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Posted by: desibaba May 3 2006, 12:12 AM

After going out with many girls in my life and getting close to 23 yrs of age i have come to one conclusion.Forget all the crap you have learnt from bollywood n hollywood.Forget the sitting at a girl's feet and begging like a dog.Why? Because its the most self destructive thing you can do.For some reason i have seen most girls run away pretty fast when you give them presents,flowers and too many compliments.I guess the reason is they want a guy who's a CHALLENGE.Someone whos nice but at the same time lets them know that hes doing THEM a favor instead of going out with them instead of the other way around.In my experience all the girls i have dated i noticed the ones i was really nice to,gave the flowers and gifts to,Not to mention the compliments were the first ones who dumped me.And then the ones i didnt spend much money on,Never was the first to touch, and gave them the feeling that "i dont care if you like me or not" were the ones who were attracted to me the most.Anyone else agree with that? Girls like guys who are a challenge???

Posted by: diane26 May 3 2006, 12:18 AM

QUOTE(desibaba @ May 2 2006, 09:12 PM)
After going out with many girls in my life and getting close to 23 yrs of age i have come to one conclusion.Forget all the crap you have learnt from bollywood n hollywood.Forget the sitting at a girl's feet and begging like a dog.Why? Because its the most self destructive thing you can do.For some reason i have seen most girls run away pretty fast when you give them presents,flowers and too many compliments.I guess the reason is they want a guy who's a CHALLENGE.Someone whos nice but at the same time lets them know that hes doing THEM a favor instead of going out with them instead of the other way around.In my experience all the girls i have dated i noticed the ones i was really nice to,gave the flowers and gifts to,Not to mention the compliments were the first ones who dumped me.And then the ones i didnt spend much money on,Never was the first to touch, and gave them the feeling that "i dont care if you like me or not" were the ones who were attracted to me the most.Anyone else agree with that? Girls like guys who are a challenge???
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this isn't always true, it may seem that way but it isn't always true and even those of us that do prefer that type of man we grow up and realize what we want is a nice guy. Can't get into it right now but that is what I will say for now.

Add one thing though if you are finding girls like that than most likely there are deeper issues going on with her.

Posted by: CrazyJoe131 May 3 2006, 01:44 AM

The assholes get the broads, the nice guys get the wives, it all depends which you want.

Posted by: bondiguy May 6 2006, 03:18 AM

QUOTE(CrazyJoe131 @ May 3 2006, 01:44 AM)
The assholes get the broads, the nice guys get the wives, it all depends which you want.
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Maybe he wants a broad wife? blink.gif

Posted by: Christof May 6 2006, 07:12 AM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 6 2006, 08:18 AM)
Maybe he wants a broad wife? blink.gif
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Or a wife from abroad? there are sites you can go to to arrange that, er, apparently

Posted by: Pinkcheeks214 May 6 2006, 10:39 PM

No it's not like that. I have men who are interested in me and are very nice to me, but I'm not attracted to them. So it doesn't matter how many flowers I get from them or whatever, I will still not be interested in them. I'm polite and like their friendship, but it won't go any further.

I can think of a few guys in the past who I've liked but they weren't interested in me and I was probably a bit too eager or available for them regardless of how they were cool to me.

Posted by: bondiguy May 6 2006, 11:39 PM

QUOTE(Pinkcheeks214 @ May 6 2006, 10:39 PM)
No it's not like that. I have men who are interested in me and are very nice to me, but I'm not attracted to them. So it doesn't matter how many flowers I get from them or whatever, I will still not be interested in them. I'm polite and   like their friendship, but it won't go any further.

I can think of a few guys in the past who I've liked but they weren't interested in me and I was probably a bit too eager or available for them regardless of how they were cool to me.
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To paraphrase for you desibaba... you're ugly laughing-smiley-017.gif

Posted by: Lynette May 7 2006, 04:33 PM

Ive been aware from the time I ws 15 that I'm always attracted to the "badboy" type. I've always taken it for granted that there's a certain amount of crap I have to put up with when with a guy like this. But, the minute the treatment turns abuse=ive in any way.. I'm outta there! The way I see it is, I have my pick of anyone I want to be with... So why take shit from some asshole that doesn't appreciate me? The man I'm with now is perfect, a highly educated, ex-badboy who has matured and developed an air of sufistication, but has retained that "badboy" charm that women seem to go for. He's cooled and reserved his manner, but you still know by seeing or talking to that he's someone that's still dangerous and a guy to be respected. I guys most women who'll admit to gong for this type of guy WILL admit that they kinda like the primal security they represent. Maybe it's just instinctual.

Posted by: ddd35 May 7 2006, 04:37 PM

QUOTE(Lynette @ May 7 2006, 04:33 PM)
Ive been aware from the time I ws 15 that I'm always attracted to the "badboy" type. I've always taken it for granted that there's a certain amount of crap I have to put up with when with a guy like this. But, the minute the treatment turns abuse=ive in any way.. I'm outta there! The way I see it is, I have my pick of anyone I want to be with... So why take shit from some asshole that doesn't appreciate me? The man I'm with now is perfect, a highly educated,  ex-badboy who has matured and developed an air of sufistication, but has retained that "badboy" charm that women seem to go for. He's cooled and reserved his manner, but you still know by seeing or talking to that he's someone that's still dangerous and a guy to be respected. I guys most women who'll admit to gong for this type of guy WILL admit that they kinda like the primal security they represent. Maybe it's just instinctual.
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I have to say i tried being nice to my wife , giving all the things she wanted , material things ,, And I was getting no were so i have switched to being not so nice , Im never abusive just not very nice at times ,, My sex life has seemed to pick up for it ..

Posted by: diane26 May 7 2006, 10:39 PM

QUOTE(ddd35 @ May 7 2006, 01:37 PM)
I have to say i tried being nice to my wife  , giving  all the things she wanted  , material things ,, And I was getting no were   so i have switched to being not so nice  , Im never abusive  just not very nice  at times  ,,  My sex life has seemed to pick up for it   ..
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I think your wife has issues,

When you been with men that are bad and abusive and all that it changes you, now I want nothing more than a "good boy" maybe some of the bad guy in him when he is preotecting me, but I want a man that is nice to me romances me and makes me feel loved and cherished and respected.

I won't settle for less anymore.

Posted by: foxy lady May 7 2006, 11:20 PM

QUOTE(ddd35 @ May 7 2006, 04:37 PM)
I have to say i tried being nice to my wife  , giving  all the things she wanted  , material things ,, And I was getting no were   so i have switched to being not so nice  , Im never abusive  just not very nice  at times  ,,  My sex life has seemed to pick up for it   ..
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Maybe she wants to be submissive for you...women are comfortable with being submissive if they feel secure......just saying confused-smiley-013.gif

Posted by: bondiguy May 8 2006, 02:26 AM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 7 2006, 10:39 PM)
I think your wife has issues,

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WRONG!!!

It simply means she does not love you anymore, now... isn;t attracted to you. You do not flick her switches etc etc

No amount of flowers, chocolates, massages etc etc will make someone like, love or be attracted to you if their heart is not in it

PERIOD

Posted by: ddd35 May 8 2006, 06:26 AM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 8 2006, 02:26 AM)
WRONG!!!

It simply means she does not love you anymore, now... isn;t attracted to you. You do not flick her switches etc etc

No amount of flowers, chocolates, massages etc etc will make someone like, love or be attracted to you if their heart is not in it

PERIOD
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sounds like sombody has lived a bad marriage to me sorry popc1.gif

Posted by: diane26 May 8 2006, 12:40 PM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 7 2006, 11:26 PM)
WRONG!!!

It simply means she does not love you anymore, now... isn;t attracted to you. You do not flick her switches etc etc

No amount of flowers, chocolates, massages etc etc will make someone like, love or be attracted to you if their heart is not in it

PERIOD
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Actually Bondi not wrong, one I was being sarcastic Two if the woman doesn't like him doing nice things and rather him be a jerk to her than she has issues, wether it be not loving him anymore or self issues there is IN FACT something going on.



