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Posted by: diane26 Feb 7 2006, 07:59 PM

If you think a girl is cute what is it your meaning, can she still be sexy or is she cute like a kid sister?? Is it a nice word for I'Ll pass??

Posted by: burningnickle Feb 7 2006, 08:00 PM

I think cute can still mean sexy but that is just me!!

Posted by: diane26 Feb 7 2006, 08:05 PM

Thanks I know this is one of those words that can have many meanings depending on who is saying it how it is used and so forth so that is why I am wanting many opoinions. Thanks for your input.

Posted by: burningnickle Feb 7 2006, 08:06 PM

your welcome any time you need it!!!!!

Posted by: johnny wadd Feb 7 2006, 08:08 PM

If I were to refer to a woman on rmm as cute To me I think she is so pretty I just want to eat her up. I mean it as a big compliment.

Posted by: Hardabs Feb 7 2006, 08:10 PM

i mean it in the same way

Posted by: diane26 Feb 7 2006, 08:16 PM

So for someone saying you are very cute or something can be meant as a good thing not just well your doable???

Posted by: burningnickle Feb 7 2006, 08:18 PM

Yes it can mean a good thing!

Posted by: diane26 Feb 7 2006, 08:20 PM

Thanks guys I was really wanting to hear some guys thoughts on this. Good to know

Posted by: burningnickle Feb 7 2006, 08:21 PM

I hope it helped lots!!!

Posted by: Hardabs Feb 7 2006, 08:24 PM

to me it means your doable but that's not all you're good for

Posted by: Avvilimento Feb 8 2006, 06:03 AM

Sometimes I use it to mean both... though typically, if I'm referring to a woman as being "cute", it's kind of like a way of saying she's beautiful, with an innocent, or perhaps cheeky, charm for good measure.

There were a great many times when I accused my ex of being cute (particularly when she was wrinkling up her nose and giggling at me), and more still for my lady-friend of more recent times (see the internet attachment thread for details), but it's definately meant a lot more than someone simple being "doable".

If anything, "Cute" is more of a "keepable" than a "doable" statement, as far as I'm concearned.

-Jak

Posted by: Gnappster Feb 8 2006, 05:12 PM

put far more eloquently than I would have posted, but that pretty much sums it up.

btw, what's your ex's phone number, she sounds doable!

Posted by: bondiguy Feb 9 2006, 03:08 AM

cute = someone u can bring home to mother.

that is all

Posted by: imagonsgirl Feb 9 2006, 08:13 AM

i feel cute means better than average,now if they very said very cute,that seems to mean they are attracted to you,and yes doable

Posted by: girlie_girl Feb 9 2006, 10:04 AM

maybe I'm odd, but "cute" to me has never been a compliment.

In girlie language it translates to "eh, not bad"

kinda like "nice pic"

...it's when you're not really repulsed, but not really impressed either.

Maybe it's just me.

Posted by: johnny wadd Feb 9 2006, 10:21 AM

Definition of Cute-- attractive or pretty especially in a dainty or delicate way .If I dont like someone they wont get any compliment at all,why B.S. them? If I see an ugly baby I wont say that kid is cute I will say that kid got a head like a coconut.I guess if your an honest guy people know you mean what you say.I think a woman would question what a guy is telling them when they dont trust the guy.

Posted by: diane26 Feb 9 2006, 05:09 PM

HAHA I think a lot of woman take it to mean this cause I sort of allways thought of it like this which is why I was wanting to hear some mens views at least it wasnt just me, I just noticed I get told I am so cute or very cute more than anything and I was starting to wonder if it was a nice way to say "NEXT"

Posted by: girlie_girl Feb 9 2006, 09:59 PM

yea, that's how I take it.

I think we must be right.

Two smartypants like us can't be wrong.

If it helps I think you are BEAUTIFUL.

...there is no way that can be mistaken for an insult.

luv ya sweetie.

ps. is mr.ahole home yet?

Posted by: foghorn Feb 9 2006, 10:13 PM

to decipher my comments:

"alright"=doable
cute, pretty, etc=is way better than just doable. i really like the way you look. i lust after you

so ladies pretty much from all the men here, if we say you are cute...that is a good thing. OK

Posted by: diane26 Feb 9 2006, 11:09 PM

Well I think we have to go with the mens view on this one since they are the ones saying it LOL.

Yeah he got home sunday:|

Posted by: bondiguy Feb 10 2006, 07:14 AM

this thread is cute

Posted by: Gnappster Feb 10 2006, 12:59 PM

more like alright

Posted by: diane26 Feb 10 2006, 01:49 PM

Posted by: foghorn Feb 10 2006, 06:31 PM

you are both wrong...it's doable

Posted by: ontippytoes Feb 10 2006, 08:58 PM

Cute is like "perky" and not in the boobs-sense. Cute is like the high-school cheerleader. Woman want to be gorgeous. But I also believe, as proven on this thread, that cute has different definitions for men v. women.

