. The girl behind the counter at the gast station, a co-worker, a teacher at the local school, whoever it is has a side they dont share with everyone, and for that moment, youre invited.

So chime in everyone, what are your thoughts? Amateur versus Professional? I for one would give my left arm (I still need the right one  tongue.gif ) to have a website full of vids from any of the girls ive mentioned on here, and have never once been tempted to pay for any porn sites, the girls here are just so much sexier.
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I'll take whatver's free food-smiley-004.gif
But seriously, individual webcamming feels too much cheating to me as you're developing an intimate sort of relationship with a naked girl. Whereas porn is just sex for the masses.
But you can find a lot of porn where they talk to the girls first and you can get to know them a bit. Even if it's schtick, you can usually pick that out.
I don't know if there have been that many porn stars on rmm, but there have been several dancers and nude models and most seemed pretty down to earth.
And before people ask how I could be sure they were who they said they were, just trust me, I know wink.gif

Posted by: ddd35 Jan 16 2010, 10:04 AM

QUOTE(Gnappster @ Jan 15 2010, 02:15 PM)
I'll take whatver's free  food-smiley-004.gif
But seriously, individual webcamming feels too much cheating to me as you're developing an intimate sort of relationship with a naked girl. Whereas porn is just sex for the masses.
But you can find a lot of porn where they talk to the girls first and you can get to know them a bit. Even if it's schtick, you can usually pick that out.
I don't know if there have been that many porn stars on rmm, but there have been several dancers and nude models and most seemed pretty down to earth.
And before people ask how I could be sure they were who they said they were, just trust me, I know wink.gif
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Posted by: Bobaloo Jan 16 2010, 11:10 AM

If anyone cares about my two cents:

Webcam porn just seems creepy to me, especially live ones. I've never even considered looking into it.

I'm not as big a fan of studio produced porn. The obvious fakeness just doesn't do it for me anymore. I can't stand when the girl is moaning as if in the middle of orgasm for the entire five-minute clip. Drives me fucking crazy.

and another thing, what's with girls moaning like they're getting off when they're jerking off a guy and he comes? It cracks me up when they're ready for the come shot, the girl is almost there but not quite, the guy has to pull out, she's jerking him off all over her belly, and she has to fake an orgasm while getting a load dumped on her. It's more comdedic than it is a turn on.

I much prefer amateur stuff. The hard part is finding something of quality but still isn't studio produced. There's some studio-produced "amatuer" porn out there. some is good but most is pretty bad. But yeah, a good real-life college girl railing or a hot nightvision fuck can be pretty hot. And there's a lot of horrible amatuer porn out there too, but you can usually tell that pretty quick and move on.

Posted by: ddd35 Jan 16 2010, 12:21 PM

QUOTE(Bobaloo @ Jan 16 2010, 09:10 AM)
If anyone cares about my two cents:

Webcam porn just seems creepy to me, especially live ones.  I've never even considered looking into it.




I'm not as big a fan of studio produced porn.  The obvious fakeness just doesn't do it for me anymore.  I can't stand when the girl is moaning as if in the middle of orgasm for the entire five-minute clip.  Drives me fucking crazy. 

and another thing, what's with girls moaning like they're getting off when they're jerking off a guy and he comes?  It cracks me up when they're ready for the come shot, the girl is almost there but not quite, the guy has to pull out, she's jerking him off all over her belly, and she has to fake an orgasm while getting a load dumped on her.  It's more comdedic than it is a turn on.

I much prefer amateur stuff.  The hard part is finding something of quality but still isn't studio produced.  There's some studio-produced "amatuer" porn out there. some is good but most is pretty bad.  But yeah, a good real-life college girl railing or a hot nightvision fuck can be pretty hot.  And there's a lot of horrible amatuer porn out there too, but you can usually tell that pretty quick and move on.
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Bob I fear your lying about the webcam porn tongue.gif

Posted by: digitalnights Jan 16 2010, 04:39 PM

QUOTE(misschickie @ Oct 22 2009, 11:53 PM)
i endorse this thread smile.gif

i can see the draw to real women.  because she would be putting on the show for you rather than a mass audience, therefore more tangible, therefore someone you could actually 'connect' with.
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I agree. Porn is all fine and good, but I always tend to go for the "girl next door" type. That and the fact that it's more believable when it's not professional.

I can't say that some pro stuff doesn't do it for me, but generally, I'd rather it be down to earth and real.

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