PERIOD

Posted by: Kutabacchimae May 8 2006, 01:12 PM

On a lot of levels, I want to agree with the first post. I am a man who has believed in doing the right thing all the time. I had become bitter for a while. I think I'm over it but it was hard. Especially when you've had girlfriends who have litterally left you for their dealers, spent their entire time with you longing for the guy that used to beat her, wanted a guy who would spend 24/7 with then (even calling off of work to do that), or who were just looking to trap a guy with pregnancy. I haven't had a girlfriend in over 1 year and I'm not looking to just into anything any time soon. There are prospects and wherever they go, they go. If anything does turn into a real relationship, I'll embrace that, but in the meantime I'm not going to try so hard. I am finding that the less I try the more women I seem to attract. Women don't seem to want a nice guy, they seem to want a bad boy that they can turn into a nice guy. I waiting to find a woman that has outgrown that stage. Either that or get some tatoos and piercings so they think I was a bad boy.

Posted by: boanna May 8 2006, 01:19 PM

QUOTE(foxy lady @ May 7 2006, 09:20 PM)
Maybe she wants to be submissive for you...women are comfortable with being submissive if they feel secure......just saying confused-smiley-013.gif
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yep, thats it!

Posted by: boanna May 8 2006, 01:22 PM

QUOTE(CrazyJoe131 @ May 2 2006, 11:44 PM)
The assholes get the broads, the nice guys get the wives, it all depends which you want.
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not always true. mines an asshole. i am not a broad.

Posted by: boanna May 8 2006, 01:27 PM

QUOTE(Kutabacchimae @ May 8 2006, 11:12 AM)
On a lot of levels, I want to agree with the first post.  I am a man who has believed in doing the right thing all the time.  I had become bitter for a while.  I think I'm over it but it was hard.  Especially when you've had girlfriends who have litterally left you for their dealers, spent their entire time with you longing for the guy that used to beat her, wanted a guy who would spend 24/7 with then (even calling off of work to do that), or who were just looking to trap a guy with pregnancy.  I haven't had a girlfriend in over 1 year and I'm not looking to just into anything any time soon.  There are prospects and wherever they go, they go.  If anything does turn into a real relationship, I'll embrace that, but in the meantime I'm not going to try so hard.  I am finding that the less I try the more women I seem to attract.  Women don't seem to want a nice guy, they seem to want a bad boy that they can turn into a nice guy.  I waiting to find a woman that has outgrown that stage.  Either that or get some tatoos and piercings so they think I was a bad boy.
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not all true...for me. i married a nice guy, he wasnt. he was a closet asshole. just waited till he "got me" to go back to what he knew best. if he was the asshole first, i wouldnt have looked his direction.

Posted by: boanna May 8 2006, 01:28 PM

QUOTE(boanna @ May 8 2006, 11:27 AM)
not all true...for me.  i married a nice guy, he wasnt. he was a closet asshole. just waited till he "got me" to go back to what he knew best.  if he was the asshole first, i wouldnt have looked his direction.
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now someone needs to stop this thread in its tracks. we come here for fun, to escape the real world. stuff like this needs to be kept for personal messages.

Posted by: UncleBuck May 8 2006, 01:33 PM

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Posted by: boanna May 8 2006, 01:39 PM

QUOTE(UncleBuck @ May 8 2006, 11:33 AM)
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i dont like the beatles buck!!!

Posted by: johnfreak May 8 2006, 01:40 PM

QUOTE(boanna @ May 8 2006, 02:28 PM)
now someone needs to stop this thread in its tracks.  we come here for fun, to escape the real world.  stuff like this needs to be kept for personal messages.
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lol, you quote yourself, reported your own post, you crack me up babe.. this is actually a good board topic.


for the record, you are all talking about stereotypes... none of which can always apply to all situations..

if you are a guy and you date a gold digger, a girl looking to trap you, etc... it's your own fault, presents and all that other shit are just meant to compliment relationships, not to create them, if you rely on presents to find girls to date/marry, WTF do you expect.

And if you are a girl who likes dating assholes, don't complain about the asshole you're dating or married to... you picked him nah.gif

Posted by: boanna May 8 2006, 01:43 PM

QUOTE(johnfreak @ May 8 2006, 11:40 AM)
lol, you quote yourself, reported your own post, you crack me up babe..  this is actually a good board topic.
for the record, you are all talking about stereotypes...  none of which can always apply to all situations..

if you are a guy and you date a gold digger, a girl looking to trap you, etc...  it's your own fault, presents and all that other shit are just meant to compliment relationships, not to create them, if you  rely on presents to find girls to date/marry, WTF do you expect.

And if you are a girl who likes dating assholes, don't complain about the asshole you're dating or married to... you picked him  nah.gif
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boanna always quotes and reports herself...duh! why would i report without leaving my 2 cents first?

and for your little 2 cents here john...i didnt pick the asshole. u are wrong there too. but gee...thanks for such a speedy reply!

Posted by: Assfucker May 8 2006, 01:44 PM

For whatever reason the younger girls go for the dickheads and the older chicks, who've gotten burned countless times, go for the nicer guys.....I don't get it. coz.gif














Personaly, I'm an asshole, but the last person I'm gonna ba an asshole to, is the person sucking my dick wink.gif

Posted by: boanna May 8 2006, 01:45 PM

QUOTE(boanna @ May 8 2006, 11:43 AM)
boanna always quotes and reports herself...duh! why would i report without leaving my 2 cents first? 

and for your little 2 cents here john...i didnt pick the asshole.  u are wrong there too.   but gee...thanks for such a speedy reply!
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look...boannas quoting her own ass!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: Assfucker May 8 2006, 01:45 PM

QUOTE(boanna @ May 8 2006, 01:45 PM)
look...boannas quoting her own ass!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I've quoted it twice already smilio05.gif

Posted by: boanna May 8 2006, 01:46 PM

QUOTE(Assfucker @ May 8 2006, 11:44 AM)
For whatever reason the younger girls go for the dickheads and the older chicks, who've gotten burned countless times, go for the nicer guys.....I don't get it. coz.gif
Personaly, I'm an asshole, but the last person I'm gonna ba an asshole to, is the person sucking my dick wink.gif
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there u go..thats all we ask for. be nice to me, be a fucker to the rest of the world. smile.gif love-smiley-052.gif

Posted by: Assfucker May 8 2006, 01:47 PM

QUOTE(boanna @ May 8 2006, 01:46 PM)
there u go..thats all we ask for.  be nice to me, be a fucker to the rest of the world.   smile.gif  wub.gif
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beh, thats what my wife says too, but I think she wishes I was nicer to others dry.gif

Posted by: boanna May 8 2006, 01:49 PM

QUOTE(Assfucker @ May 8 2006, 11:47 AM)
beh, thats what my wife says too, but I think she wishes I was nicer to others dry.gif
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just be nice to others while we are watching.... smile.gif

Posted by: Assfucker May 8 2006, 02:03 PM

QUOTE(boanna @ May 8 2006, 01:49 PM)
just be nice to others while we are watching.... smile.gif
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grinning-smiley-003.gif good tip

Posted by: bondiguy May 9 2006, 01:47 AM

QUOTE(ddd35 @ May 8 2006, 06:26 AM)
sounds like sombody has lived  a bad marriage to me  sorry     popc1.gif
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How wrong u are... You have no idea about me so shut the fuck up! I am just trying to convey the fact that endless gifts and material signs of affection will not get someone who does not love you to love you.


QUOTE(diane26 @ May 8 2006, 12:40 PM)
Actually Bondi not wrong, one I was being sarcastic Two if the woman doesn't like him doing nice things and rather him be a jerk to her than she has issues, wether it be not loving him anymore or self issues there is IN FACT something going on.
PERIOD
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Why does this woman have issues? Maybe she does not love him now/anymore/ever. All the flowers in the world will not change her mind.... that is my opinion or at least 1 possibility. I do not think you can say the woman has issues without knowing the full story

PERIOD

Posted by: diane26 May 9 2006, 01:56 AM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 8 2006, 10:47 PM)
How wrong u are... You have no idea about me so shut the fuck up! I am just trying to convey the fact that endless gifts and material signs of affection will not get someone who does not love you to love you.
Why does this woman have issues? Maybe she does not love him now/anymore/ever. All the flowers in the world will not change her mind.... that is my opinion or at least 1 possibility. I do not think you can say the woman has issues without knowing the full story

PERIOD
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Exactly it was your opinion so for you to quote my post and start off by saying WRONG!!!! was hmmmm whats the word???


By me just saying "she has issues" I was being a smartass most people here know not to take me serious or i should say no WHEN to take me serious. They get that I am a smartass 9 times out of ten.

I don't know the girl so the Issues was sarcasm.


BUT if you read what he said, he expressed that when he was nice to her she was not liking it but when he started being NOT NICE, she was nicer to him. As a woman, if you are pushing away kindness and LIKING somone treating you like a jackass I would venture to say SOMETHING is going on.