Posted by: diane26 Feb 10 2006, 09:07 PM

Yes I am thinking that so from now on if a girl says I am "cute" I will be like but if a guy says I am cute I will be like

Posted by: sexysotslad Feb 10 2006, 09:08 PM

ccute for guys is a cheeky smile and young looks , much the same as girls but i think guys get a bigger kick being told they are cute let me know ha ha

Posted by: diane26 Feb 10 2006, 09:13 PM

For me to say a guy is cute means he is good looking and has something about him, someone I can be in a long term relationship with.


If he is hott it is all about wanting some sex with him but might not be much more there than that.

Posted by: sexysotslad Feb 10 2006, 09:16 PM

so fishing for compliment whats your opinion honey and be honest

Posted by: ontippytoes Feb 10 2006, 09:17 PM

Yep, that pretty much sums it up.

Posted by: bondiguy Feb 11 2006, 12:40 AM

I like cute perky high school cheerleaders

Posted by: diane26 Feb 11 2006, 03:32 AM

I was the class clown still am I guess my mom never let me do gymastics so I could cheerlead.

Posted by: foghorn Feb 11 2006, 11:50 PM

for some reason i think you be a great tumble in the sack without being a gymnist or cheerleader

Posted by: bondiguy Feb 13 2006, 01:20 AM

yeah cheerleaders are good

Posted by: Gnappster Feb 13 2006, 12:15 PM

as long as they are obviously 12

Posted by: diane26 Feb 13 2006, 01:28 PM

Posted by: Gnappster Feb 13 2006, 01:46 PM

http://www.ratemymelons.com/chat/How_Many_People_Have_You_Had_Sex_Withl-t476-s30.html
post #39

Posted by: diane26 Feb 13 2006, 01:49 PM

OMG HAHAHA That is about as bad as my type the other day to a lady, I said Word to the WIDE instead of wise

Posted by: Gnappster Feb 13 2006, 01:54 PM

Freudian slip imo

Posted by: diane26 Feb 13 2006, 01:55 PM

Obviously a much deeper meaning

Posted by: bondiguy Feb 15 2006, 04:07 AM

damn Gnappy.... that was brought up from the archives!

Posted by: diane26 Mar 4 2006, 06:16 PM

I was called CUTE again

Posted by: natalie Mar 4 2006, 07:30 PM

I think if a guy tells you to your face that your cute it's not that huge a compliment but if he tells one of his friends then he likes her and she's doable. At least that's what I've gathered from watching the guys at the bar and observing my husband.

Posted by: closeup Mar 4 2006, 07:40 PM

I think cute is good. The opposite of cute is "She has a good personality." Doable is a lesser standard than cute. If you're cute, you're cute. Doable can change with alcohol & desperation.

Posted by: Christof Mar 4 2006, 09:37 PM

To me cute is a very good thing, but its really hard to describe, its that kinda of bubbly cheeky look about a girl, like a certain cheeky glint in the eye, doesnt really cover it, but its as near a description as i can manage after this much beer

Posted by: diane26 Mar 4 2006, 10:00 PM

LMFAO When I first read your post I thought you said it is that CHUBBY instead of bubbly I was like oh great that makes me feel even better

Posted by: Christof Mar 4 2006, 10:14 PM

Di from what I have seen you are cute, in a sex kitten kinda way, and that most definitely is a good thing!

Posted by: natalie Mar 5 2006, 12:23 AM

And do you drink when your on this site??

Posted by: closeup Mar 5 2006, 08:16 AM

I don't drink at all. I'd rather go for a run or shoot hoops if I have any spare time, which I rarely do. When I'm here on this site, I'm actually working at the same time. It's 7am on Sunday and I'm already in my office, I wouldn't be able to do that if I was hungover or tired. Gotta stay sharp to keep ahead of you feisty ladies.

Posted by: Isaac_Putin Mar 5 2006, 10:12 PM

I don't usually think of cute as something you would use to describe an adult woman. I think of an idealized doll or something.

Cute:
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Jennifer Love Hewitt
Dakota Fanning
Nathalie Portman
Katie Holmes
Emilie deRavin

Beautiful:
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Keira Knightly
Scarlett Johannson
Halle Berry
Evangeline Lilly

Smoking Hot (beautiful bordering on being difficult to not think of throwing them down and having sex with them):
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Salma Hayek
Angelina Jolie

Posted by: diane26 Mar 5 2006, 10:15 PM

Back to not liking that I am always called cute

Posted by: Isaac_Putin Mar 5 2006, 10:39 PM

Hey, as long people don't say you look like a young Barbara Mikulski!

Posted by: diane26 Mar 5 2006, 11:09 PM

Nah I just look like a 12 year old I guess

Posted by: Isaac_Putin Mar 5 2006, 11:17 PM

Barbara Mikulski is a senator from my area. I love her, but she is no Salma Hayek. If you Google Barbara Mikulski, you will see what I mean.....