JUST SAYIN!!!!!

Posted by: diane26 May 9 2006, 02:00 AM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 8 2006, 10:47 PM)
How wrong u are... You have no idea about me so shut the fuck up! I am just trying to convey the fact that endless gifts and material signs of affection will not get someone who does not love you to love you.
Why does this woman have issues? Maybe she does not love him now/anymore/ever. All the flowers in the world will not change her mind.... that is my opinion or at least 1 possibility. I do not think you can say the woman has issues without knowing the full story

PERIOD
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Also Bondi what the fuck crawled up your ass??? You come here being a smartass and rude but than tell someone who gave it back to shut the fuck up cause they don't know you???

What made you the expert on saying this dudes wife doesn't love him anymore. You come right in telling him she don't love you blah blah blah are you Dr. Phill?? Have you interviewed them, than he replies and you get all anal WTF is that all about.


If you don't like this place so much why are you back??? Why not just stay at Puppet's board the one that doesn't exist supposedly?? I mean if you bring back the old fun loving bondi great but if this is what people BEGGED you to come back for than maybe they got issues too.

Just my opinion.

Posted by: ddd35 May 9 2006, 06:37 AM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 9 2006, 02:00 AM)
Also Bondi what the fuck crawled up your ass??? You come here being a smartass and rude but than tell someone who gave it back to shut the fuck up cause they don't know you???

What made you the expert on saying this dudes wife doesn't love him anymore. You come right in telling him she don't love you blah blah blah are you Dr. Phill?? Have you interviewed them, than he replies and you get all anal WTF is that all about.
If you don't like this place so much why are you back??? Why not just stay at Puppet's board the one that doesn't exist supposedly?? I mean if you bring back the old fun loving bondi great but if this is what people BEGGED you to come back for than maybe they got issues too.

Just my opinion.
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thank you Diane , its not a big deal to me at all . but I apreciate your comments , I have a very strong marriage its just were all different in many ways , in our needs and our wants and our beliefs , the point I was making was simple , I tried to buy affection and when it didnt work I switched to not being so material , Im not mean by anyways , I just quit buying her things at every wim , and I think our relationship as become much stronger because of it , and I know our sex life has gotton much better , but thank you very much Di for your kind comments . food-smiley-004.gif

Posted by: diane26 May 9 2006, 11:55 AM

QUOTE(ddd35 @ May 9 2006, 03:37 AM)
thank you Diane , its not a big deal to me  at all  .  but I apreciate your comments , I have a very strong marriage  its just were all different  in many ways , in our needs and our wants and our beliefs , the point I was making was simple  , I tried to buy  affection and when it didnt work I switched to not being so  material , Im not mean by anyways , I just quit buying her things at every wim , and I think our relationship as become much stronger because of it , and I know our sex life has gotton much better , but thank you very much Di  for your kind comments  . food-smiley-004.gif
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No problem some times newer people get UNDESERVED bashings it shocks me anyone sticks around that is new. Glad you didn't let it get to you.

Posted by: Assfucker May 9 2006, 11:58 AM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 9 2006, 02:00 AM)
Also Bondi what the fuck crawled up your ass??? You come here being a smartass and rude but than tell someone who gave it back to shut the fuck up cause they don't know you???

What made you the expert on saying this dudes wife doesn't love him anymore. You come right in telling him she don't love you blah blah blah are you Dr. Phill?? Have you interviewed them, than he replies and you get all anal WTF is that all about.
If you don't like this place so much why are you back??? Why not just stay at Puppet's board the one that doesn't exist supposedly?? I mean if you bring back the old fun loving bondi great but if this is what people BEGGED you to come back for than maybe they got issues too.

Just my opinion.
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Posted by: COMEDYMAN May 9 2006, 12:53 PM

I have said this a hundred times ... but what's a hundred and one biggrin.gif


The reason Bad boys and assholeish dudes get the girls is that the asshole personality conveys a confidence about them. Girls dig that confidence.

The lovely ladies of RMM can back me up here ...

Which guy would you go out with at first....

1. A good looking guy who came right up to you and threw a few choice compliments and was sure of himself not to the point of arrogance but took charge somewhat.

or....

2. A good looking guy who barely looked at you due to shyness who made awkward passes to the point of personal embarassment and stammered and stumbled in the first contact speak to you.


#1 and #2 are the same dude but with different approaches.

#1 and #2 have same cock size, sexual ability and etc. but which one would you want to fuck first? biggrin.gif

#1 will usually turn out to be an asshole once you get to know him while #2 could be a price charming but would you even bother trying to get to know him?


Discuss biggrin.gif

Posted by: foxy lady May 9 2006, 12:58 PM

QUOTE(COMEDYMAN @ May 9 2006, 12:53 PM)
I have said this a hundred times ... but what's a hundred and one biggrin.gif
The reason Bad boys and assholeish dudes get the girls is that the asshole personality conveys a confidence about them.  Girls dig that confidence.  

The lovely ladies of RMM can back me up here ...

Which guy would you go out with at first....

1.  A good looking guy who came right up to you and threw a few choice compliments and was sure of himself not to the point of arrogance but took charge somewhat.

or....

2. A good looking guy who barely looked at you due to shyness who made awkward passes to the point of personal embarassment and stammered and stumbled in the first contact speak to you.
#1 and #2 are the same dude but with different approaches.

#1 and #2 have same cock size, sexual ability and etc.  but which one would you want to fuck first? biggrin.gif

#1 will usually turn out to be an asshole once you get to know him while #2 could be a price charming but would you even bother trying to get to know him?
Discuss biggrin.gif
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Ummm.....Can I have both..... laughing-smiley-014.gif

Posted by: Assfucker May 9 2006, 12:59 PM

QUOTE(foxy lady @ May 9 2006, 12:58 PM)
Ummm.....Can I have both..... laughing-smiley-014.gif
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at the same time? popc1.gif

Posted by: foxy lady May 9 2006, 01:00 PM

QUOTE(Assfucker @ May 9 2006, 12:59 PM)
at the same time? popc1.gif
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Posted by: diane26 May 9 2006, 01:01 PM

QUOTE(COMEDYMAN @ May 9 2006, 09:53 AM)
I have said this a hundred times ... but what's a hundred and one biggrin.gif
The reason Bad boys and assholeish dudes get the girls is that the asshole personality conveys a confidence about them.  Girls dig that confidence.  

The lovely ladies of RMM can back me up here ...

Which guy would you go out with at first....

1.  A good looking guy who came right up to you and threw a few choice compliments and was sure of himself not to the point of arrogance but took charge somewhat.

or....

2. A good looking guy who barely looked at you due to shyness who made awkward passes to the point of personal embarassment and stammered and stumbled in the first contact speak to you.
#1 and #2 are the same dude but with different approaches.

#1 and #2 have same cock size, sexual ability and etc.  but which one would you want to fuck first? biggrin.gif

#1 will usually turn out to be an asshole once you get to know him while #2 could be a price charming but would you even bother trying to get to know him?
Discuss biggrin.gif
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You are right C man, but there is a line between a confident guy and a real asshole. I have been with all of the above.

A woman also can feel protected by a guy you know wont take shit, like with my husband he was always that asshole guy and more than just confident, but one thing I liked about him always is I know he would never let a guy disrespect me without kicking his ass.

I have seen him get in about 6 physical fights since being together about 5 of those was from a guy disrespecting me. HE also loves to fight.

But as I got older I decided allthough I like some of the pluses of that jerk of a guy the bad parts far outwieghed the good and I was no longer willing to put up with that, I would much rather have the nice romantic guy now.

Still dont want a puss especially for my personality I need a guy that is not a puss BUT I dont want to have the constant fighting and I want to feel truly loved.


That is when you hope as you get older the man your with matures also my husband started going to therapy to cope with me leaving him cause he was having a really hard time with it unlike I have ever seen he has always been such a manly man but he was having a total mental breakdown with me leaving, anyway he started therapy try and cope with it better and it has changed him a LOT I am now seeing a side of him I have never seen before that NICE GUY side and it is really nice, he still goes to therapy which is good cause he has a lot of issues from growing up I have always known about and its about time he has finally realized this and got help, but he has been romantic and nice and I dunno for a woman and for me it sure is a lot nice to feel like you are your husbands number 1.

Posted by: COMEDYMAN May 9 2006, 01:06 PM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 9 2006, 01:01 PM)
You are right C man, but there is a line between a confident guy and a real asshole. I have been with all of the above.

A woman also can feel protected by a guy you know wont take shit, like with my husband he was always that asshole guy and more than just confident, but one thing I liked about him always is I know he would never let a guy disrespect me without kicking his ass.

I have seen him get in about 6 physical fights since being together about 5 of those was from a guy disrespecting me. HE also loves to fight.

But as I got older I decided allthough I like some of the pluses of that jerk of a guy the bad parts far outwieghed the good and I was no longer willing to put up with that, I would much rather have the nice romantic guy now.

Still dont want a puss especially for my personality I need a guy that is not a puss BUT I dont want to have the constant fighting and I want to feel truly loved.
That is when you hope as you get older the man your with matures also my husband started going to therapy to cope with me leaving him cause he was having a really hard time with it unlike I have ever seen he has always been such a manly man but he was having a total mental breakdown with me leaving, anyway he started therapy try and cope with it better and it has changed him a LOT I am now seeing a side of him I have never seen before that NICE GUY side and it is really nice, he still goes to therapy which is good cause he has a lot of issues from growing up I have always known about and its about time he has finally realized this and got help, but he has been romantic and nice and I dunno for a woman and for me it sure is a lot nice to feel like you are your husbands number 1.
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Well cool hon love-smiley-077.gif

That is usually the undercoating of the asshole personality too.... its a front... Im glad your hubby is coming to terms with whatever was fucking with him from his past.

so you will get a combo of #1 and #2 now... a confident #1 with a soft side #2 biggrin.gif

Posted by: UncleBuck May 9 2006, 02:08 PM

QUOTE(COMEDYMAN @ May 9 2006, 12:53 PM)
I have said this a hundred times ... but what's a hundred and one biggrin.gif
The reason Bad boys and assholeish dudes get the girls is that the asshole personality conveys a confidence about them.  Girls dig that confidence.  

The lovely ladies of RMM can back me up here ...

Which guy would you go out with at first....

1.  A good looking guy who came right up to you and threw a few choice compliments and was sure of himself not to the point of arrogance but took charge somewhat.

or....

2. A good looking guy who barely looked at you due to shyness who made awkward passes to the point of personal embarassment and stammered and stumbled in the first contact speak to you.
#1 and #2 are the same dude but with different approaches.

#1 and #2 have same cock size, sexual ability and etc.  but which one would you want to fuck first? biggrin.gif

#1 will usually turn out to be an asshole once you get to know him while #2 could be a price charming but would you even bother trying to get to know him?
Discuss biggrin.gif
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I think you should add to that Cman

#1 looks like he has no money as he is digging for change to buy a drink

#2 pulls out a wad of cash and buys a round because he is a nice guy but shy and loaded.

I think nowadays finiancal security counts alot in relationships
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Posted by: ddd35 May 9 2006, 02:18 PM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 9 2006, 11:55 AM)
No problem some times newer people get UNDESERVED bashings it shocks me anyone sticks around that is new. Glad you didn't let it get to you.
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When i came to this board i realized quickly that there are nice people and there are not so nice people and the thing that i usually find is that the younger the person and less experienced in life they are the not so nice they become , I guess in my 40 yrs i have done several things that most havent , so we move on and enjoy the day as it may be our last .. Take great care lovely lady and thanks for sticking up for me , you dont find that very often this day and age ..

Posted by: Assfucker May 9 2006, 02:23 PM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 9 2006, 11:55 AM)
No problem some times newer people get UNDESERVED bashings it shocks me anyone sticks around that is new. Glad you didn't let it get to you.
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You should see where I came from guns.gif









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Posted by: natalie May 9 2006, 05:02 PM

QUOTE(COMEDYMAN @ May 9 2006, 12:53 PM)
I have said this a hundred times ... but what's a hundred and one biggrin.gif
The reason Bad boys and assholeish dudes get the girls is that the asshole personality conveys a confidence about them.  Girls dig that confidence.  

The lovely ladies of RMM can back me up here ...

Which guy would you go out with at first....

1.  A good looking guy who came right up to you and threw a few choice compliments and was sure of himself not to the point of arrogance but took charge somewhat.

or....

2. A good looking guy who barely looked at you due to shyness who made awkward passes to the point of personal embarassment and stammered and stumbled in the first contact speak to you.
#1 and #2 are the same dude but with different approaches.

#1 and #2 have same cock size, sexual ability and etc.  but which one would you want to fuck first? biggrin.gif

#1 will usually turn out to be an asshole once you get to know him while #2 could be a price charming but would you even bother trying to get to know him?
Discuss biggrin.gif
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Because I generally don't trust people, especially people I don't know and, sorry, mostly of all a guy who I don't know that likes me, I would go for neither. I have to know someone somewhat before I'll even consider it and even then I'm warry. I've had guys who I've seen quite a few times in the period of a year who don't know I'm married ask me out and right away my first response even before I remember I'm married is no. I don't think I could ever be a one night stand kind of girl because of that. I'd be nervous the whole time that he was going to turn into a jerk, hold me against my will, I'd get stranded or worst of all raped. The guys who always got the girls because they were hot or confident or whatever always turned me off. Oh I'd hope they liked me or at least thought I was attractive but other than that nothing. I don't think I've gone for the bad-boy type. But that's just me. confused-smiley-013.gif

Posted by: diane26 May 9 2006, 05:19 PM

QUOTE(ddd35 @ May 9 2006, 11:18 AM)
When i came to this board i realized quickly that there are nice people and there are not so nice people and the thing that i usually find is that the younger the person  and less experienced in life  they are the not so nice they become  ,  I guess in my 40 yrs i have done several things that most havent  , so we move on and enjoy the day as it may be our last    ..   Take great care  lovely lady  and thanks for  sticking up for me  , you dont find that very often this day and age  ..
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No problem it is who I am, I am young only 26, 27 this year but I have gone through a whole shit load of stuff in my life so I think it has seriously aged me LOL

But I agree I notice more in younger men I think also it has to do with a cockyness they have and Im better than the world attitude want to think they have a high statue in this world to make them feel they are worth something.

That is what I have seen a lot anyway out and about in real world and online. Anyway welcome to the board and heres to hopping you stick around food-smiley-004.gif

Posted by: diane26 May 9 2006, 05:21 PM

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QUOTE(Assfucker @ May 9 2006, 11:23 AM)
You should see where I came from guns.gif
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Did you come from blows???


I seen sites where it is just constant flaming. Not really my thing I like to have real conversation and debates and stuff so I usually take a left at those boards, LOL tongue.gif

Posted by: ddd35 May 9 2006, 05:22 PM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 9 2006, 05:19 PM)
No problem it is who I am, I am young only 26, 27 this year but I have gone through a whole shit load of stuff in my life so I think it has seriously aged me LOL

But I agree I notice more in younger men I think also it has to do with a cockyness they have and Im better than the world attitude want to think they have a high statue in this world to make them feel they are worth something.

That is what I have seen a lot anyway out and about in real world and online. Anyway welcome to the board and heres to hopping you stick around food-smiley-004.gif
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WEll Im planning on staying a good lady friend of mine invited me here and ive stayed and I get to see her pics as well so its all worth it , You are very mature for 27 my dear and sexy as hell I might add .. food-smiley-004.gif back at ya

Posted by: diane26 May 9 2006, 05:26 PM

QUOTE(ddd35 @ May 9 2006, 02:22 PM)
WEll Im planning on staying  a good lady friend of mine invited me here and ive stayed  and I get to see her  pics as well  so its all worth it  ,  You are very  mature for  27 my dear and sexy as hell I might add  .. food-smiley-004.gif   back at ya
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Posted by: ddd35 May 9 2006, 05:28 PM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 9 2006, 05:21 PM)
tongue.gif
Did you come from blows???
I seen sites where it is just constant flaming. Not really my thing I like to have real conversation and debates and stuff so I usually take a left at those boards, LOL tongue.gif
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no not really just met a few nice ladies at a another boob site and they invited me here as it was more chat oriented , But I know what ya mean some of the sites are really bad and the guys get really mean at times trying to impress the ladies drinkup.gif

Posted by: ddd35 May 9 2006, 05:29 PM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 9 2006, 05:26 PM)
love-smiley-077.gif  smilio05.gif
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that blush makes you even more sexy my dear smilio12.gif

Posted by: bondiguy May 10 2006, 02:14 AM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 9 2006, 02:00 AM)
Also Bondi what the fuck crawled up your ass??? You come here being a smartass and rude but than tell someone who gave it back to shut the fuck up cause they don't know you???