Posted by: belicked6924 Mar 5 2006, 11:18 PM

See you are Bondi's type.

Posted by: numba1fan Mar 5 2006, 11:21 PM

c'mon poor bondi is not even here to defend himself.....i think even his standard would be at least 15!

Posted by: belicked6924 Mar 5 2006, 11:24 PM

Please refer to post #38 in this thread and follow that link.

Posted by: diane26 Mar 5 2006, 11:49 PM

Not even than HOW SAD AS ITAT

Posted by: bondiguy Mar 6 2006, 12:29 AM

I could not have said it better myself

Posted by: diane26 Mar 6 2006, 12:32 AM

So when you said my face was cute it was really you just being nice?

Posted by: bondiguy Mar 6 2006, 12:57 AM

I never said u were cute






just kidding

Posted by: diane26 Mar 6 2006, 01:06 AM

Yes you did now I see why UGH


Your still cute though just might loose a line in my sig:P

Posted by: bondiguy Mar 6 2006, 01:36 AM

I believe i used the word beautiful!

Posted by: diane26 Mar 6 2006, 01:44 AM

OK OK upon further review it was I who called you cute and you were commentin g me on that and than said I was beatiful so this is a once in the life time apology and the show may now go back onto its regulary scheduled program and the sig stays

Posted by: bondiguy Mar 6 2006, 01:48 AM

accepted

Posted by: saxman Mar 6 2006, 07:58 AM

I know I hated being called CUTE in HS and early college. That meant the girl thought I was 'like a brother to her' or 'Such a good friend' ie.... Not getting anywhere with me.

I certainly don't use it to ean that to ladies! But I do use it that way to mean something like that for kids or old ladies lol

Posted by: Gnappster Mar 6 2006, 01:19 PM

yeah, me too. Well when I'm on here I'm AT work, dunno bout the working part

Posted by: foghorn Mar 7 2006, 07:32 AM

so we have pretty much established that when most men on this site refer to a woman as "cute" they are making a compliment, but most of the women here are still unsure if "cute" is truely a compliment...right?

that being said...

what do women really mean when they call a guy "cute"?

Posted by: natalie Mar 7 2006, 01:55 PM

For me it's that I'd, at the very least, make out with him.

Posted by: frenchguy_pa Mar 7 2006, 02:25 PM

for me cute = in all the directions of the term , it is a whole between the physique and the personality


sorry for my english

Posted by: paybarraman Mar 7 2006, 03:37 PM

Diane.....you could NEVER look like a 12 year old.......


It is a difficult question because in my opinion the adjective carries different weight for different people.

I understand how a woman can take it as less than a compliment when being told she is "cute" or "real cute" or "very cute", but when I use the word it is ONLY meant to be taken as a compliment. It is common knowledge that I pretty much lust after all of the ladies on this site - but that's primarily because I love tits and always want to have sex with the owner.

For me, I guess my best example is
Alyson Hannigan is cute....
Charlize Theron is beautiful/gorgeous
BOTH women are SEXY and can illicit extremely lust filled feelings.....


Diane...you are HOT!! Very pretty face and yet at the same time there is an underlying sensuousness that can be seen in your eyes so.....

Posted by: Christof Mar 7 2006, 05:17 PM

You've seen eyes? no fair

Posted by: Gnappster Mar 7 2006, 05:22 PM

that's ok, I usually don't see eyes either as I'm usually staring at the tits!

Posted by: diane26 Mar 7 2006, 05:36 PM

Christof you want to see eyes??

LOL Thank Pay
Fog I told my meaning of cute of men in this thread somewhwere

Posted by: Christof Mar 7 2006, 06:26 PM

I'd love to see your eys, eyes are usually the first thing I notice about a person, but gnappy, boobs are a very close second

Posted by: frenchguy_pa Mar 7 2006, 06:38 PM

what man look in first, eyes or boobies ?

Posted by: paybarraman Mar 8 2006, 10:38 AM

Anytime sweetheart


Eyes first

Love looking into eyes

Posted by: Christof Mar 8 2006, 06:00 PM

Thank goodness im not alone on this one

Posted by: paybarraman Mar 9 2006, 08:01 AM

Besides, women tend to like the fact that you can look at THEM and not just their tits....







**besides, my peripheral vision is very good so i can still take in the view of glorious cleavage while looking at her eyes**

Posted by: evade20 Mar 9 2006, 08:37 AM

Why do you think they wear sexy clothing for...but to be admired both as women and as people. I never really could look right into a woman's eyes until I started dancing. Then it is almost required. And of course, good "peripheral vision" makes the experience all the mor pleasant!

Posted by: GodzillaBJ_ Mar 17 2006, 02:52 AM

When I say a girl is cute its like me saying that she is very attractive

Posted by: diane26 Mar 17 2006, 04:14 PM

Hello Godzilla I was just in San Diego over christmas break:)