What made you the expert on saying this dudes wife doesn't love him anymore. You come right in telling him she don't love you blah blah blah are you Dr. Phill?? Have you interviewed them, than he replies and you get all anal WTF is that all about.
If you don't like this place so much why are you back??? Why not just stay at Puppet's board the one that doesn't exist supposedly?? I mean if you bring back the old fun loving bondi great but if this is what people BEGGED you to come back for than maybe they got issues too.

Just my opinion.
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I DID not give that dude an undeserved bashing because he was a newbie, but because he was an idiot!

I game him my opinion on the matter and he turns around and says, "sounds like someone has a failed marriage" or some shit like that! How on earth would he know? What makes your opinion better than mine? Also, have the guts to stand by your convictions. I am all for making jokes but when a serious topic is being debated and someone calls you out, all you have to fall back on is, "I was just kidding. Anyone who knows me knows I joke 9 out of 10 times blah blah blah.

If U don't want me around just say the word? I feel you are lashing out due to an unfounded sense of rejection

You seem to be the unsung leader for the little people around here and that is just fine... whatever floats your boat!

Posted by: diane26 May 10 2006, 02:32 AM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 9 2006, 11:14 PM)
I DID not give that dude an undeserved bashing because he was a newbie, but because he was an idiot!

I game him my opinion on the matter and he turns around and says, "sounds like someone has a failed marriage" or some shit like that! How on earth would he know? What makes your opinion better than mine? Also, have the guts to stand by your convictions. I am all for making jokes but when a serious topic is being debated and someone calls you out, all you have to fall back on is, "I was just kidding. Anyone who knows me knows I joke 9 out of 10 times blah blah blah.

If U don't want me around just say the word? I feel you are lashing out due to an unfounded sense of rejection

You seem to be the unsung leader for the little people around here and that is just fine... whatever floats your boat!
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Oh now this is just funny Bondi you are quite the hypocrite now ain't cha??

When someone is stating there opinion they usually give the connotation that it is in fact there opinion, you posted it very matter of fact much in the same manner you quoted my post saying WRONG!!!!! It was not as an opinion. Who are you to classify who is an idiot and who is not??

I am rather good at standing by my convictions Bondi, I like to "Keep it real" I don't understand why people feel the need to lie. That is when I lost a bit of respect for you, well that and the fact that you can be very mean and rude to people. When you come out calling people Retards and Idiots and whatever other names you call them, sorry but where I am from that sort of stuff isn't tolerated. Grown people find another way of expressing themselves than by calling people vile names.

Lashing out due to an unfounded rejection???? Ummmm what is this about?? Please by all means clue me in.


Who are the "little people" Bondi?? The ones with less posts than you??? This is a Message Board this is the net this is not real life and many posts is not a status symbol, Being a Board Whore (self included) does not make you better than anyone else here.

I mean I hate to let you in on this little secret but you thoughts and opinion's are merely that not what the rest of the world is thinking and they are not below you if they feel differently.

I never said my opinion was BETTER than yours if you took it that way thats on you not me.

You being here is not up to me its up to you, IMO though I rather you not be here if you are just gonna be a jackass. But if you stay and continue to be a jerk I will continue to speak out on it if I feel it was uncalled for whether you think that is me sticking up for the little people or not.

Much like I thought the level johnny wadd took things was uncalled for and I had your back at that time.

Since you been back you have made a few nice posts and a lot of This is why I left blah blah blah well news flash Left is past tense you are still here so you didn't leave, so why are you gonna be here bitching about the board?? If you don't like the board here and the people on it than don't keep us from keeping you from running back to "the board that doesn't exist" I still don't understand why the lying and secretiveness about it to begin with.

Just sayin

By the way DDD obviously new I was being a smartass in my post, not my fault your tone detector is broke. love-smiley-077.gif

Posted by: natalie May 10 2006, 04:13 PM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 10 2006, 02:32 AM)
Oh now this is just funny Bondi you are quite the hypocrite now ain't cha??

When someone is stating there opinion they usually give the connotation that it is in fact there opinion, you posted it very matter of fact much in the same manner you quoted my post saying WRONG!!!!! It was not as an opinion. Who are you to classify who is an idiot and who is not??

I am rather good at standing by my convictions Bondi, I like to "Keep it real" I don't understand why people feel the need to lie. That is when I lost a bit of respect for you, well that and the fact that you can be very mean and rude to people. When you come out calling people Retards and Idiots and whatever other names you call them, sorry but where I am from that sort of stuff isn't tolerated.  Grown people find another way of expressing themselves than by calling people vile names.

Lashing out due to an unfounded rejection???? Ummmm what is this about?? Please by all means clue me in.
Who are the "little people" Bondi?? The ones with less posts than you??? This is a Message Board this is the net this is not real life and many posts is not a status symbol, Being a Board Whore (self included) does not make you better than anyone else here.

I mean I hate to let you in on this little secret but you thoughts and opinion's are merely that not what the rest of the world is thinking and they are not below you if they feel differently.

I never said my opinion was BETTER than yours if you took it that way thats on you not me.

You being here is not up to me its up to you, IMO though I rather you not be here if you are just gonna be a jackass. But if you stay and continue to be a jerk I will continue to speak out on it if I feel it was uncalled for whether you think that is me sticking up for the little people or not.

Much like I thought the level johnny wadd took things was uncalled for and I had your back at that time.

Since you been back you have made a few nice posts and a lot of This is why I left blah blah blah well news flash Left is past tense you are still here so you didn't leave, so why are you gonna be here bitching about the board?? If you don't like the board here and the people on it than don't keep us from keeping you from running back to "the board that doesn't exist" I still don't understand why the lying and secretiveness about it to begin with.

Just sayin

By the way DDD obviously new I was being a smartass in my post, not my fault your tone detector is broke.  love-smiley-077.gif
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I do agree that you resort to name calling or slamming a lot lately Bondi. I don't care what you think justified it. I have seen no reason to resort to name calling. You want everyone to accept your oppinions and somehow they are jerks if they don't but it does seem like you don't show that same respect to everyone else. And Diane you know I love ya but the other board thing needs to be let go.

Posted by: diane26 May 10 2006, 04:19 PM

QUOTE(natalie @ May 10 2006, 01:13 PM)
I do agree that you resort to name calling or slamming a lot lately Bondi. I don't care what you think justified it. I have seen no reason to resort to name calling. You want everyone to accept your oppinions and somehow they are jerks if they don't but it does seem like you don't show that same respect to everyone else. And Diane you know I love ya but the other board thing needs to be let go.
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Friend Nat I only brought up the other board cause that is what Bondi had lied to me about and when I lost respect for him, and cause he keeps bringing up why he left than why is he here and not staying there?? That's all.

I post at many boards and own 2 myself so I don't care where he posts at just keep it real no need to lie.

That is all (( don't tell gnappy I said that)) nah.gif

Posted by: natalie May 10 2006, 04:21 PM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 10 2006, 04:19 PM)
Friend Nat I only brought up the other board cause that is what Bondi had lied to me about and when I lost respect for him, and cause he keeps bringing up why he left than why is he here and not staying there?? That's all.

I post at many boards and own 2 myself so I don't care where he posts at just keep it real no need to lie.

That is all (( don't tell gnappy I said that)) nah.gif
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ooooh I'm so telling. ph34r.gif





nah.gif

Posted by: diane26 May 10 2006, 04:41 PM

QUOTE(natalie @ May 10 2006, 01:21 PM)
ooooh I'm so telling. ph34r.gif
nah.gif
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Hey someone was posting as me WTF ohmy.gif

















ph34r.gif nah.gif

Posted by: Bobaloo May 10 2006, 04:43 PM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 10 2006, 04:41 PM)
Hey someone was posting as me WTF ohmy.gif
ph34r.gif  nah.gif
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It was me! laughing-smiley-017.gif <--- sinister laugh

Posted by: ontippytoes May 11 2006, 12:31 AM

QUOTE(desibaba @ May 3 2006, 12:12 AM)
After going out with many girls in my life and getting close to 23 yrs of age i have come to one conclusion.Forget all the crap you have learnt from bollywood n hollywood.Forget the sitting at a girl's feet and begging like a dog.Why? Because its the most self destructive thing you can do.For some reason i have seen most girls run away pretty fast when you give them presents,flowers and too many compliments.I guess the reason is they want a guy who's a CHALLENGE.Someone whos nice but at the same time lets them know that hes doing THEM a favor instead of going out with them instead of the other way around.In my experience all the girls i have dated i noticed the ones i was really nice to,gave the flowers and gifts to,Not to mention the compliments were the first ones who dumped me.And then the ones i didnt spend much money on,Never was the first to touch, and gave them the feeling that "i dont care if you like me or not" were the ones who were attracted to me the most.Anyone else agree with that? Girls like guys who are a challenge???
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Ever heard of Tom Leykis? Leykis 101? Google this if you're not familiar. Chicks don't want nice guys...when it comes to dating. BUT...when it comes to marrying, chicks want the nice, family-guy. Yes...females are screwed up and confused.

Posted by: numba1fan May 11 2006, 12:32 AM

but at least some are brutally honest smile.gif

Posted by: ontippytoes May 11 2006, 12:39 AM

QUOTE(numba1fan @ May 11 2006, 12:32 AM)
but at least some are brutally honest smile.gif
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Moi? Brutally honest? Never!! LMFAO!!!

Posted by: numba1fan May 11 2006, 12:41 AM

QUOTE(ontippytoes @ May 11 2006, 12:39 AM)
Moi?  Brutally honest?  Never!!  LMFAO!!!
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Its the way everyone should be, if your not confident enough to say what your brain is thinking whats the point.

For instance, tippytoes is a super hot, sexy girl with an amazing profile of boobie pics. love-smiley-085.gif love-smiley-085.gif

Posted by: ontippytoes May 11 2006, 12:44 AM

QUOTE(numba1fan @ May 11 2006, 12:41 AM)
Its the way everyone should be, if your not confident enough to say what your brain is thinking whats the point.

For instance, tippytoes is a super hot, sexy girl with an amazing profile of boobie pics. love-smiley-085.gif  love-smiley-085.gif
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Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 12:52 AM

QUOTE(ontippytoes @ May 10 2006, 09:31 PM)
Ever heard of Tom Leykis?  Leykis 101?  Google this if you're not familiar.  Chicks don't want nice guys...when it comes to dating.  BUT...when it comes to marrying, chicks want the nice, family-guy.  Yes...females are screwed up and confused.
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So are men so things can even out they are just fucked up in other way laughing-smiley-014.gif

Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 12:53 AM

QUOTE(numba1fan @ May 10 2006, 09:41 PM)
Its the way everyone should be, if your not confident enough to say what your brain is thinking whats the point.

For instance, tippytoes is a super hot, sexy girl with an amazing profile of boobie pics. love-smiley-085.gif  love-smiley-085.gif
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I am far to shy to ever be brutaly honest nah.gif

Posted by: ontippytoes May 11 2006, 01:00 AM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 11 2006, 12:53 AM)
I am far to shy to ever be brutaly honest nah.gif
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*cough, choke*

Posted by: bondiguy May 11 2006, 01:14 AM

I have not time for this back and forth... If people offend me I will call them names. If you think I am immature... I really do not care.

I do not care what you think of me, my actions or my morals.

EVERY post here is opinion so saying I posted fact is just laughable.

As you can see I am normally a happy fun loving type person but I can turn very quickly when people offend me in whatever way. I do not and never have pretended to be the RMM God and I would never want to be.

The reason I did comeback is because there are a few people here that asked me to and a few others i really dig...I missed chatting with them. If you don't like it, I don't care.

Posted by: bondiguy May 11 2006, 01:16 AM

QUOTE(natalie @ May 10 2006, 04:13 PM)
I do agree that you resort to name calling or slamming a lot lately Bondi. I don't care what you think justified it. I have seen no reason to resort to name calling. You want everyone to accept your oppinions and somehow they are jerks if they don't but it does seem like you don't show that same respect to everyone else.
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Natalie,

I do not care if people don't accept or agree WITH my opinions, just that they recognise them AS opinions... What people want to think, feel and believe is totally up to them.

-bondiguy

Posted by: ontippytoes May 11 2006, 01:17 AM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 11 2006, 01:14 AM)
I have not time for this back and forth... If people offend me I will call them names. If you think I am immature... I really do not care.

I do not care what you think of me, my actions or my morals.

EVERY post here is opinion so saying I posted fact is just laughable.

As you can see I am normally a happy fun loving type person but I can turn very quickly when people offend me in whatever way. I do not and never have pretended to be the RMM God and I would never want to be.

The reason I did comeback is because there are a few people here that asked me to and a few others i really dig...I missed chatting with them. If you don't like it, I don't care.
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coz.gif Guess I missed something.

Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 01:33 AM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 10 2006, 10:14 PM)
I have not time for this back and forth... If people offend me I will call them names. If you think I am immature... I really do not care.

I do not care what you think of me, my actions or my morals.

EVERY post here is opinion so saying I posted fact is just laughable.

As you can see I am normally a happy fun loving type person but I can turn very quickly when people offend me in whatever way. I do not and never have pretended to be the RMM God and I would never want to be.

The reason I did comeback is because there are a few people here that asked me to and a few others i really dig...I missed chatting with them. If you don't like it, I don't care.
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If you don't care than don't respond and why did you ask me if I wanted you here if you didn't care.

Read what you say bondi it is very hypocritcal let me guess you know but you don't care right???

Your posts show that you obviously care and since you have been back you have been far from fun loving, and my god if you only call names when you get offended than maybe you need to learn to not get so offended so often cause damn if you aint always calling someone some sort of vile name.

I mean can you imagine if we all did that?????


You offended me your a retard your a fucking idiot, you said blue was your favorite color when mine is pink you fucking dicksucker.

Yeah that would go over real well, I suppose you will learn that when you grow up I guess or hope at least. I surely hope it is just an online thing and you don't go around calling names to every real person that has offended you by having different opinions.

Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 01:38 AM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 10 2006, 10:16 PM)
Natalie,

I do not care if people don't accept or agree WITH my opinions, just that they recognise them AS opinions... What people want to think, feel and believe is totally up to them.

-bondiguy
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Just some friendly advice, if this is how you feel than you should give others the same respect and also maybe go about typing things in away that express an opionion and not type them in a way you would express fact.

An example

My car is black

Read as a fact.......


I think my car is black

Read as an opinion. ................


You're an ugly bastard

Read as a fact..........

I think you're an ugly bastard.

Read as a opinion............


Just trying to help them little people love-smiley-077.gif

Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 01:42 AM

QUOTE(ontippytoes @ May 10 2006, 10:17 PM)
coz.gif   Guess I missed something.
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Here I will recap,


A lot of the oldies didn't like all the new people so someone started another board so they didn't have to deal with the "noobs"

One by one the oldies started leaving for various reasons, but all ended up at this other board, bondi was one of the last.

A few have come back and posted with people and this and that, Bondi came back and started bitching about the "noobs" and how that is why he left, started calling people out as idiots and retards and how this is why he left, I finally said something about it all in this post, Bondi doesn't care cause he doesn't care about what anyone thinks and he came back by popular demand. I am guessing it wasn't by the "noobs".....


Anyway that is the up to date cliff note version..........Any other questions talk to my PR agent nah.gif

Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 01:42 AM

QUOTE(ontippytoes @ May 10 2006, 10:00 PM)
*cough, choke*
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I told you not to try deep throating Numba dry.gif

Posted by: bondiguy May 11 2006, 01:44 AM

When I grow up? What are you... a year older? Jesus I am in for a ride over this next year!

A difference of opinion is hardly the same as offending me... you really are clutching at straws. If someone says their fav colour is pink but mine is blue, no, I do not call them retards.

I know you thrive on this sort of thing, it is what you do and hey, whatever rocks ur boat. I mean if it helps you sleep at night knowing that you are so righteous, never call anyone a bad name and stick up for 'new members' on internet forum boards then thats fucking ace

Posted by: bondiguy May 11 2006, 01:48 AM

Show me where I specifically bitched about noobs apart from those idiots who create duplicate threads or those who just down right piss me off? I would have said that to someone who had been here a year, a month, a day, a fucking decade.

You really are an idiot.

That jackass guy or whatever his name was is relatively new, did I call him names? No, because he seems like a great guy.

Bobaloo was new not so long ago but did I call him a retard or a fuckwit? No, because he isnt one.

If anyone is displaying a holier than though attitude it is you my dear.

Posted by: ontippytoes May 11 2006, 01:49 AM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 11 2006, 01:42 AM)
Here I will recap,
A lot of the oldies didn't like all the new people so someone started another board so they didn't have to deal with the "noobs"

One by one the oldies started leaving for various reasons, but all ended up at this other board, bondi was one of the last.

A few have come back and posted with people and this and that, Bondi came back and started bitching about the "noobs" and how that is why he left, started calling people out as idiots and retards and how this is why he left, I finally said something about it all in this post, Bondi doesn't care cause he doesn't care about what anyone thinks and he came back by popular demand. I am guessing it wasn't by the "noobs".....
Anyway that is the up to date cliff note version..........Any other questions talk to my PR agent nah.gif
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Thanks Di. No comment at the moment.

Posted by: ontippytoes May 11 2006, 01:50 AM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 11 2006, 01:42 AM)
I told you not to try deep throating Numba dry.gif
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LOL!!! Practice makes perfect.

Posted by: bondiguy May 11 2006, 01:54 AM

Oh and Diane one more thing...

If you dislike my comments that much I have an easy solution for you. Click on My Controls, on the left hand panel menu click on Manage Ignored Users and simply add my name

the correct spelling of it is "bondiguy" all lower case, all one word. Just to make life easier for you

Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 01:58 AM

Bondi I should open a phychic hotline NOT ONLY did I know you would continue to post to me I also knew what you would come back with.

By growing up I was talking about maturity, not an age, and yes if you have to name call to every person that offends you than you need to grow up. You have no idea what I thrive on or what makes me sleep easier at night.

This is what people like you do, you can't come back with anything legit so now you are gonna try to act like you know me and what I am all about and make up assumptions on my life.

I stuck to your actions here, I don't pretend to know who you are off this board and in real life and what helps you sleep at night and so forth and so on.

I already know if I STOOPED to your level and did the same to you than you would really fly off the handle, but its not how I have to handle things anyway.

Ohhhhhh and how neat now I am an idiot as well. HAHAHAHA


You my friend crack me up.

As far as Boo I think it was just the other day you jumped all over his ass for a post he made that said NOT ONE WORD REGARDING BONDI, than you say what a jackass you were for doing so **rare occasion** and apologized.

Just because someone makes a thread that you don't like doesn't mean you have to act 6 **its what my 6 year old does at time so I am guessing that is the prime age for this behavior** and tell them they are dumb or an idiot or a retard or there thread is stupid blah blah blah blah.


Accept that not everyone is gonna be like you.


Now bondi since I know how much you don't care and all that Jazz and I have said my share and expressed my thoughts in an ADULT MANNER without stooping to lower levels, I am done, you can have the last thought love-smiley-077.gif

Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 02:00 AM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 10 2006, 10:54 PM)
Oh and Diane one more thing...

If you dislike my comments that much I have an easy solution for you. Click on My Controls, on the left hand panel menu click on Manage Ignored Users and simply add my name

the correct spelling of it is "bondiguy" all lower case, all one word. Just to make life easier for you
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It's ok since you don't ignore the posts you don't like than I wouldn't give me advice, it goes back to that whole hypocritical thing, glad we cleared that up.


Now on to the little people I <3 them soo.

Posted by: bondiguy May 11 2006, 02:03 AM

Oh rest assured Diane you will be added to my ignored list before I logg off today.

There was a reason you were excluded and you are showing it right now

Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 02:04 AM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 10 2006, 11:03 PM)
Oh rest assured Diane you will be added to my ignored list before I logg off today.

There was a reason you were excluded and you are showing it right now
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Posted by: ontippytoes May 11 2006, 02:55 AM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 11 2006, 02:03 AM)
Oh rest assured Diane you will be added to my ignored list before I logg off today.

There was a reason you were excluded and you are showing it right now
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coz.gif WTF? Bondi and Diane used to get along. WTF???

Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 02:57 AM

QUOTE(ontippytoes @ May 10 2006, 11:55 PM)
coz.gif WTF?  Bondi and Diane used to get along.  WTF???
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Posted by: Bobaloo May 11 2006, 12:19 PM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 11 2006, 01:33 AM)
If you don't care than don't respond and why did you ask me if I wanted you here if you didn't care.

Read what you say bondi it is very hypocritcal let me guess you know but you don't care right???

Your posts show that you obviously care and since you have been back you have been far from fun loving, and my god if you only call names when you get offended than maybe you need to learn to not get so offended so often cause damn if you aint always calling someone some sort of vile name.

I mean can you imagine if we all did that?????
You offended me your a retard your a fucking idiot, you said blue was your favorite color when mine is pink you fucking dicksucker.

Yeah that would go over real well, I suppose you will learn that when you grow up I guess or hope at least. I surely hope it is just an online thing and you don't go around calling names to every real person that has offended you by having different opinions.
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My favorite is fucktard. I mean, it just rolls off your tongue when you say it. Go ahead, give it a try. Fucktard. It's a great word.

I don't know if you came up with it bondi, but I hope you don't mind if I say it every once in a while. I know a few others have copyrights on their sayings and such.

Okay. That's all. I just wanted to interject something. I'm going to sit on the sidelines on this one and eat popcorn popc1.gif Sure with I had a popcorn pussy with me. smile.gif

Posted by: Assfucker May 11 2006, 12:30 PM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 11 2006, 01:33 AM)


I mean can you imagine if we all did that?????
You offended me your a retard your a fucking idiot, you said blue was your favorite color when mine is pink you fucking dicksucker.


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Posted by: foxy lady May 11 2006, 12:33 PM

QUOTE(Bobaloo @ May 11 2006, 12:19 PM)
My favorite is fucktard.  I mean, it just rolls off your tongue when you say it.  Go ahead, give it a try.  Fucktard.  It's a great word. 

I don't know if you came up with it bondi, but I hope you don't mind if I say it every once in a while.  I know a few others have copyrights on their sayings and such.

Okay.  That's all.  I just wanted to interject something.  I'm going to sit on the sidelines on this one and eat popcorn popc1.gif  Sure with I had a popcorn pussy with me.  smile.gif
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Popcorn pussy blink.gif

Haven't tried that approach yet coz.gif

**stuffing kernels in pussy......waits for popping to beging** popc1.gif

Posted by: Bobaloo May 11 2006, 12:46 PM

QUOTE(Assfucker @ May 11 2006, 12:30 PM)
It's You're
[/spelling nazi] nah.gif
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Well, maybe she owns a retard or a fucking idiot. Then she would be correct. laughing-smiley-017.gif

Posted by: Bobaloo May 11 2006, 12:51 PM

QUOTE(foxy lady @ May 11 2006, 12:33 PM)
Popcorn pussy blink.gif

Haven't tried that approach yet coz.gif

**stuffing kernels in pussy......waits for popping to beging** popc1.gif
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laughing-smiley-017.gif No, that would be pussy popcorn.

the popcorn pussy is a reference to a post & link that Gnappy put up a long time ago. very funny. Dont' remember excatly where it's at. If I get in the mood, I'll search for it and post teh link.

Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 04:09 PM

QUOTE(Bobaloo @ May 11 2006, 09:19 AM)
My favorite is fucktard.  I mean, it just rolls off your tongue when you say it.  Go ahead, give it a try.  Fucktard.  It's a great word. 

I don't know if you came up with it bondi, but I hope you don't mind if I say it every once in a while.  I know a few others have copyrights on their sayings and such.

Okay.  That's all.  I just wanted to interject something.  I'm going to sit on the sidelines on this one and eat popcorn popc1.gif  Sure with I had a popcorn pussy with me.  smile.gif
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I don't think bondi even said Fucktard I was just spewing out various names.

Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 04:11 PM

QUOTE(Assfucker @ May 11 2006, 09:30 AM)
It's You're
[/spelling nazi] nah.gif
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Yeah I know but on a boob message board I don't bother taking the time to proofread my posts, I mean not like I am turning in a paper for school I just hurry and type and send smile.gif

Posted by: natalie May 11 2006, 05:51 PM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 11 2006, 01:16 AM)
Natalie,

I do not care if people don't accept or agree WITH my opinions, just that they recognise them AS opinions... What people want to think, feel and believe is totally up to them.

-bondiguy
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Posted by: natalie May 11 2006, 06:01 PM

QUOTE(foxy lady @ May 11 2006, 12:33 PM)
Popcorn pussy blink.gif

Haven't tried that approach yet coz.gif

**stuffing kernels in pussy......waits for popping to beging** popc1.gif
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Posted by: Bobaloo May 11 2006, 06:28 PM

QUOTE(diane26 @ May 11 2006, 04:09 PM)
I don't think bondi even said Fucktard I was just spewing out various names.
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I know he's said fucktard before, a few times. I dont' remember when, though. You didn't reference the fucktard comment though. And, in fact, I think on at least one occasion the fucktard was completely warranted or at least a definite joke. He may have used fucktard in the queef thread fiasco but I'm not sure.

The word fucktard is all over this board. I just searched for it and about 10 threads popped up. FYI.

Posted by: Bobaloo May 11 2006, 06:31 PM

QUOTE(Bobaloo @ May 11 2006, 12:51 PM)
laughing-smiley-017.gif  No, that would be pussy popcorn. 

the popcorn pussy is a reference to a post & link that Gnappy put up a long time ago.  very funny.  Dont' remember excatly where it's at.  If I get in the mood, I'll search for it and post teh link.
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here's the post I was talking about. You should check out the thread and the link Gnappy posted. funny stuff

http://www.ratemymelons.com/chat/index.php?showtopic=553&view=findpost&p=58989

Posted by: ddd35 May 11 2006, 06:33 PM

okay okay I get it now were living out the theme of this thread women hate men that treat them bad or do they love them ? I have learned thus far that opinions are opinions and there just like assholes that evrybody has one , and some stink ! why cant we all just have a orgy and get along , it would be alot more fun

Posted by: diane26 May 11 2006, 06:47 PM

QUOTE(Bobaloo @ May 11 2006, 03:28 PM)
I know he's said fucktard before, a few times.  I dont' remember when, though.  You didn't  reference the fucktard comment though.  And, in fact, I think on at least one occasion the fucktard was completely warranted or at least a definite joke.  He may have used fucktard in the queef thread fiasco but I'm not sure.

The word fucktard is all over this board.  I just searched for it and about 10 threads popped up.  FYI.
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I dunno like I said I was just throwing in various names if the only way people can express themselves is to call vile names than they really need to grow up.

Its one thing to say someone is acting like something, like I have told a friend before she was ACTING like a bitch, but its another to just call people shit in anger cause you arent grown enough to handle yourself maturly.

Now in fun whatever.

Just my opinion.

Posted by: bondiguy May 12 2006, 04:29 AM

QUOTE(Bobaloo @ May 11 2006, 12:19 PM)
My favorite is fucktard.  I mean, it just rolls off your tongue when you say it.  Go ahead, give it a try.  Fucktard.  It's a great word. 

I don't know if you came up with it bondi, but I hope you don't mind if I say it every once in a while.  I know a few others have copyrights on their sayings and such.

Okay.  That's all.  I just wanted to interject something.  I'm going to sit on the sidelines on this one and eat popcorn popc1.gif  Sure with I had a popcorn pussy with me.  smile.gif
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Use away my friend! As long as you occasionaly attach my name with coming up with that word!


QUOTE(Bobaloo @ May 11 2006, 06:28 PM)
I know he's said fucktard before, a few times.  I dont' remember when, though.  You didn't  reference the fucktard comment though.  And, in fact, I think on at least one occasion the fucktard was completely warranted or at least a definite joke.  He may have used fucktard in the queef thread fiasco but I'm not sure.

The word fucktard is all over this board.  I just searched for it and about 10 threads popped up.  FYI.
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Once again spot on. There is/was some sort of swearing thread in shoot the breeze and a good way of coming up with effective swear words is by joining 2 together... i.e Fuck and Retard becomes Fucktard!!!

The word fuck has become ineffective!

Posted by: Bobaloo May 12 2006, 03:30 PM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 12 2006, 04:29 AM)
Use away my friend! As long as you occasionaly attach my name with coming up with that word!
Once again spot on. There is/was some sort of swearing thread in shoot the breeze and a good way of coming up with effective swear words is by joining 2 together... i.e Fuck and Retard becomes Fucktard!!!

The word fuck has become ineffective!
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Hmmm. A swearing thread??? I swear I've read (well at least looked at and skipped over) every post in every thread on this board and I just can't for the life of me remember a swearing thread. I'll have to check for it. I am sure I can add a little spice to that thread.

In addition to fucktard, I am also partial to fuckwad. I've said that one for quite a while.

But when all else fails, a well-placed "meanie-head" can make a person cry.

Posted by: diane26 May 12 2006, 07:41 PM

QUOTE(Bobaloo @ May 12 2006, 12:30 PM)
Hmmm.  A swearing thread???  I swear I've read (well at least looked at and skipped over) every post in every thread on this board and I just can't for the life of me remember a swearing thread.  I'll have to check for it.  I am sure I can add a little spice to that thread. 

In addition to fucktard, I am also partial to fuckwad.  I've said that one for quite a while. 

But when all else fails, a well-placed "meanie-head" can make a person cry.
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Yes it is in this forum somewhere I cant remember who started I want to say Nora or Tippy but not sure.

Posted by: lonely1275 May 12 2006, 07:49 PM

Is the title of this thread for real??? I can't believe that a woman would be attracted to someone that doesn't apreciate them. Come to think of it, it might be true. After all, I don't attract too many women.

Posted by: diane26 May 12 2006, 07:54 PM

QUOTE(lonely1275 @ May 12 2006, 04:49 PM)
Is the title of this thread for real??? I can't believe that a woman would be attracted to someone that doesn't apreciate them. Come to think of it, it might be true. After all, I don't attract too many women.
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Posted by: bondiguy May 12 2006, 09:47 PM

QUOTE(Bobaloo @ May 12 2006, 03:30 PM)
Hmmm.  A swearing thread???  I swear I've read (well at least looked at and skipped over) every post in every thread on this board and I just can't for the life of me remember a swearing thread.  I'll have to check for it.  I am sure I can add a little spice to that thread. 

In addition to fucktard, I am also partial to fuckwad.  I've said that one for quite a while. 

But when all else fails, a well-placed "meanie-head" can make a person cry.
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Ahhh you are very much a board whore around here... but I am the master.

http://www.ratemymelons.com/chat/Favourite_Cuss_Word-t652.html

Read on and learn my son grinning-smiley-003.gif

Posted by: Bobaloo May 13 2006, 10:59 AM

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 12 2006, 09:47 PM)
Ahhh you are very much a board whore around here... but I am the master.

http://www.ratemymelons.com/chat/Favourite_Cuss_Word-t652.html

Read on and learn my son grinning-smiley-003.gif
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How did I miss that???!!! coz.gif I do not remember that thread.

Talk about unharnessed potential. How could it have stopped at only 2 pages. When I get a chance, I'm going to get that thread jumpin' again!!!

Posted by: bondiguy May 13 2006, 09:28 PM

QUOTE(Bobaloo @ May 13 2006, 10:59 AM)
How did I miss that???!!!  coz.gif  I do not remember that thread.

Talk about unharnessed potential.  How could it have stopped at only 2 pages.  When I get a chance, I'm going to get that thread jumpin' again!!!
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We are all allowed the occasional lapse in concentration and judgement!

Get it kicking once more grinning-smiley-003.gif

Posted by: tripled May 13 2006, 11:55 PM

I think that a real man will treat you right, but some chicks like a guy to dominate them and control them.

but nice guys all the way

Posted by: Just Hangin May 14 2006, 02:01 AM

My woman loves a little bit of both from me tongue.gif

It pays to treat your wife with respect grinning-smiley-003.gif

Posted by: Bobaloo May 20 2006, 11:25 AM

I treat bitches right! grinning-smiley-003.gif

Posted by: Gnappster May 23 2006, 02:39 PM

QUOTE(Bobaloo @ May 11 2006, 04:31 PM)
here's the post I was talking about.  You should check out the thread and the link Gnappy posted.  funny stuff

http://www.ratemymelons.com/chat/index.php?showtopic=553&view=findpost&p=58989
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hahaha I forgot about that

QUOTE(bondiguy @ May 12 2006, 07:47 PM)
Ahhh you are very much a board whore around here... but I am the master.

http://www.ratemymelons.com/chat/Favourite_Cuss_Word-t652.html

Read on and learn my son grinning-smiley-003.gif
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s fuckstick in there? I always liked that one.

Posted by: Bobaloo May 23 2006, 03:06 PM

QUOTE(Gnappster @ May 23 2006, 02:39 PM)
hahaha I forgot about that
s fuckstick in there? I always liked that one.
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Hmmm. Fuckstick, eh? I don't think I've ever used that one before. Oh, wait. I just did.

Posted by: ndboxer May 23 2006, 03:10 PM

I've got to say that fuckerhead has always been a fav of mine.

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